Seeing SPs out and about in everyday life

[uncleg]

If you are by yourself....respect her privacy and let her initiate any contact she might desire.

If you are with your wife or significant other, immediately go over say, introduce the two.....this is who I see to get what you won't do...this why I see you...names probably won't matter.

If you are with one or both parents...again, beeline for the SP...introductions...and...this is why I can't move out of the basement, my rent money is all going to her...and I'm not gay...

 

[badbadboy]

If you are by yourself....respect her privacy and let her initiate any contact she might desire.

If you are with your wife or significant other, immediately go over say, introduce the two.....this is who I see to get what you won't do...this why I see you...names probably won't matter.

If you are with one or both parents...again, beeline for the SP...introductions...and...this is why I can't move out of the basement, my rent money is all going to her...and I'm not gay...

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Priceless :thumb:

 

[Cami Parker]

I always get emails from people saying I saw you at bla bla and now I want to SEE you, but nobody's ever said anything in real life. It wouldn't bother me if I was alone, but I'm usually to involved w my dog or my phone to notice anyone... I've walked by my closest friends without realizing it... Oops!

 

[Lurker 123]

I have found it extremely sexy to meet a sp in a public place. As stated ,I would not interfere with their normal life. However it would arouse my fantasy to make an appointment with her very soon!

 

[burcs]

The fact that people have to ask whether or not to initiate greetings boggles my mind.

 

[etlebutt]

I started these adventures about 5 years ago visiting the ladies at spa 540. A few months into it I was on my way to work reading a book on the bus - sitting in the back facing inward. In my peripheral vision this mane of blonde hair, looked familiar but i was into this book. As we all got ready to get off the bus I see her from the back, ya that hair looks like someone I know - someone I saw a couple of days ago for the first time. We are of the bus and waiting at the street light and I say 'Excuse me Miss, do I know you?' She smiles and we talk and I ask if I can see her again sometime - she says 'Absolutely'.

I saw her about 30 times as a client over the next year. She said she also knew who she was sitting next to on the bus - just for fun. We ran into each other about a dozen times on the bus and we openly flirted with each other. I remember one day in the summer she mentioned that it was a hot day again and I said 'Ya I hear ice can cool you down. We both grinned ear to ear as a few days before I brought some ice to a session for some ice play. At times she would get of the bus before me and tease with that sexy walk that women can do in tight jeans - I just had to make an appointment with her that day - she was lots of fun.

I remember once in the fall I was set on seeing someone from 1045 (I had since discovered erslist) but met the 540 lady on the bus - she flirted with me n raced my heart and I couldn't decide between Tia or Hailee. Tia or Hailee. So I saw Hailee with all that heart racing. I always wanted to find an escort with Tias youthful looks and Hailees enthusiasm.

I saw another escort from 540 downtown but we averted eyes and made no contact. And another independent escort on the canada line who I turned away from and didn't want to make contact as it wasn't the best session.

Another time on my way to work and I saw this woman I've seen often as a client, coming towards me. She smilled in her sexy way and my heart started racing and we started talking but I coulnt hear a word she was saying. I eventually asked if she was available today and she said 'Sure give me an hour. Ill text you' She was and is so so cool. I still see her.

Sure discretion is absolutely important but I think that escorts are people too and its ok to talk to them as people and approach them, but only if they're ok with it. They will let you know.

 

[Claire Monet]

Sure discretion is absolutely important but I think that escorts are people too and its ok to talk to them as people and approach them, but only if they're ok with it. They will let you know.

Absolutely.

I've only seen clients about 4 times in public, one recently. I'm not sure if he recognized me. We were both with someone and I gave him a little smile as we were crossing the street in opposite directions. Think I saw an eyebrow raise There have been so many times I could have been in proximity with a past client and not even have noticed it.

I would never want to be approached in public with someone saying my working name. A small smile, a knowing look, or, gauging the atmosphere, some small talk/flirting are all appropriate imo.

And, Cami, I have seen you as well.

For the record personally I don't think I look or act any differently in public than I do while I'm working. Apart from being partially naked upon greeting clients at work... I don't wear fake eyelashes or put on heavy makeup (smoky eyes excluded on occasions). From the ladies I have met their work and public appearance have been very similar. I think what some guys clearly don't understand is that ladies tend to dress up and such for photoshoots so the person behind the door might look a little more casual than the glamour shots. But that's a whole other topic.

 

[Cami Parker]

ooohhhh be sure to say hi next time, if you have a spare minute! I love meeting other ladies!

Absolutely.

I've only seen clients about 4 times in public, one recently. I'm not sure if he recognized me. We were both with someone and I gave him a little smile as we were crossing the street in opposite directions. Think I saw an eyebrow raise There have been so many times I could have been in proximity with a past client and not even have noticed it.

I would never want to be approached in public with someone saying my working name. A small smile, a knowing look, or, gauging the atmosphere, some small talk/flirting are all appropriate imo.

And, Cami, I have seen you as well.

For the record personally I don't think I look or act any differently in public than I do while I'm working. Apart from being partially naked upon greeting clients at work... I don't wear fake eyelashes or put on heavy makeup (smoky eyes excluded on occasions). From the ladies I have met their work and public appearance have been very similar. I think what some guys clearly don't understand is that ladies tend to dress up and such for photoshoots so the person behind the door might look a little more casual than the glamour shots. But that's a whole other topic.

 

[LM987]

Long story short.
An incident happened at my neighbours house a while back. Owner was away, so I had to track down their daughter.
Searching the internet, I found a post form a different country listed as " New Talent" along with her pictures.
A local search at that time and I found she was also working in the Vancouver area as well.

Then today, on CL, I see a post, and I am pretty sure it is someone who lives in my neighbourhood. I don't know this person, but have seen her out and about.

 

[Dick Ford]

I used to see a regular out and about quite a bit in our little big town, but never said anything more than, "Hey," if she made eye contact. I have also seen her when I have been out with my wife and she would flash the most mischevious, naughty grin and raise her eyebrows when we would pass. Such a huge turn on!

 

[silenceisgolden]

Is Simone still working?

Not that I'm aware of.

 

[westcoast555]

I used to see a regular out and about quite a bit in our little big town, but never said anything more than, "Hey," if she made eye contact. I have also seen her when I have been out with my wife and she would flash the most mischevious, naughty grin and raise her eyebrows when we would pass. Such a huge turn on!

You're OK with her doing that when you're out with your wife? Sounds like exactly what most people would not want to happen.

 

[Dick Ford]

Well, she made sure before she flashed a smile or made eye contact that my wife wasn't looking her way. I don't think my wife expects any women to look my way, so it was easy to be discrete. :lol:

You're OK with her doing that when you're out with your wife? Sounds like exactly what most people would not want to happen.

 

[hrnyjj]

Given all the above instances I now understand why some SPs refuse to see clients speaking their mother tongue
and this is also why I only keep my hobby outside my city of residence...

But I can imagine that any such "real-world" encounters, which must happen discreetly, can be much more arousing than an appointment...

 

[westcoast555]

As long as she was cool about it. Women are better at being subtle.

 

[shaunwhite]

LOL broke, living in parents' basement and not gay

 

[shaunwhite]

Hmm, well I have to ring in here-- once after a (late/last of the night) session with Sara, she asked me if I'd like to go for a drink across the street (turned out we went to high school together, one year apart ?!) ...of course I wanted to!

But I was so baffled/surprised/shy I made up some kind/congenail excuse. Facepalmed... should I try again? That was a few years ago, right around my divorce. eep:

 

[LisbethNova]

Do you guys have any stories or experiences seeing or running into SPs out in everyday normal life? I find it interesting to see how different they look in their normal lives, compared to when they are working.

Some places I've seen SPs who I've been clients of are out shopping on Robson, grabbing a coffee at Starbucks, working in a clothing store in Metrotown, and have seen quite a few on social media like Tinder and club pictures on Facebook. I remember seeing one girl I had visited sitting on the grass at English Bay on a date with some guy. I also remember meeting a couple of SPs out and about before finding out they were popularly reviewed SPs.

SPs are not living in a hole.. we have normal lives, normal jobs and normal families and dating lives just like you. Respect their privacy and see them as any other human being.

 

[passingthrough]

I have two separate incidents that sort of fit the bill;

A couple months back my first long term girlfriend drunk texted me at 1am, which is out of character (we don't talk much + she hates drinking) after not hearing back from her I did a quick check of some online profiles no one's supposed to know about only to find out she now works as an SP. I don't know her work name or number but judging by posts it looks like she started about a year after we broke up and still works a couple days of the month and that's enough to apparently support herself. I don't think her new boyfriend knows to be honest. Could be wrong.

The second, this isn't a hobby I engage in very often (first post since joining in 2013) normally I'll go out of town to see someone, however someone a little closer to home caught my attention that turned out to be my best experiences with an SP to date.

After seeing her the first time my phone automatically generated some contact information and some how got her real first name after our initial first texts. We already knew we were the same age but after seeing her a couple of times she popped up on my suggested friends on Facebook and instagram. Turns out our high schools were about 10 minutes from each other and she's friends with people I grew up with that I actually used to talk to regularly up to about 1 1/2 ago. I removed her from my suggested lists out of respect.

On top of that, she shops with the company I work for, at the location I started at (I work at a different location now but it's one of very few). I've never told her where I work, nor have I recognized her outside of her work, or at mine, and can't recall her name coming up in discussion with our mutual friends. Just kind of funny how someone can be at the edge of your life for so long and yet never really be aware of their existence.