I think I was helping my SP find something during work today, She look 80% like the SP, but I didn't know for sure. Huge difference when a girl is working and wear alot of make up. Clothing styles are different too, I am not a face guy. My friends complain how I don't recognize people I know on the streets. What do you guys do when you seem them on streets? How do you ask them?
Seeing SP on the streets
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You are mixing business with personal life. Their personal life does not include their business with you, so no need for a john to say hello other than when you are paying for their time.
What is it that you want to ask them? For a date? If that's the case, wait until you are alone, email/pm/phone, and set up a date.
Under no circumstances EVER do you ask them if you're that escort I saw 2 weeks ago
You will not only take them by surprise but you may lose them as an SP in the future because of your lack of judgement.
Sly
Funny this thread should start...
I happened to notice a SP moved in next to me.
No I have not said anything towards her about it. I don't think she remembers me.. I have said hello like any good neighbour would do, But thats about as far as I would take it.. Unless..... She says something towards me.. Maybe like asking for sugar or somethin
I happened to notice a SP moved in next to me.
No I have not said anything towards her about it. I don't think she remembers me.. I have said hello like any good neighbour would do, But thats about as far as I would take it.. Unless..... She says something towards me.. Maybe like asking for sugar or somethin
I've actually had this happen to me a few times. Very recently I was out clubbing Downtown Vancouver and guess who I run into on the street? My regular girl. We say hi and thats it. Damn she looked hot dressed up in club wear. Anyways, just smile and move on. When you're not on the clock then I'd not say anything at all, just smile...
Another time I was in a Shoppers and a SP comes around the corner with a hand full of condoms and lube. We laughed when we saw each other and ended up going for a quick cup of coffee afterwards but thats only with someone who you've seen many, many times and someone who is very comfortable around you.
Another time I was in a Shoppers and a SP comes around the corner with a hand full of condoms and lube. We laughed when we saw each other and ended up going for a quick cup of coffee afterwards but thats only with someone who you've seen many, many times and someone who is very comfortable around you.
Wtf?
and I thought I asked stupid questions?!
yeah
Im just gonna walk right up to that hot married guy I had passionate sex with yesterday and say hello to him and his wife...
LOL maybe they will want a threesome.
and I thought I asked stupid questions?!
yeah
Im just gonna walk right up to that hot married guy I had passionate sex with yesterday and say hello to him and his wife...
LOL maybe they will want a threesome.
As was previous mentioned - Discretion is advised
Circumstances will dictate the response. If unsure, limit your actions to eye contact and a discrete nod or smile. If you have appointment to see them within the next half an hour, chances are a friendly hello is o.k. I've actually run into an SP on the street not less than 10 minutes before an appointment and didn't recognized her until she greeted me.
Circumstances will dictate the response. If unsure, limit your actions to eye contact and a discrete nod or smile. If you have appointment to see them within the next half an hour, chances are a friendly hello is o.k. I've actually run into an SP on the street not less than 10 minutes before an appointment and didn't recognized her until she greeted me.
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I have one SP who has become a friend. We know each other's real name, and I think it would be ok for me to approach her and say hello. If I am with my SO, I would have some difficulty explaining where I met this lady. I belong to a couple of business groups outside of our provider-client relationship.
My friend gave me a gift not long ago, which I keep in prominent place in my home. I explained the connection by telling my SO the gift came from a friend in one of those business groups. I would introduce her as the friend who gave me the gift. However, I think the SP in question has enough sense not to approach me if I am with another woman.
I have recognized one higher priced SP in one of those groups. I have been tempted to speak to her at one of our meetings... when I can do so in private... and tell her I recognize her, and ask how she would feel about doing some personal business. I could also call her and tell her of our connection prior to making a date, and let her decide if she wants to make the date knowing of that other connection. Regardless of what she decided, I would then follow that up with a face to face introduction at a meeting, just so she knows we both have a need for discretion.
In any case, as has been mentioned in this thread several times... discretion is the better part of valour. Unless you know the SP personally, DO NOT SPEAK TO HER, or CALL HER BY NAME. "Marylou" may not be her real name, and you could cause her major embarrassment if she around others who do not know of her extra-curricular activities.
My friend gave me a gift not long ago, which I keep in prominent place in my home. I explained the connection by telling my SO the gift came from a friend in one of those business groups. I would introduce her as the friend who gave me the gift. However, I think the SP in question has enough sense not to approach me if I am with another woman.
I have recognized one higher priced SP in one of those groups. I have been tempted to speak to her at one of our meetings... when I can do so in private... and tell her I recognize her, and ask how she would feel about doing some personal business. I could also call her and tell her of our connection prior to making a date, and let her decide if she wants to make the date knowing of that other connection. Regardless of what she decided, I would then follow that up with a face to face introduction at a meeting, just so she knows we both have a need for discretion.
In any case, as has been mentioned in this thread several times... discretion is the better part of valour. Unless you know the SP personally, DO NOT SPEAK TO HER, or CALL HER BY NAME. "Marylou" may not be her real name, and you could cause her major embarrassment if she around others who do not know of her extra-curricular activities.
This topic has been discusses to death but anyways, it is an important one. The number one thing in this business is discretion from both parties. Way too many people out there with deep misunderstandings about the nature of this business. But more importantly, especially for pooners, this is an exciting alternative to the monotony of a committed relationship, so chances are you will catch them with their SO.
I haven't had an SO in quite some time and it has been my choice...it's just not for me right now. But I still expect discretion. I went into my favourite Japanese Ramen noodle house and at the bar was Amy, a Japanese girl I recognized from Hawaiian Girl Massage in Burnaby, sitting down with a girl friend. I had boinked Amy only a few weeks previous and we had a good connection. She looked up at me and I at her and then looked down, raised her eyebrows briefly and continued her conversation with her friend. I appreciated that and I guess, so did she.
Panther
I haven't had an SO in quite some time and it has been my choice...it's just not for me right now. But I still expect discretion. I went into my favourite Japanese Ramen noodle house and at the bar was Amy, a Japanese girl I recognized from Hawaiian Girl Massage in Burnaby, sitting down with a girl friend. I had boinked Amy only a few weeks previous and we had a good connection. She looked up at me and I at her and then looked down, raised her eyebrows briefly and continued her conversation with her friend. I appreciated that and I guess, so did she.
Panther
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If I could recognize her on the street, of course I would have kept it discreet. But I work at customer service and she was asking me questions. She look 80% like the SP but my SP is suppose to no speak much english. I am just really curious if she was the girl I know.
Wow! Are you kidding? I do not think you would want them to come over and say hello to you if you were with your SO or GF. This is their own personal time and like Palma said "Mind your own business."
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Whatever you decide to do, make sure the kids aren't around, if you have any.
Took my little girl into the Korner Cake, back in the day for a milkshake. One of the SW's I knew came in and sat with us. We talked, just passing the time of day. Couple others I knew also popped by the table to say hi. Later when I got home with the kid, my little six year old proudly told her mom she wanted to be a hooker when she grew up, because they were nice.
Took my little girl into the Korner Cake, back in the day for a milkshake. One of the SW's I knew came in and sat with us. We talked, just passing the time of day. Couple others I knew also popped by the table to say hi. Later when I got home with the kid, my little six year old proudly told her mom she wanted to be a hooker when she grew up, because they were nice.
What the heck are you thinking? WHat if this lady was the SP who you saw before - are you going to ask her when's her next client appt?
Or. What if she wasn't the lady SP and you implied that she was? Just as you may be headed toward some non commercial relationship with a hot lady you ask her, "Are you the lady I paid an extra $20 to come on your face?"
What's the next line after she says NO! Do you want fries with that?
What's the next line after she says NO! Do you want fries with that?
But sometimes you don't know where you know someone from. The other day I passed by a blonde on the street, and for a very brief second there was a look of recognition. But after she'd passed I couldn't decide where I might know her from. She could be a certain SP or she could be someone I met on business...
Then there are times when you actually start talking to someone you recognize, but don't know where from. I remember once having a long conversation with one fellow who I thought was someone I had met in Quebec, and then realized no he wasn't that person at all--he was someone I knew from a completely different context.
Then there are times when you actually start talking to someone you recognize, but don't know where from. I remember once having a long conversation with one fellow who I thought was someone I had met in Quebec, and then realized no he wasn't that person at all--he was someone I knew from a completely different context.
