I have a spouse. I see SPs regularly. Technically it's cheating but honestly I don't care. My spouse and I have our problems, she's great in many ways, but if I'm stressed I don't want to deal with her bs and need to unwind... I just view it as no different than smoking a joint, having a drink, going for a spa day... I'm not looking for emotional intimacy, just sex with a variety of beautiful women to release some stress. It's addicting, and once you start it's very difficult to stop. However, I view it as a "healthier" vice than alcohol or drugs. You don't hurt anyone as long as you play safe (everything covered). People will judge you but then drink to the point of damaging their bodies, drive drunk, piss the bed, argue with their spouse while drunk, or worse if they are a violent drunk, as if they are on some moral high ground. How do I afford it? High income. The more I make, the more stress and responsibility, the more I poon, the cycle repeats.
