I am glad you like my honesty I try to tell it honestly because I do not expect to see any of you guys personally unless you are a sexy SP or you happen to be a fellow Pooner partner for a MMF which I may undertake someday. And I really have no strings attached to my life that this hobby would affect. No SO, no kids, no job I mean shit just a young, respectful guy trying to fulfill some fantasies. I mean certain relatives will be ashamed, half my extended family pretty religious. Well my mom is kinda of the black sheep of the family, the wild one of 9 kids. She was the drinker, smoker of the family and had a kid at 17. So I may not be a surprise for them. To the my family though I am considered one of the better kids in my close family of us 5 kids. Only one to graduate college and generally the best behave. Older brother has some emotional problems, younger brother always in trouble with the law, younger sister has acting out issues gets upset easily. Well my older sister pretty good in healthcare single child but her husband kind of takes advantage of her financially she makes most of the money and hes good at spending her money. He has job but just not a very good paying one. And he also has 3 other kids from a two prior women and I think my sister helped pay for child support for the youngest of the 3 for a good long while. There is definitely elements of drama does not really bother me especially less after being on my own since college. My posts on here will eventually die down in the coming months maybe just comments and no more new threads. I plan to cut back to one maybe 2 encounters a month. And will probably do revisits unless some of the few girls I had on my radar are interested in meeting. I will probably continue writing reviews for personal reasons of the revisits but might not post if they are not much different.i like you jds, you don't like banks and you like to tell the truth, your a rare breed. as far as banks go td is a canadian bank with branches in the u.s., you should have little problem pulling $$$$ across the border without excessive services charges. i say this cuz my s.o. likes to save u.s. coin and cash it in when we go south(nobody honors exchange rates on coin). td in new york was happy turn several hundred $$ in us coin into real money for no charge simply because we have a t.d. canadian bank card. other wise we would have been charged a service charge. happy pooning my american bro.