I make it known if extras are on the table or not with whoever is working. They are pretty upfront about it. No point in taking the chance if you are unsure a HE is available. Better to be up front about it in a safe word way such as (extras) and leave out the explicit details. My problem with sawasdee is how hit and miss it can be. I will not even take a chance if the information available does not give me a feeling it's up to Yuki, fion, Nadia, full moon standards when it comes to the massage skills situation. It's ok getting a poor massage with a HE because at least you were able to get something out of it but to get a poor massage at sawasdee with no HE? That's just terrible. It would be a different story if it ended up being a great massage and no HE but I have a hard time booking for just a no HE massage. From my point of view having a great massage and a great finish is the best of both worlds. Fion will set you straight without any fears.