safety issues

[peter99]

i've read so many people asking for bbbj's and talking about DATY. aren't you guys worried about disease? i hate to be a downer, but i'm amazed that people will do this with an sp.
i mean absolutely NO offense to our beautiful local sp's...NONE! i'm talking about both parties involved. how do we know how clean we really are?
i only perform daty on actual girlfriends i grow to trust to be monogomous.
am i the only the one that worries about this?

 

[trawler]

peter99 ...

I think most of us worry about the health concerns. However, they are generally manageable as long as you follow these procedures:

1. Cleanliness at all times;
2. Preview Date to ensure no sores, redness, odors, etc;
3. Get full STD tests every 6 months; and
4. Always use a condom for full service.

I know this is no guarantee, but it does improve your safety significantly. In the Hobby, most people are very much aware of the health issues. In the Dating Game, much happens with alcohol and drugs being involved which loosen the Players' inhibitions and tend to to even more risk than Hobbyists and SP's are taking. It is impossible to trust all Partners in the dating game.

Bottom line: you are correct and no Daty/BBBJ is safe; however, the only absolutely safe sex is no sex and for Hobbyists that is not an option.

 

[Avery]

Peter, please do a search. This issue has been discussed ad nauseam and ad infinitum. In any case, the topic belongs in General Discussion or The Lounge, not here.

 

[bigben]

I COMPLETELY (but repectfully) disagree with the guys who are on here complaining. While the safety issue has been repeated several times, it can never be repeated enough in my opinion. Some guys don't learn until they either get the concept of safe sex drummed into their heads or until they receive the unfortunate consequences.

 

[Marshall]

This is beating a dead horse ... I agree with AVERY - take it to the discussion area and leave this for reviews.

If you don't want a BBBJ - I'm sure that all providers in this city will comply with your request.

Perhaps a Mod can move this thread.

 

[Tastie]

wow, take it easy guy's, the man was just asking a question. There are many thread on here that don't belong. There are also reviews of many of the girls that are repeated over and over again, but no one seems to complain about that. There is sp's advertising when and where they will and will not be, and that should not be in this section either. There is only one Mod. let him make the decisions.

 

[bigben]

Very well said.

wow, take it easy guy's, the man was just asking a question. There are many thread on here that don't belong. There are also reviews of many of the girls that are repeated over and over again, but no one seems to complain about that. There is sp's advertising when and where they will and will not be, and that should not be in this section either. There is only one Mod. let him make the decisions.

 

[peter99]

Please do a search on bbbj, this topic has been dragged out for so long it's starting to get annoying. Whatever you have to say has been said about a hundred times already.

if it's been discussed to death, why are people still even considering it? it obviously needs more drilling.


Don't your girlfriends deserve an actual boyfriend they can trust to be monogamous? Not one who runs around around with SP's?

i don't go to sp's while having a girlfriend.

everyone will do what they want. i'm just surprised these activities still go on. and when these same people are seeing all the same sp's...sorry, i think i'm done with this scene.
play safe everybody.

 

[Tastie]

Well Peter it can be a little scary out there. But if you can find an sp's that plays very safe, and as long as you wear protection things should be okay. Most of the very clean and safe sp's always use a condoms, never kiss, and never let you give them face. But I have found that the dollar talks, and not alot of the ladies can say no to it.

 

[Tastie]

It should be the other way around TJ, the sp's that play safe will be here for a long time. The one's that don't won't be here long.

 

[therealrex]

Seems like your opinion has less to do with what is safe for the ladies and more to do with your own preferences TJ

 

[peter99]

??????

Not offering BBBJ is playing it safe, I will agree with that, but also not offering DATY and DFK is too restrictive (IMO) and detrimental to business.

detrimental to business? how about detrimental to you and your sp's health? time to wake up man.
there is no difference safety-wise between DATY and BBBJ. even dfk has risk involved.
do some reading. it's attitudes like yours that boggle my mind.
so much fun can be had in a safe manner.

 

[rubintugger]

detrimental to business? how about detrimental to you and your sp's health? time to wake up man.
there is no difference safety-wise between DATY and BBBJ. even dfk has risk involved.
do some reading. it's attitudes like yours that boggle my mind.
so much fun can be had in a safe manner.

The big difference between DATY and BBBJ is the direction of the risk vector. DATY is a female to male transmission vector, whereas BBBJ is a male to female transmission vector. Hence, an SP providing BBBJ is risking infecting herself, while one providing DATY is at negligible risk for infecting herself. The client is the one at risk in DATY. And if she doesn't BBBJ, then the risk of contracting anything in DATY is lessened.

DFK is just not a risk factor. All these comments assume there are no visible lesions or growths, in which case, I wouldn't want to risk any contact.

Rubin
(Debate fueler)

 

[majikcalgary]

speaking of safety

First off, I don't mean to harp on anyone and what I have to say isn't refering to anyone at all.... but I have seen a few street scene posts in which I just shake my head. I see some of these specimens almost on a daily basis at my work place. Not near the T&C (thank god) but the area is quickly becoming forest lawns sister. I have overheard offers for BJ's and was even offered it on 2 occasions which I declined. Sorry, but these girls are already wired up daily and I refuse to assist them on their downword spiral. Maybe I am just witnessing the worst of the bunch.. maybe there are girls out there who take care of themselves. But would I personally go this route? My answer is a definate no. As they say money comes and goes, when your health goes, yer hooped. This admittedly is writen vaguely but you don't have to be that swift to read between the lines. And to those who will choose this option at least wrap it..... twice.

 

[mexman]

Some food for thought about safety

I copied a post and put it in the edmonton section on reviews, has bold print title sating READ THIS REVIEW on JUSTINE.
Well this is a post I came across on another site that shocked me to think of what are the girls really getting exposed to. This guy did a review on 9 or 10 girls which mostly work in parlors in etown and detailed fairly good about what he did, the his last review he does on Justine, who happens to be a tranny, and how he sucked this he/she's cock until the it came. He is also looking on the same sites for male SP's that will do the BBBJ and let him come in the mouth. And I would't be surprised if this happens the other way around as well. When he see's SP"s he is usually looking for DFK, DATY, BBBCIM, BBJCOF. Anyways, he is seeing the same girls we all do after what would appear to be unprotected sex in the highest risk areas. Makes me think twice, its been 15-20 yrs of clean fun, and I personally don't like to see this. Getting checked for any STD's every six months doesn't serve moral gratitude when in that time you may have infected a shit load of people. And Ya know what, I like eating muff, I like kissing and I like lots of other stuff. I see the same girls as most guys on here. And the guy that just left may well have had swallowed the trannies load last night. Food for thought.

Mex

 

[Lauren]

You don't have to be dirty to make money...

Just an SP's opinion who happens to play safe... you really don't have to offer it all up to last in the business. Personality accounts for much of your repeat business and when you play safe, you attract a clientelle who also likes to play safe. Sure there are clients who prefer to see another girl if they are requesting an activity I just don't offer, but I also have a lot of clients that come to see me because they don't have to worry that I've just offered BB to the last client who came through the door. There are all types of SP's and all types of clients. Bottom line, you decide how you want to play and find the gal who suits you and your needs.

 

[mexman]

Lauren fits the bill....

Lauren, thanks for your comments and the previous post is absolutley what I was getting at. I may have to resort to only women who I know are in that category. Besides that, you are one of the most intelligent women in the business. Just that after I read the guys review, I said to myself holy shit.
you and I have met several times and I know the session is as safe as they come. It was only the first time we met, that you were so out of control that I ended up getting from you a BBBJCIM, DATY, and BBanal. Since then, by the book!

Cheers
Mex
PS... please read this backwards..... !!!wish only I, true not is sentence last second

 

[Lauren]

Good Grief...

Mexman... you got some issues... LOL....

 

[mexman]

No kidding I have issues.....

Lauren, your such a great sport. You are the kind of girl a guy wants to marry, not the kind in last posts comment. I'll bet your eyes almost popped out seeing that, even tho everyone who knows you also knows it can't be true. And....I don't dream of those things. Mabe one of these days I will shed the cloak, and we will reveal who the mexman is, it is like the Zorro, nobody knows(or a limited few), only happiness is left behind, and I only hurt the bad people who steal the riches from the poor, and make love to the ladies in such a way that they cannot wait for the black suited saint to return for that quick ride over the moon, as they shout ---- me mexman, ---- me...........oh god there's those issues again!

Mex