Safe sex

[maxx50]

I am a resent member to perbs , so this has most likely been addressed meny times before ,but I am going to throw it out there again.
Safe sex ? When using am SP ,how safe is it ? THe guy usally is covered with a condom for BJ's and intercourse,strait or Greek, But all the rest is wide open with no protection ,ie, digets ,daty, oral . 69.... ext,ext. . The perbs only saving grace is ...trusting the provider to put safety and her heath ahead of the money. And do they know what to look for for sigeds of std's,do any of us?
I am not tring to disperage any of the girls , Multiable partners always come with increased risk. And I would say that there is a greater risk with picking someone up at abar or night club who is in to one night stands every weekend , and on to the next name less guy or girl at the next party. There under standing of std's is less than....0( I mieght be wrong on that )
Hopefully the young sp's that are in the buiss to day are awear.and pro active. Although haveing sex is never really safe ... just what is acceptiable risk to get your rocks off?

 

[maxx50]

Oh I have gone to the Std sites .And most Std have few to no visable siges.
But that is not my point I was just puting it out there to see what others though whan they use Sp's or have sex with anyone. Or is it just it is always in the back of our mind , ...and then #2 head is hard ..#1 just does not want to think about it.

 

[LonelyGhost]

safety is always an issue ... but more people die in car accidents than have died in most wars ...

you have a greater chance of dying in the bathtub than from an std ...

be safe ... that's all you can do.

 

[maxx50]

How meny SP's and Perbs on this site get checked for std's on a regular bases , say monthly, with out any signs of infection?Do you go to the free clinic or your own doc., and what do you generally get checked for?
I think it is something that we all should think about when involved in said hobby .or any casualsexual activity ,that it is only good if everyone acts resposiably and care for the well being of other's involved.
We all know there are plenty of people out there that don't care , and that is how Aids and most of the std's are still being spread. B.C. has had the highest rate of std's in Canada for the last 30 years.. I guess it is the good life here on the west coast ,and everyone and his dog comes here...... to get apeice of ....

 

[Lolita]

I used to get a full spectrum check from my regular GP, because she's non-judgmental and and knows the history of my health from 1989, every 3 months. Although she said I can get away with every 6 months because of my impeccable record keeping of clients (phone numbers) and use of condoms for oral on a man, I decided every 3 months for the weery pooner who asked. Not ONE std, thank you very much.