rules to poon by, or select clients by,

[sevenofnine]

what has your experience taught you in this hobby,
so that you have set guidelines for yourself or rules, that if you break you know you break at your own peril.

and im not really talking about hygiene or respecting other peoples time,
if a girl asks you to take a shower and it ruffles your sensibilities your beyond hope,


for me,

don't spend any bad money, I mean don't spend money on a so so sp or someone ;you are barely ok with, in the hopes it will get better, now matter how good her reviews are, it just isn't worth it.


keep to a budget, still working on this,


don't get into a blame game simply walk away,

when a girl makes a decision easy for me as in not to see her, or she refuses to see me, don't cry in your beer. THANK Her actually,
lots of reasons, as to why I think,


Even though I count myself lucky as in sp's I see we become friends,
In some ways its better if your not,

 

[Slapshot1]

I have one rule,
Keep fantasy and reality separate.

 

[johnlowe]

I have one rule,
Keep fantasy and reality separate.

What is your definition of reality or fantasy ??

 

[Elle Diablo]

What is your definition of reality or fantasy ??

Yea! Inquiring minds want to know!

 

[toadsub]

Yea! Inquiring minds want to know!

Isn't all fantasy? An escape from reality for at least an hour.

 

[morementum]

Please.

1. READ. THE. WEBSITE.

Well, as at least half of the ads have at least one main piece of misinformation (age) and have pictures that are rarely real and/or recent - why are you insisting on trusting the website?

 

[toadsub]

Well, as at least half of the ads have at least one main piece of misinformation (age) and have pictures that are rarely real and/or recent - why are you insisting on trusting the website?

Use your hooker math and check TINEYE

 

[westwoody]

1: One outstanding session is better than ten acceptable sessions.

2: Watch what you say, some people are rock-solid sober and blabbermouths drunk.

3: If you find a great provider do all you can to nurture the relationship. Really great ones are fabulous.

 

[toadsub]

3: If you find a great provider do all you can to nurture the relationship. Really great ones are fabulous.[/QUOTE]

Totally agree with this point!

 

[metoo113]

I have one rule,
Keep fantasy and reality separate.

Remember that the lady is being paid to be your lover. She may or may not really care for you. “We’re all stories, in the end. Just make it a good one, eh?”

 

[Elle Diablo]

Isn't all fantasy? An escape from reality for at least an hour.

In answer to your your skepticism ...

Use your hooker math and check TINEYE

This is usually what amounts from pooner fantasy.

3: If you find a great provider do all you can to nurture the relationship. Really great ones are fabulous.

Totally agree with this point.

This is reality.



IMHO. :high5:

 

[badbadboy]

1: One outstanding session is better than ten acceptable sessions.

2: Watch what you say, some people are rock-solid sober and blabbermouths drunk.

3: If you find a great provider do all you can to nurture the relationship. Really great ones are fabulous.

I wish I had said this!

Three great points to poon by IMHO.

 

[Slapshot1]

What is your definition of reality or fantasy ??

That's a fair question, though difficult to accurately explain, and maybe even harder to understand. But I'll give it a shot.

Reality.... Father, husband, career, coach, friends, essentially everything in life before discovering and acting on this wonderful world of escorts.
Fantasy.... Forums such as this, beautiful escorts, paid encounters.

Where do I start?
I personally don't let these two worlds collide. I have experience in this particular situation which made me come up with my rule.
When I log in or walk in, I leave my reality behind.
When I log out or walk out, I leave my fantasy behind.
My priorities predominantly lie with my real world, and I try not to give a great amount of information about it to the fantasy world.
My fantasy world is an escape, we all need it from time to time. It never enters my real world because of the negative repercussions that could entail.
Yep, common sense, you bet, but easier said than done.
A while back, I made the grave mistake of letting my fantasy world encroach my life. My work suffered, my health went to shit, and I found myself stressing out more than I needed to.
This rule may be construed as me being cold and heartless, which is not the case at all. As a matter of fact, I find myself being more relaxed, I didn't let forums affect me in a negative way by getting emotionally involved in different points of view, and subsequent encounters have been far more enjoyable for both parties involved.
Call it a coping mechanism, call it whatever you want, but by simplifying it down to this, has made my life all around that much better

 

[morementum]

Use your hooker math and check TINEYE

Exactly and why "READ THE WEBSITE" is shite advice as the websites are typically fantasy/lies/scams. If you have fake pictures, fake age and implied services that you don't offer, how on earth is that site of any value to someone reading it.

Better rule is "DON'T TRUST WEBSITES".

 

[Man Mountain]

Exactly and why "READ THE WEBSITE" is shite advice as the websites are typically fantasy/lies/scams. If you have fake pictures, fake age and implied services that you don't offer, how on earth is that site of any value to someone reading it.

Better rule is "DON'T TRUST WEBSITES".

I understand your frustrations but you can't paint them all with the same brush (some of them won't allow it ) I don't believe in punishing the ladies that make the effort to post detailed info about themselves and their services because of the bad ones who don't live up to the promises made on their web sites, if they bother to post one. That's what the reviews are for: telling each other if they live up to those promises or not in our opinions. I know it's not a perfect system but it's the best we have.

 

[kes458]

1: One outstanding session is better than ten acceptable sessions.

2: Watch what you say, some people are rock-solid sober and blabbermouths drunk.

3: If you find a great provider do all you can to nurture the relationship. Really great ones are fabulous.

Good and simple advice. I too wish I had posted this gem.