Rude emails!

Hollybaby

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I get really weird or rude emails about once a week or so, but yesterday I got one that I thought was absurd.

He starts out saying how he's never had sexual fulfillment, he's 30 something, and I'm his dream girl and he can't stop thinking about me. Then he talks about all the things he'd "do" to me. (very inappropriate!)

Then he says he wants to take me away to Mexico or the Caribbean.

The email was totally out of line, full of grammatical errors and best of all, he didn't even read my website because it says clearly that I'm not available for international travel!

I write back telling him his email was offensive, and that I could tell he didn't read over my site and that if I got any more emails from him that were offensive they would be ignored.

So today he writes me and tells me I'm a cruel, horrible, insensitive person and he didn't like me anyway! WTF?? Whereas yesterday I was his dream girl that he couldn't stop thinkin about.

Take your medication buddy.
 
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Hey Holly.....

Don't let the wackos get you down!.....

Maybe emails like that are meant to allow you to appreciate the nice and normal guys out there;)


Keep smiling!:)


50

and ps...

i like this pic:


 

hitrack

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I would have replied money talks and bullshit walks. Pay pall me $5000 and well see what we can do.

PS: death to all
hello kitty
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So sad to see that there are too many assholes out there with nothing better to do than harrass and insult the ladies. Sorry to hear that you are a victim of this.

Holly you are a sweet and wonderful person and I couldn't say anything less about you. Trolls like that when they email you?
Totally pay no attention to them and like Eurosabina said......

Just delete them and pay them no mind. This is just part of the
unfortunate side of the SP world that you will have to deal with the right way. Ignore them!!!! Also in your email browser is there an ignore button, or block sender button?

If there is you can put that guys email addy on your ignore/block list and this will block anymore crap like that coming from him if he persists on proving what an asshole he can be.

Take care Holly and don't let these idiots get to you.


P.S. Hey 50.....if you think her pic looks good you should see her in person !!:) :D



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50 Mile Radius said:
Hey Holly.....

Don't let the wackos get you down!.....

Maybe emails like that are meant to allow you to appreciate the nice and normal guys out there;)
Gee Thanks for the compliment 50 !!! :) :eek:

Seriously...Sorry to hear about that Holly.
 

IQof10

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He's one sick puppy

Ignore him or he will never go away. He may get his "kicks" this way.
 

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Hollybaby said:
I write back telling him his email was offensive, and that I could tell he didn't read over my site and that if I got any more emails from him that were offensive they would be ignored.

So today he writes me and tells me I'm a cruel, horrible, insensitive person and he didn't like me anyway! WTF?? Whereas yesterday I was his dream girl that he couldn't stop thinkin about.

Take your medication buddy.
Simple, just hit the DELETE button.
I used to have a note on my website specifying that I will not respond to emails that request information that is easily available on my website.
It helped me to distinguish between serious emails and requests and 'those other emails'.
Bottom line...don't give him the attention because that is what he wants.

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Yman

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Wow ....HARSH

I think it's fair to let him know in a succint manner that his enquiries were innappropriate and advise him to read over your site. Otherwise the poor sod might not know or understand that his behaviour is unacceptable. And lets face it this guy is admitting to being 30 and he's had little or no sexual fulfillment to this point in his life. He's oviously got romantic ideals (wanting to wisk a girl away to an exotic local) but it sounds like he's watched too much porn and he's had too little real experience in establishing a connection with women. He's probably profoundly lacking in confidence.

And if this guy is rude back in response, like you said, then it's a perfect time to employ the ' block' or ' delete ' function.

Nina, IQof10(good name) and Sabina, do you think I'm being off base ?
 

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EuroSabina said:
Just ignore it, nobody needs enemy!

We have to deal with people like that in our everyday life, if you are smart you know how to handle them and you will be ahead of the game. Don't be rude tho.:)
Sabina...You are one Smart lady !!!
 

CJ Tylers

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Well Holly, you're a very cute young lady ;) I can't fault the fella for his infatuation. As for his insanity, ignore him... he was either jerking your chain or is actually mental... best to stay well away from people like that.

Us single fellas have a tought time of it, when it comes to the love dept... I guess it just got to this guy and he went off the deep end :p
 

Hollybaby

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No no, I wasn't rude, just made myself perfectly clear that he was out of line.

But you're all right, I should have just ignored him! There's no point dealing with these sorts of peope. They're obviously not serious.

I was actually hoping this thread might inspire other ladies to share their odd/funny emails or calls! You know, just from nutcases that say hilarious things and aren't really true clients.

Thought it might be amusing, this is "The Lounge" section after all :)

Thanks for everyone's advice/sympathies.
 

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Good point Holly, would have liked to have seen more input on this from
other ladies as well. It would have made for an interesting topic.

You are welcome too for the advice and sympathies, there are lots of people
here on this board who care about the girls in Perbland.:)

Keep on rockin babe !


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Stew

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Way off topic, but is this girl cute or what? Marvellous pics on your website.

Stew
 
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