Rreality check

[the old maxx50]

with a few threads talking about SP friends and SP addicts .. I want to set some thing strait .

I am guilty of this my self ,, but i Know better .. SP , escort what ever is just their job , not a mark they bare ,, and if they are friends . e don't go around saying my SP friend ,, or if they have a drug problem i don't need to define it as a mn SP with a drug problem .. it actually has very little to do with ether

WE don't define our friends by .. my Fireman friend , or stock broker friend or lawyer unless it add something to the conversation ..

Yes when we have an SP as a friend we talk about it on this board ,, and maybe we meet them as a client ,, and we would like to have sex with them all the time but that is the case with many women we know , right ?

So weather you are a friend with an SP or some one else there should not be much of a different how you treat them ,, and don't really expect a different in how women will treat you ,, there are many different types . and they all can treat you good and bad ,, just like us guys ..SP a\has nothing to do with it .. no more then a girl that works at Mc D s ..


AS for addicts does that fact that she works as an SP ,, make any more different then if she worked at WallMart .. Addictions exist in all walks of life and job .. If tey are some one you know ,, you should be acting the same no matter what ,, If you are a person that cares and want to help .. the that is what you will do , no matter what their line of work ,

Meeting them as an SP may make it easier or harder ,, that really depended on what your attitude is towards girls that work as SP

 

[FunSugarDaddy]

with a few threads talking about SP friends and SP addicts .. I want to set some thing strait .

I am guilty of this my self ,, but i no better .. SP , escort what ever is just their job , not a mark they bare ,, and if they are friends . e don't go around saying my SP friend ,, or if they have a drug problem i don't need to define it as a mn SP with a drug problem .. it actually has very little to do with ether

WE don't define our friends by .. my Fireman friend , or stock broker friend or lawyer unless it add something to the conversation ..

Yes when we have an SP as a friend we talk about it on this board ,, and maybe we meet them as a client ,, and we would like to have sex with them all the time but that is the case with many women we know , right ?

So weather you are a friend with an SP or some one else there should not be much of a different how you treat them ,, and don't really expect a different in how women will treat you ,, there are many different types . and they all can treat you good and bad ,, just like us guys ..SP a\has nothing to do with it .. no more then a girl that works at Mc D s ..


AS for addicts does that fact that she works as an SP ,, make any more different then if she worked at WallMart .. Addictions exist in all walks of life and job .. If tey are some one you know ,, you should be acting the same no matter what ,, If you are a person that cares and want to help .. the that is what you will do , no matter what their line of work ,

Meeting them as an SP may make it easier or harder ,, that really depended on what your attitude is towards girls that work as SP

Well at the end of the day, if you want to help SP's recover from drug addiction all the power to you, but don't be surprised if you're disappointed and broke at the end of the day. Addiction's a hard thing to over come.

 

[luvsdaty]

with a few threads talking about SP friends and SP addicts .. I want to set some thing strait .

I am guilty of this my self ,, but i no better .. SP , escort what ever is just their job , not a mark they bare ,, and if they are friends . e don't go around saying my SP friend ,, or if they have a drug problem i don't need to define it as a mn SP with a drug problem .. it actually has very little to do with ether

WE don't define our friends by .. my Fireman friend , or stock broker friend or lawyer unless it add something to the conversation ..

Yes when we have an SP as a friend we talk about it on this board ,, and maybe we meet them as a client ,, and we would like to have sex with them all the time but that is the case with many women we know , right ?

So weather you are a friend with an SP or some one else there should not be much of a different how you treat them ,, and don't really expect a different in how women will treat you ,, there are many different types . and they all can treat you good and bad ,, just like us guys ..SP a\has nothing to do with it .. no more then a girl that works at Mc D s ..


AS for addicts does that fact that she works as an SP ,, make any more different then if she worked at WallMart .. Addictions exist in all walks of life and job .. If tey are some one you know ,, you should be acting the same no matter what ,, If you are a person that cares and want to help .. the that is what you will do , no matter what their line of work ,

Meeting them as an SP may make it easier or harder ,, that really depended on what your attitude is towards girls that work as SP

Just because you're not willing to help someone out financially,doesn't mean you love that person anymore or less.I'm an alcoholic & my parents didn't love me any less because of it.They didn't help me out financially but they always stood by my side no matter what i did & they always made me face up too the music(they were my parents 1st,friends 2nd) Rock bottom for me was when i woke up in a jail cell & the officer woke me up in the morning,telling be that i crashed into another car. I thought about it long & hard, i thought about how i could have killed some innocent person......That's when i decided to quit cold turkey,the 1st year was the hardest for me & the thing that kept me from drinking again was the fact that i didn't want that feeling again. The feeling of knowing that i could have killed somebody that night.
My friends & family stuck by my side without judgement & i'm grateful for that,but they never fed my addiction & i'm even more grateful for that.After i quit i had "friends" that always use to say "awww c'mon just have one drink,it won't hurt" I found that i had to change those friends & the circle of people that i hung around with.
We all have addictions,some people drink to much,some shop too much etc etc, but it's our choice & only we can decide to change our behavior,it's nice to have friends & family that are there for you,more so just for someone to talk to that's not mixed up in the same addiction as you are kind of too get a different perspective(if that makes any sense?)

 

[sevenofnine]

I don't know,

I refer to her as my sp, well because she is the only sp I have seen in the last two years. I don't see any other sp.
And I know she sees other guys, one of them keeps asking for a three some. So its not like I'm confused about this issue.

She is also a friend because I have asked her out. etc etc, which I'm not going to go into it is beyond the scope of this hobby and no one's business, And to be honest were still trying to work it out ourself.
So it is what it is, she is an sp, the one that I use.

And were trying to work out the issues of our friendship.
Which frankly is no concern of anyone, I just make mention of it because it does happen. Its normal. Some time it works sometimes it doesn't. She doesn't deserve to be run down if she doesn't return my friendship or it doesn't work out.

 

[SFMIKE]

Congratulations on being able to overcome the addiction, but is it proper to say "I was an alcoholic"?

I always thought it was more proper to say "I am an alcoholic" because an alcoholic is is only one drink away from going back on the stuff.

Not a criticism, just a question of semantics. And here is hoping that you remain forever off the stuff.

 

[the old maxx50]

I was not talking about addictions that is another thread .. I was talking about .. how we keep categorizing what kind of addict or friend these women are by saying SP .. when why just not say people ..
That all this post was about ..:

 

[yazoo]

Insecure people say a friend's occupation if they think it will make others think more of them.

Someone might say my lawyer friend, or my cabinet minister friend, or my stripper or porn star friend, if they think it will give them more cred with the people they are talking to.