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Bmjames

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Hi, I am very new to all this and I have tried booking various sp’s but they all turn out to be a scam wanting a deposit. And i once tried sending a deposit to one but the banked stopped tye transaction and marked it fraud. Any suggestions for who i can go to that is real? Please and thank you
 

Gear Jammer

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Hi, I am very new to all this and I have tried booking various sp’s but they all turn out to be a scam wanting a deposit. And i once tried sending a deposit to one but the banked stopped tye transaction and marked it fraud. Any suggestions for who i can go to that is real? Please and thank you
This part of the forums are for reviews. Immediately below there is a section for questions, the 411 section.
Yes, there are many scams.
That aside, the simplest way is to search this forum with the providers name and last 4 digits of phone number (ie Jenny 5309), sometimes different combinations.
If there are no reviews or mentions, asking for deposit, don't.
Some legitimate providers do ask for deposit, particularly first meeting, maybe 10 percent at a guess?
Simply spend some time reading reviews for the last 6-12 months, should give you some ideas.
If the provider, or price, or something looks too good to be true, it probably isn't.
Good luck!
 

cordova

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Hi, I am very new to all this and I have tried booking various sp’s but they all turn out to be a scam wanting a deposit. And i once tried sending a deposit to one but the banked stopped tye transaction and marked it fraud. Any suggestions for who i can go to that is real? Please and thank you
My suggestion is to read through some reviews, find someone who strikes your fancy, and then find their ad and reach out. That way you are less likely to be tempted by all the scams out there. There’s a wealth of knowledge in this board.
 
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Bmjames

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This part of the forums are for reviews. Immediately below there is a section for questions, the 411 section.
Yes, there are many scams.
That aside, the simplest way is to search this forum with the providers name and last 4 digits of phone number (ie Jenny 5309), sometimes different combinations.
If there are no reviews or mentions, asking for deposit, don't.
Some legitimate providers do ask for deposit, particularly first meeting, maybe 10 percent at a guess?
Simply spend some time reading reviews for the last 6-12 months, should give you some ideas.
If the provider, or price, or something looks too good to be true, it probably isn't.
Good luck!
Thank You, and sorry about posting in the wrong section i am new to the website so I did not know.
 
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TriedandTide

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Thank You, and sorry about posting in the wrong section i am new to the website so I did not know.
This is the 411 section, no worries. you are in the right place.
There are a number of good providers. Best thing you can do is look up their name on here,and the last 4 digits of their adevertsied phone number.
You can avoid alot of scams by staying off LeoList, until you are familiar with all the scams.
Try Tryst.link
Do you know what you are looking for yet?
You can also try the spas too, some of them are good to get your feet wet, but beware everything is an upcharge, so expect to spend 80-100$ extra for the extras on top of the payment.

As you learn, you will start to findsome ladies who you really enjoy. I've developed nice relationships (friendly/business) with a few providers, and i am not straying far from them.
If the ad says Incall,Outcall,and ONline, its almost always a scam (there are a couple who aren't).

go check out this forum we all posted on There is alot of good information there.
 
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Lets just say if you can't find reviews here, then the ads are fake. Also ones that lead to telegram, onlyfans and posts with weird fonts are also fake
 
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