Role Play

[mistressfreyja]

Humiliation sessions

I've had sessions where I couldn't stop laughing. So this just isn't a far cry for me.

When I'm turning someone into a barnyard animal, is it not my right to laugh?

And then to spank them if they laugh in return?

I think it's all about taking ourselves out of "paying bills, and health, and family, etc etc."

Surely there can't be something wrong with laughing...even in a bdsm setting.

I love laughing. Wish I could more often. Try to provoke it as often as I can. Especially in certain sessions.

It sounds like you had a great session Miss Jasmine! Maybe not perfect, or how it was 'scened.' But when is it ever?

It's a great thread and a great post.

 

[billstar606]

laughing

i find that many of the good dommes can handle the laughing and use it to their purpose. laughing is tension reducing and as a bottom I sometimes try to use humor to delflect the onslaught or the more edgy humilliation. many dommes can see that for what it is, and allow it ,and laugh along. but on more than one occassion i have had Her give me just enough room to hang myself, then.."so you think this is a laughing matter?" . after than "oh shirt" she seemlessly transitions to another gear in the session; keeping me off balance.

On the other hand we have tried some things and it just doesn't work after both of us giving it a real effort and end up just looking at each other and laughing..ok on to something else..

 

[trackstar]

i find that many of the good dommes can handle the laughing and use it to their purpose. laughing is tension reducing and as a bottom I sometimes try to use humor to delflect the onslaught or the more edgy humilliation. many dommes can see that for what it is, and allow it ,and laugh along. but on more than one occassion i have had Her give me just enough room to hang myself, then.."so you think this is a laughing matter?" . after than "oh shirt" she seemlessly transitions to another gear in the session; keeping me off balance.

On the other hand we have tried some things and it just doesn't work after both of us giving it a real effort and end up just looking at each other and laughing..ok on to something else..

Although that may be more accepted in a professional domme/sub relationship, I am more interested in sexual role play in a non-professional situation. Being able to let go of reality and fall into the fantasy is my problem. Some parts make me feel silly, while other parts just make me laugh my ass off, which of course I do not want to do, as that could be quite degrading to the partner I am playing with, not to mention being the ultimate mood killer.

Personally I would love to find a woman confident enough to guide me through fantasy role play. Not the kind that involves power exchange or humiliation or anything like that, more like living out how I would have liked real life situations to have turned out in the past.

Such as, when I was sixteen, a friend of my parents slept on the couch in the front room one night. The only thing that separated us was a wall and she turned me on so fucking badly. I laid there on my back just imagining what she looked like laying there sleeping. What she would look like without her clothes on. How much I wanted her to come into my room and sit at the edge of my bed and start caressing my chest as she leaned over to kiss me. I would be nervous and my heart would be racing, but that would only excite her more as she put one hand over my heart and used her other hand to guide mine down to feel her wetness...

Well, you get the picture. If I could get in the mind-frame to take that role-play seriously from beginning to end? I guess you could say it would be a dream come true

 

[billstar606]

Although that may be more accepted in a professional domme/sub relationship, I am more interested in sexual role play in a non-professional situation. Being able to let go of reality and fall into the fantasy is my problem. Some parts make me feel silly, while other parts just make me laugh my ass off, which of course I do not want to do, as that could be quite degrading to the partner I am playing with, not to mention being the ultimate mood killer.

Personally I would love to find a woman confident enough to guide me through fantasy role play. Not the kind that involves power exchange or humiliation or anything like that, more like living out how I would have liked real life situations to have turned out in the past.

Such as, when I was sixteen, a friend of my parents slept on the couch in the front room one night. The only thing that separated us was a wall and she turned me on so fucking badly. I laid there on my back just imagining what she looked like laying there sleeping. What she would look like without her clothes on. How much I wanted her to come into my room and sit at the edge of my bed and start caressing my chest as she leaned over to kiss me. I would be nervous and my heart would be racing, but that would only excite her more as she put one hand over my heart and used her other hand to guide mine down to feel her wetness...

Well, you get the picture. If I could get in the mind-frame to take that role-play seriously from beginning to end? I guess you could say it would be a dream come true

i think that many dommes are very good fantasy facilitators. And many can try to really make it work for you. i thnk that sometimes the best role play takes a fw tries to really get to the core of what we want.

The thought that came to my mind was when the domme wanted me to try a fantasy she thought i would enjoy. i was a bit reluctant, but nothing is better than a lady that has the passion to make something work. In that case i tried she tried, i tried to let her know it wasn't working, she realised it wasn't working and we had a good laugh and went on to plan B. But this is someone i had probably ssioned with a dozen times in the past and we knew a bit of where the other enjoyed going.

So which of the ladies here reminds you of that lady in the next room. as you mentioned it. One immediatly came to my mind