Review Jenna last visit to Vancouver before retirement

[Hipster Doofus]

What an eye opening thread eh?

But hey, I didn’t make up the term "high maintenance" - those types of clients exist and they range from excessive email/phone conversations to smitten, love-lorn and suffocating behaviors.

I've said it before and I'll say it again.
This industry is like no other - IT IS dysfunctional (on both sides) Go ahead and pat yourself on the back for being a nice guy but it doesn’t really mean all that much. Every successful escort will have a tale or two of a nice client that went too far.

Does that mean you cant have a relationship or friendship with an escort? Of course not. Just don’t expect to have one with every escort you've become smitten with. An escort might not be able to tell you that to your face, (think of your own hesitations telling your peer that he/she needs to take a shower.) and that’s why it’s up to pooners to be cognizant of the fact.

The guys that enjoy themselves the most are ones that don’t take themselves too seriously and KNOW that its cash for flesh and not cash for love.

There's no blame...It’s an easy mistake to make. Look how fucked up I became!

 

[shank]

Coffee

Yo Jenna:

Let's have coffee when you're in town! Cookies too.

Shank

All this talk of "ripoff" reminds me of a great session I had with Jenna. I posted a review. This gal was so "naive" back then that I had to remind her as I left to put away the browns she left lying on the table.

I think this oversight then and now is just Jenna and was/is unintentional. She has done the right thing in offerring it back, late as usual.

 

[Jennabc]

I am sure we have all had enough of this thread, but I just found out something very disturbing.

Are we all not on some unwriten rule of confidence and trust? No one here wants to be revealed in there personal life and most don't want to be revealed here, true?

Lurker, I have just been informed that you have been PM'ing certain people on this board some extemely private information about me.

The men on this board like to go on and on, especially you Desertdog ( BTW I am sorry you have had such a hard time in this industry, you are very negative towards the possibility of a nice girl actually being out there) about how there should be relations beyond just client/SP business.

So I went ahead and had some sort of friendship with some of my clients and now all my personal information is public news? Maybe now you guys will understand that there are two sides here. I am always very kind, caring and quite obviously too trusting. I guess this is what happens when we give in a little and try to open up. Lurker, I am sick thinking about how many people you told this to, but since that is already done, I can only ask out of some sort of respect for me or this industry, could you please leave me alone. Please just forget you knew me and forget what I have said to you in confidence. I would never, under any circumstance devulge personal information about you or anyone else I have met in this industry. I think that is the worst thing imaginable for someone in this business to do. I don't think that I am being unreasonable.

I am again sorry to rant and rage here, but maybe we can all kind of remember that we are all supposed to be in this whole unspoken bond of trust together. I doesn't only work one way. All of the SP's out there already have to put up with a public critique about every flaw on their bodies, and every move they make sexually and have that either complimented or trash talked publicly. Most women in this business are stong enough to handle that or really they shouldn't be in this business, but when private lives start to be revealed publicly and with out discretion, I think that is definately crossing a line. I don't think that too many of you men could handle even one bad reveiw and then reading about everyone else joking and commenting on the same bad things. Now add to that, your personal life and personal information leaking out without your consent! I realise that all of you are taking the same chance with SP's but maybe when some of the girls are a little reserved or hesitant, you can remember things like this!

Thanks again for your support and all of the PM's and e-mails I have received have really helped to put a smile back on my face! I don't think that most of you out there will ever know how much that can mean at a time like this!

Luv, Jenna~

 

[Jennabc]

Julia,

As already mentioned in several posts, I have tried to pay him back his money but he has refused. How is anyone supposed to pay someone back if you have no way of doing so?

You and Lurker obviously have a different relationship than Lurker and myself. What would you have done in my situation?

Also, unless Lurker was telling me stories, I have been the only one he has seen in quite a while now. Maybe he has changed since you khew him!

I also wouldn't say that you know me 'very well'. I can't remember the last time I have spoken to you. At least 2 or 3 years?

Luv, Jenna~

 

[Lurker 123]

I am sure we have all had enough of this thread, but I just found out something very disturbing.

Are we all not on some unwriten rule of confidence and trust? No one here wants to be revealed in there personal life and most don't want to be revealed here, true?

Lurker, I have just been informed that you have been PM'ing certain people on this board some extemely private information about me.

. Now add to that, your personal life and personal information leaking out without your consent! I realise that all of you are taking the same chance with SP's but maybe when some of the girls are a little reserved or hesitant, you can remember things like this!

To Jenna ,
There is nothing to hide. The only person I PM to is Curley. He asked me one question and I just given one answer.Otherwise I never gossip about you.Unless Curley went behind and added some interesting extras. I would like to hear from any other person come forward from this board to whom I have spoken to through PM about your private life!!!!!!

If there are other gossiping about you,it won't be from me.I haven't leaked out nor I want to !Your privacy is as important as mine!!!

Again me too ,I have to thank someone on this board to talk behind my back. Whoever it was, please do not play a trick on me!
Hardly anyone on this board met me in person.

To Julia and Me. We only had 2 and a half hour encounters that was back in January before I went regular with you. There is nothing between us. I believe she comes in because she just wants to say a fair word for me.

I have back off a day ago . Thanks to whoever it was like to stirr things up! I am not impressed at all!!!!

 

[Curley]

Unless Curley went behind and added some interesting extras.

I expressed concern to Jenna about the later portion of your PM, nothing more.

 

[Jennabc]

Julia, you and I and almost any other SP out there that knows either one of us knows that we don't now, and never have gotten along. That is long over and no need to try and be nice now. I know how you feel and you know how I feel. A two minute phone conversation about my 'bad incident' as you so nicely put it and a half hour beer that I was having out with Amy and then you showed up hardly means we are 'friends'. I am trying to let this thread die, and I think that it was pretty much over untill your post. I only added my last post about trust in this business because it was related and appropriate.

Lurker, it doesn't matter to who, how much or why, you had no right to devulge any personal information about me. No excuse, no exceptions!

Curly, regardless of the information given to you, don't you think that would be my call and not his? I suppose not! Thanks anyways for your time!

Luv, Jenna~

 

[Curley]

Jenna ... in my email to you I "expressed" concern for you, I did not make any decision ... you have the opportunity to express your views about the situation ... not Lurker. If my comments were incorrect, correct them to me via email.

Since I have erred again ... I apologize.

 

[Sir Woodster]

Illegitimuse non carborundum!

 

[Calgary69]

Julia.... you are right this thread is getting out of hand.

DD... an industry does not have to be a legitimate business. I happen to agree with Jenna on that point. For example the hacking industry. This one unfortunately has a lot of drawbacks. In all my pooning years I too have seen a lot of that side of it. Drugs, theft and betral of trust to name a few of the things I have seen.

I have only seen Jenna once so my view of her is limited. But from what I have seen, she does have a nice girl spirit. Personally, if Lurker and Jenna had the relationship that Lurker claimed, then this should have been settled off the board.

Whatever the case may be ..... its over... done.... friendship or whatever has died because of this thread. So lets just let it end here and now.

Victoria Mod....please lock this thread before anyone else gets mad and says things they can never take back!!!!

 

[Lurker 123]

This thread should have died long time ago. Someone at the back wanted to take advantages of the situation . He wanted to gained some sort of trust some Jenna so that he would gain an over night stayed with Jenna. That was exactly what his PM to me was about!!He specifically asked me if Jenna could be trusted!

To that person,shame on you. I only sent you a PM before Jenna came out to explain the situation. At that time I was very hurt. Before Jenna explanation I had no clue what had happened that night!

I am a very open person ,I don't hide anything!

After Jenna came out, I had admited my mistakes serval times. I personally had apologised to Jenna serval times through the thread here as well as e-mails. Everything was settling down and you have to add oil into hot fire !You ask yourself what is your intentions!!?

 

[Victoria Mod]

Victoria moderator believes in non interference. (except in the face of false or spiteful reviews/comments)

The two principles are willing combatants and are both "contributors" to PERB. The criteria for "the right to fight" has been met. However I will be monitoring closely.

Non principals please keep your comments in check.

 

[Lurker 123]

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Lurker, it doesn't matter to who, how much or why, you had no right to devulge any personal information about me. No excuse, no exceptions!

Curly, regardless of the information given to you, don't you think that would be my call and not his? I suppose not! Thanks anyways for your time!

Luv, Jenna~ [/B]

I apologised for that leak as I expressed my doubt before you explained your situation in open. At that time ,I had a rage too!

 

[Lurker 123]

Victoria moderator believes in non interference. (except in the face of false or spiteful reviews/comments)

The two principles are willing combatants and are both "contributors" to PERB. The criteria for "the right to fight" has been met. However I will be monitoring closely.

ThanX Victoria Moderator,
This matter ,as we all know, is between me and Jenna. I have expressed myself earlier to back off and let everything cool down.

I personally do not mind to reiterate again asking everyone "DO NOT" add fuels to the burning fire. It is none of your business to stir things up behind the scence. Face to face discuss openly like a man not a chicken!If you don't stop ,I will delete the whole thread completely!!!!


To Jenna ,I don't understand why you turn everything against me. I have apologised my mistakes serval times already!!!

One minute you said you don't want the whole world to know about you;next minutes you have started again. Haven't you read my e-mails to you for the last two days . Read them again,I guarantee you will feel better!

 

[Double O Behave]

Dessert Dog

For a guy who has been ripped off and fears the repricussions of posting a review you sure blast this poor guy for keeping some things private!

 

[Lurker 123]

Re: MOD Good Call...

Lurker, you stated you don't hide anything. Well, tell us who this person is that you PM'd?

Lurker, on another note. Why are you apologizing? Is it not true that you gave $400 to Jenna and she did not return?

Has Jenna apologized to you or expressed remorse for hurting you and leaving you hanging that evening?

If this is not true, then you owe me and the rest of the board an apology. If I get into the foxhole with someone, I expect for them to hang tough and not hightale it when the fire comes.

The DesertDog

It was Curley.He even came out to admit it!

I apologised because I had given Jenna" Fault accusation." The reason I don't want my money back is, that $400 is my last gratitude to thanks Jenna all these months all the joys she has given me .I have lost my joy with another woman since I divorced two years ago. I didn't care who Jenna is or was,but she was the only woman who has put the joy back to me! I e-mail her asking her to keep the money and the gifts!

No, she did not call me back that was why I started this thread. My heart was very hurt as it might be the last time I met her. I was wondering what went wrong. In a normal circumstance , someone would have explained to me in details later (couple of hours ). But there was no phone call from her nor could I contact her!

To the incident .Jenna should have apologised to me for she owed me a detailed explanation on time. To the thread, I had blown everything out without knowing the other side of the story! So I owed her an apology for ruining her good name. In a way I apologised for not trusting her because we did have a very good relationship. Many times we just talked without sex. We have so much in common!

My apology only limited to the parts of this thread before Jenna came out to explain .

Yesterday afternoon everything was cooling down nicely and I even sent Jenna an e-mail saying "let be friends again!"

Even this morning before I went to work,I check the thread once more . Everything was nice and quiet. This afternoon at around 5p.m., I was shock to see the fire started again. You know exactly who started it. That was someone behind the scene!

As I said ,in front of the scene everyone is a gentlman.We share our opinions openly. There was no hard feeling and many very wise comments and advices. I personally have to thanx everyone for your councilling. Very very constructive to my personal life!
I am glad I understand I am a high maintenance client, so I have to watch out for myself too!

 

[Victoria Mod]

I believe there is some closure now and its time to lock down this thread. I do not believe there is any more to discuss or points to make.

thank you for being civil during a messy situation