retired sp now very sick got me all reflective

[shyboy123]

I just learned that an SP I saw quite some time ago and since moved on with her life trying to start over recently was diagnosed with a condition that is basically debilitating over time and not much hope for recovery (no nothing contagious). She was definitely on the right track for a new path, and this came out of nowhere for her. It looks like she is taking it pretty well on the outside, but I am sure she is feeling the weight of the world is on her. She has very few options now for taking care of herself.

What really struck me was how it made me feel. I've been thinking about the poor girl for a couple of days now, and how sorry I felt for her and how I hoped things worked out for her. She really could use a break in life. I only saw her a few times, and while for me they were pleasurable the connection was not out of this world or anything. She was just a very pretty young girl that shared her body and time with me. I am sure she would never even remember me, nor should she I guess.

There is nothing I can or should really do for her. Even though I like to help people, I would never want to invade her privacy or violate her new identity. Even anonymous would be creepy no matter how well intentioned.

I guess I was just reflecting that while us boys & girls on this board much of time only share fleeting moments in transaction & pleasure, we are still human and prone to caring or feeling for each other - if only just wishing that person well or hoping their life goes as planned, and certainly that nothing bad would happen to them like serious illness. So ladies while us guys can be pretty anonymous or forgetful to you, remember that for many of us you leave a lasting impression and memory, and would always rather hear you moved on in life and were happy and healthy.

</end of cheesy reflection>

 

[newatit]

read my post to the would be who is just hopping into this hobby and wants a mentor. exactly just what was being talked about.
Their are a few of us on this board who have played Angel to a few gals in tough spots like this, much has been written about it. Our BC social system has enough built in assistance that she should have some benefits coming, but if you really want to add to your hobby, go talk to her, find out what you can do if anything, and would be willing to do. You got something out of her, give her something back if it works for you. Several of us have. More than once.

 

[Cock Throppled]

read my post to the would be who is just hopping into this hobby and wants a mentor. exactly just what was being talked about.
Their are a few of us on this board who have played Angel to a few gals in tough spots like this, much has been written about it. Our BC social system has enough built in assistance that she should have some benefits coming, but if you really want to add to your hobby, go talk to her, find out what you can do if anything, and would be willing to do. You got something out of her, give her something back if it works for you. Several of us have. More than once.

I completely disagree. The OP mentions she is retired and moved onto another phase of her life. She might want t keep it that way.

He also does not mention how he came to know her new identity now and her present medical condition. That's some pretty heavy shit to just stumble across.

For an anonymous for client to show up with information like that could be a big shock for this woman.

If she is out and gone from the business, she probably wants to keep it that way.