As the holiday season rolls on, I would like each of you to think about what we ask of the professional companions we see.
Rain, sleet, or snow, we ask them to come to our private homes. We ask them to trust that we are a decent person. We ask them to share one of the most intimate experiences two people can share. Imagine your sister standing there knocking at the door having no idea what to expect from the man they are about to meet.
We complain if they seem a bit nervous or apprehensive. We are offended if they do not provide a long list of acronyms. We seem unconcerned if providing these services could lead to a serious illness. We are disappointed if they do not look as if they just walked out of the Victoria Secret's catalogue we happened to be reading when all of the sudden we decided to make a call. we even complain if she does look like she walked out of a Victoria Secret's catalogue but had a little surgical assistance to get there.
I had the enormous pleasure of dating a wonderful girl who also happened to be a professional companion. I know the toll that this life placed on her. In the early part of this year, she took her own life. While this can not be placed on her decision to be an escort, it was definitely a contributing factor.
So, if you can not remember anything else, remember that the girl knocking on your door is first and foremost a human being. The girl inside might not be the brave intrepid person you see on the outside.
Have a great holiday,
Jon Claptix
Rain, sleet, or snow, we ask them to come to our private homes. We ask them to trust that we are a decent person. We ask them to share one of the most intimate experiences two people can share. Imagine your sister standing there knocking at the door having no idea what to expect from the man they are about to meet.
We complain if they seem a bit nervous or apprehensive. We are offended if they do not provide a long list of acronyms. We seem unconcerned if providing these services could lead to a serious illness. We are disappointed if they do not look as if they just walked out of the Victoria Secret's catalogue we happened to be reading when all of the sudden we decided to make a call. we even complain if she does look like she walked out of a Victoria Secret's catalogue but had a little surgical assistance to get there.
I had the enormous pleasure of dating a wonderful girl who also happened to be a professional companion. I know the toll that this life placed on her. In the early part of this year, she took her own life. While this can not be placed on her decision to be an escort, it was definitely a contributing factor.
So, if you can not remember anything else, remember that the girl knocking on your door is first and foremost a human being. The girl inside might not be the brave intrepid person you see on the outside.
Have a great holiday,
Jon Claptix
