Rema

[AlbertaBill]

Advertizes on leolist, locanto and tryst as a non-binary very open-minded date. She has no breasts, lots of public hair and, as her ad states, a big clit that loves to be played with. She gets incredibly wet.

i see her for a GFE experience. She is a fantastic kisser and uses her tongue with skill everywhere else. Her ads list her activities, and all the acronyms are included. Just tell her what you want and she is game. With me s a regular, she has been flexible on pricing. I won’t give the details.

A different experience, in that she is.not a gorgeous model, but very enjoyable for me. Very down to earth and really wants to please. I see her about every two weeks at her incall near View and Cook.

 

[Cyrano D]

Advertizes on leolist, locanto and tryst as a non-binary very open-minded date. She has no breasts, lots of public hair and, as her ad states, a big clit that loves to be played with. She gets incredibly wet.

i see her for a GFE experience. She is a fantastic kisser and uses her tongue with skill everywhere else. Her ads list her activities, and all the acronyms are included. Just tell her what you want and she is game. With me s a regular, she has been flexible on pricing. I won’t give the details.

A different experience, in that she is.not a gorgeous model, but very enjoyable for me. Very down to earth and really wants to please. I see her about every two weeks at her incall near View and Cook.

You’re a braver man than I AB. Top surgery scars give me the willies. 😬

 

[RobBC]

You’re a braver man than I AB. Top surgery scars give me the willies. 😬

Why would your preference of not being with a SP with surgery scars imply that AB is somehow "braver" than you? Or are you insinuating that to be with a non-binary provider requires more courage than being with a SP who isn't non-binary?

This is kinda like saying "you're brave for being with a redhead because redheads give me the willies".

 

[Canyon]

Why would your preference of not being with a SP with surgery scars imply that AB is somehow "braver" than you? Or are you insinuating that to be with a non-binary provider requires more courage than being with a SP who isn't non-binary?

This is kinda like saying "you're brave for being with a redhead because redheads give me the willies".

Maybe pumped the brakes bro as you kinda went down this road last week and back tracked. He’s entitled to his opinion without you jumping on him !!

 

[Cyrano D]

Why would your preference of not being with a SP with surgery scars imply that AB is somehow "braver" than you? Or are you insinuating that to be with a non-binary provider requires more courage than being with a SP who isn't non-binary?

This is kinda like saying "you're brave for being with a redhead because redheads give me the willies".

All I said was top scars give me the willies. That’s it. In fact, all scars give me the willies to some degree. You’ve pulled conflict out of thin air through your unconscious filters and your quick and lazy logic.

 

[Doglover250]

I don’t think he meant anything rude or discriminatory at all. People have different tastes and preferences, and having boundaries doesn’t mean someone is judging or disrespecting anyone. We know there are some guys who will fuck anything that moves (bi, gay, trans women, cis women, non-binary).

 

[vazimollo]

We know there are some guys who will fuck anything that moves (bi, gay, trans women, cis women, non-binary).

and goat.

 

[RobBC]

All I said was top scars give me the willies. That’s it. In fact, all scars give me the willies to some degree. You’ve pulled conflict out of thin air through your unconscious filters and your quick and lazy logic.

I don't think you're being malicious, and I do accept that you genuinely find scars unpleasant. I'm not arguing that you secretly have some particular prejudice against trans people.

What I'm trying to point out is the potential impact of the way you expressed it, rather than your intent.

In a discussion about being with a trans person, saying “you're braver than I am; top surgery scars give me the willies” can land very differently from simply saying “I'm not comfortable with surgical scars.” For someone experiencing gender dysphoria, particularly someone who has had or is considering top surgery, describing the body they've chosen to live in as something that gives people “the willies” can reinforce exactly the kind of feeling they're already struggling with — that their body is somehow disturbing, abnormal, or something other people should recoil from.

The concern I'm trying to raise is that even without any conscious prejudice or intention to hurt anyone, a seemingly casual comment like this can reinforce negative perceptions about trans bodies and potentially be hurtful to people who are already struggling with how their bodies are perceived. And in a public forum, comments like this can also contribute to shaping how other people think about trans people, particularly when those kinds of comments go unchallenged.

And you're right that I made an assumption about what you meant by the “braver” comment. I shouldn't have presented that assumption as fact, my bad, and I apologize for doing so. We all bring our biases to conversations like this, and my jumping to a conclusion there reflected mine (I've seen through people close to me the hurt of offhand comments around this subject).

Having said that, I don't think the concern I raised is “conflict out of thin air.” There's a legitimate distinction between what you intended to communicate and how a comment can reasonably be received in its particular context.

If you meant simply “scars make me uncomfortable,” that's a perfectly understandable personal preference. I'm just suggesting that there are ways to express that preference without making someone else's surgically altered body the punchline.

 

[d_b_99]

Sir, this is a review board for hookers.

 

[Cyrano D]

I don't think you're being malicious, and I do accept that you genuinely find scars unpleasant. I'm not arguing that you secretly have some particular prejudice against trans people.

What I'm trying to point out is the potential impact of the way you expressed it, rather than your intent.

In a discussion about being with a trans person, saying “you're braver than I am; top surgery scars give me the willies” can land very differently from simply saying “I'm not comfortable with surgical scars.” For someone experiencing gender dysphoria, particularly someone who has had or is considering top surgery, describing the body they've chosen to live in as something that gives people “the willies” can reinforce exactly the kind of feeling they're already struggling with — that their body is somehow disturbing, abnormal, or something other people should recoil from.

The concern I'm trying to raise is that even without any conscious prejudice or intention to hurt anyone, a seemingly casual comment like this can reinforce negative perceptions about trans bodies and potentially be hurtful to people who are already struggling with how their bodies are perceived. And in a public forum, comments like this can also contribute to shaping how other people think about trans people, particularly when those kinds of comments go unchallenged.

And you're right that I made an assumption about what you meant by the “braver” comment. I shouldn't have presented that assumption as fact, my bad, and I apologize for doing so. We all bring our biases to conversations like this, and my jumping to a conclusion there reflected mine (I've seen through people close to me the hurt of offhand comments around this subject).

Having said that, I don't think the concern I raised is “conflict out of thin air.” There's a legitimate distinction between what you intended to communicate and how a comment can reasonably be received in its particular context.

If you meant simply “scars make me uncomfortable,” that's a perfectly understandable personal preference. I'm just suggesting that there are ways to express that preference without making someone else's surgically altered body the punchline.

Rena is non-binary.
Now you’re making this a trans issue.

 

[dave dee]

Might be time for a seperate trans/non-binary space here. I myself would like to explore such suggestions/reccomendations. TOFTT & all that, some of us might like to broaden our horizons I reckon

 

[thirstybeau]

I think some guys need to find other hobbies instead of jumping on everyone’s review or someone who has different opinions. Been a member since 2002 is freaking long time and can get to you special when you get really old

I agree with you here especially Cyrano D just randomly jumping onto a thread about someone he clearly has no interest in seeing just to say something about their physical appearance gives them the willies