Any of you girls ever call a regular client, because you were sitting at home bored out of your mind and wanted some company?
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I've had gals in AMPs call me with a "gee, haven't seen you in a while, maybe you'll come by to visit?", which is an invitation to go the the AMP and do business.
If a client calls a SP for company, then that is business.
If a SP calls because she wants company, then there should be no money involved as the client is fulfilling her need. The exceptions are if business activity is part of the companionship or if the SP makes it clear upfront that money is expected even in the absence of business activity.
Certainly there have been postings of SPs wanting some kind of travel or skiing activity or whatever, offering their companionship in exchange for the expenses being paid. And there are clients who have enjoyed such an arrangement just to have a friendly companion out-and-about. And, if there is business activity, then money is involved again.
If a client calls a SP for company, then that is business.
If a SP calls because she wants company, then there should be no money involved as the client is fulfilling her need. The exceptions are if business activity is part of the companionship or if the SP makes it clear upfront that money is expected even in the absence of business activity.
Certainly there have been postings of SPs wanting some kind of travel or skiing activity or whatever, offering their companionship in exchange for the expenses being paid. And there are clients who have enjoyed such an arrangement just to have a friendly companion out-and-about. And, if there is business activity, then money is involved again.
Why do you guys start these threads that always end up getting me flamed lol. I was thinking exactly the same thing (should I call you Cock or Mr. Throppled??). We know of course if I said it however I'd get the old "crossing the line" thrown at me by some (Ass who I think is 85) followed by a PM asking me if something is true when he already has his mind made up anyway followed by yet another PM threatening that if I am not careful I'll be exposed here. Too funny !!!!!Cock Throppled said:
Does this thread not also raise another issue (also previously discussed here numerous times) about calling clients at home. I am assuming that this would be cleared before such a call would be made.
Doesn't make sense that some would say we are crossing the line, are a bunch if idiots that can't differentiate "work" from a real date etc but yet the ladies can call us. If she calls us from home btw, it IS a date (or as a friend) and NOT working unless a call is pre-arranged of course.
If it is business she is looking for (as she sits home bored) then she either needs to book more shifts (if she is in a studio) or increase her advertising (if she is an escort) so her phone is ringing more and she can make her business grow further and find more regulars.
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I believe I concur with the previous post but will do so perhaps in a more "relaxed" fashion.
I personally think that to call a regular violates the client/ SP discretion. Discretion is important to most individuals and for a sp to call a client out of the blue is just risky. Personally, I think the idea behind seeing the ladies is there are no strings attached. Perhaps email (if it is out of the blue and discreet) is a more reasonable way of going about being in touch. If both parties say, hey, lets talk, call me at such and such a time, then yes, it is feasable. Otherwise, it is violating the discretion of the client and the trust the client puts in the SP by giving a phone number for confirmation if you get a random phone call from this individual. I could be wrong but thats my take.
I personally think that to call a regular violates the client/ SP discretion. Discretion is important to most individuals and for a sp to call a client out of the blue is just risky. Personally, I think the idea behind seeing the ladies is there are no strings attached. Perhaps email (if it is out of the blue and discreet) is a more reasonable way of going about being in touch. If both parties say, hey, lets talk, call me at such and such a time, then yes, it is feasable. Otherwise, it is violating the discretion of the client and the trust the client puts in the SP by giving a phone number for confirmation if you get a random phone call from this individual. I could be wrong but thats my take.
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BS Detector said:Does this thread not also raise another issue (also previously discussed here numerous times) about calling clients at home. I am assuming that this would be cleared before such a call would be made.
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The sp could use email - more discreet
dick slap said:What SP would call a client at home? That's insane. Unless otherwise stated.BS Detector said:Does this thread not also raise another issue (also previously discussed here numerous times) about calling clients at home. I am assuming that this would be cleared before such a call would be made.
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The sp could use email - more discreet
Caryn
That's funny. I was very sick last year and a lady I knew well sent an e-mail with her cell# asking me to call. Problem was that when I did, I became a stalker (with great lies and exagerations posted on boards in fact, as to how many times I called). Point is, ya just can't worry about what other crap people post and believe and if you have a rapport where you can call, then call.Meiko said:
I'm sure this thread will get many and varied responses but in the end, will it really matter what the responses are? Any two people know between them, what transpires between them. Anyone else is simply speculating.
Sounds like some quality proactive damage control their BS. Which considering the info I have heard from both POONERS and SP's, you need to do.BS Detector said:
Listen, I normally don't care if you have issues with the lines that you want to cross. I suppose we can all have our opinions whether or not calling someone 12 or 16 or 20 times in a day is normal. But it does become my business though when a SP brings it up to me, asking my opinion now doesn't it.
Then again it is probably all just a massive smear campaign.
pleaseturnover said:
this is soo sad....
let me put it kindly.. ya, she will call.. but u bettr got some dough!
Obviously, most SPs aren't going to telephone a client without prior permission. I respect my clients as they respect me. Unless they tell me I can call them, I won't.
Personally, I find that e-mail is a good option for me. I prefer to arrange most meetings via e-mail as I don't like giving out my number unless necessary. I don't like my phone being lit up at 3am or when I am at work unless I give someone permission to call me.
Also, it depends on the SP and client relationship. One or two of my regulars I chat with nearly every day. Some communicate via e-mail a few times a week.
But, then again, I am lucky to have some wonderful regular clients.
bella
Personally, I find that e-mail is a good option for me. I prefer to arrange most meetings via e-mail as I don't like giving out my number unless necessary. I don't like my phone being lit up at 3am or when I am at work unless I give someone permission to call me.
Also, it depends on the SP and client relationship. One or two of my regulars I chat with nearly every day. Some communicate via e-mail a few times a week.
But, then again, I am lucky to have some wonderful regular clients.
bella
I've had sp's call me clearing with me first that it was ok to do so,to get together sometimes it was for company sometimes to chat no monet exchanged hand unless sex was involved, and this I understood upfront, once however when my regular called me and it happen to be my birthday I got a freebie. completely un expected.
Not always. I had really hot phone sex with a past client, long distance, on my dime. I didn't want anything from him but to talk about our mutual interest in things outside of vanilla.eljudo said:
Also, I have called an almost client, again long distance, just to say hi. He may never be a client, but I like him as a person, and want to keep in touch.
It's not always all about the money.
Damn! You're right. Hey you two perberts, I will be sending you an invoice soon for my phone bill. What was I thinking, seeing you as people and not just an income! Sometimes people do connect as people Cosmo. I know its hard for someone as charming as yourself to believe, but it does happen.Cosmo said:
Maybe not, but if you hadn't seen that acountant for a couple years(whatever the reason), and he felt like he:Cosmo said:
a) did a good job for you
b) valued your business
c) enjoyed working with you
Why the hell wouldn't he call you for more business? And why wouldn't an SP call for the same reasons?.....guess it's never happened to some of you!
BRAVODakota Wood said:..... but it does happen.
there are berberts that did experienced this ..... ones that did experienced this but could never brlivr that it was for real ..... ones that thought it was for real, but it was not ..... ones that would love to experience this ... ones who dream about this but scared shittles to say it ... ones who think all this is ONLY about $/hour .... and ones who do not give rats ass about stuff like this .....and ...... of course there are the ones who will post just to stir some shit
did I miss any of the "perb poster type"
