So i have read here somehwere that sp on leolists are either a hit or a miss, most leaning on the miss side with people encountering sp that doesnt look like their photos even when verified. What are some of the red flags i should look out for when trying to go for independent sp on LL? I have my eye on a few sp but im worried abt getting catfished, is 120 for a hh too low? what are locations where they tell you to go that might raise a red flag? asian sp with slender figures are my preference if u have any reccomendations!
Red flags
- Thread starter seeker69
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I would recommend lily at bodytree for asian with slender body, good service and good price
Red flags I’d watch out for:
- if their face is in the picture, probably a scam. Most providers won’t show their face (some do, but very few). If their picture is really them, then they don’t want their face out there. Or if the picture isn’t of them, just a representation of them, then there won’t be a face on that either as to not have you believe they’re someone else when you arrive.
- if they have the “New Account” icon on their profile, that could be a red flag too, especially when you’ve seen their profile on there before. They just rotate thru email addresses/phone numbers when guys catch onto their scams
- if their phone number isn’t a local area code, but their ad doesn’t say they are travelling, that’s usually some guy somewhere trying to get you to send a deposit for an appointment that will never happen
- ignore the ones that say something like “go to my onlyfans page to get in touch with me to book”. Scam.
Always try to do a reverse image search. That’ll usually help you weed out the ones who are just using some random photo of some hot chick somewhere.
And at the bottom of many ads, there is that little area that says “other ads by this poster” or something like that. Some of the scammers get lazy or aren’t aware this is there and you can see there the same ad is posted in like 4 different cities across the country on the same day with all of the exact same details. Obviously those ones are scams too!
- if their face is in the picture, probably a scam. Most providers won’t show their face (some do, but very few). If their picture is really them, then they don’t want their face out there. Or if the picture isn’t of them, just a representation of them, then there won’t be a face on that either as to not have you believe they’re someone else when you arrive.
- if they have the “New Account” icon on their profile, that could be a red flag too, especially when you’ve seen their profile on there before. They just rotate thru email addresses/phone numbers when guys catch onto their scams
- if their phone number isn’t a local area code, but their ad doesn’t say they are travelling, that’s usually some guy somewhere trying to get you to send a deposit for an appointment that will never happen
- ignore the ones that say something like “go to my onlyfans page to get in touch with me to book”. Scam.
Always try to do a reverse image search. That’ll usually help you weed out the ones who are just using some random photo of some hot chick somewhere.
And at the bottom of many ads, there is that little area that says “other ads by this poster” or something like that. Some of the scammers get lazy or aren’t aware this is there and you can see there the same ad is posted in like 4 different cities across the country on the same day with all of the exact same details. Obviously those ones are scams too!
i have personally been scammed by some who don't end up looking like the person i saw in photos, and it turns out, that these same people are 2x more likely to not render a service. surprisingly, i haven't cancelled in these situations, although i will definitely do that next time around.
in terms of checking for these catfishes, i think you are basically trusting your gut feeling and looking for the common thing, like enhanced photos or something of that sort. moreover, when the photos are too compelling you should try to be twice as careful. i recommend looking up the photos and trying to validate everything. reverse image search is good. google lens is a good way to do that. and sometimes you have to go the extra mile to find the image online, meaning you look up all their images multiple times. The reverse image search on Google Lens lets you zoom into specific areas of an image. This is particularly useful because you won't always find a match with the entire image, but if you zoom into a detail like a face, you can usually find what you're looking for. so i will try to lookup the image effortlessly sometimes to make sure i don't get scammed.
often times, it's really hard to tell, and you're basically at the mercy of the poster. you have a decision to make when you see them. if you really wanted to see the person you saw on LL instead of the catfish you met in person you're better off cancelling.
i hope this helps. if you have any questions about anything please let me know.
in terms of checking for these catfishes, i think you are basically trusting your gut feeling and looking for the common thing, like enhanced photos or something of that sort. moreover, when the photos are too compelling you should try to be twice as careful. i recommend looking up the photos and trying to validate everything. reverse image search is good. google lens is a good way to do that. and sometimes you have to go the extra mile to find the image online, meaning you look up all their images multiple times. The reverse image search on Google Lens lets you zoom into specific areas of an image. This is particularly useful because you won't always find a match with the entire image, but if you zoom into a detail like a face, you can usually find what you're looking for. so i will try to lookup the image effortlessly sometimes to make sure i don't get scammed.
often times, it's really hard to tell, and you're basically at the mercy of the poster. you have a decision to make when you see them. if you really wanted to see the person you saw on LL instead of the catfish you met in person you're better off cancelling.
i hope this helps. if you have any questions about anything please let me know.
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