Red flags, provider edition
- Thread starter blakealridge
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Financial carrot dangling is always a bad sign. Clients who want to be generous with money don't talk about it, they just do it.
And on a related topic. How you can tell if a guy has a genuine financial domination fetish; don't just jump on the offer like a hungry shark who smells blood, make him beg and prove his money is worthy of your taking.
When a man wants to do good for you by contributing value to your life, monetary or otherwise, he just does it. This applies to clients and men in your personal/civillian life.
Real men don't dangle carrots.
Real men don't dangle carrots.
wow. interesting. I love lengerie and always ask. I love to plan ahead and almost always give a days notice. I love the anticipation. I will also reconfirm the morning of at the sp's best time to confirm. I also have an out of town number as I moved provinces. I have always shown up on time and dressed as if I am on a first date. It is amazing that sp's in Nanaimo have seen me. I think it would be rude to send a dic pic. A simple intro suffices and I have also used references of sp's that she has had a duo with.I find guys who make lingerie requests to be a red flag. I get dressed up and they no show
Guys who say they are nervous or concerned about privacy, I notice those guys cancel more often than others
I prefer short notice appts so guys who want to book two hours or more in advance are also red flags for me. Too much can happen in two hours, leading to no shows or cancellations. imo
Out of town phone numbers can also be red flags, (possible texting apps) this is why I have different security protocol for out of town numbers.
Anyone sending graphic messages including dick picks, often do not pan out
That feels like a load of my chest, good topic choice!
Wow,
Never put much thought into this.
I always do a hey. But it is followed up with:
Can I have more info on ur services or restrictions? And when are you available for a appointment....
Had no idea those were all red flags..
Never put much thought into this.
I always do a hey. But it is followed up with:
Can I have more info on ur services or restrictions? And when are you available for a appointment....
Had no idea those were all red flags..
"Hey slut, wanna fuck?"
"Any specials"
"I'm young good looking and have a big dick but don't have any money"
"Do I get a deal because its my first time?"
"Do I get a deal because I am young?"
Just the ones I can remember from yesterday that deserved a "Block" response.
"Any specials"
"I'm young good looking and have a big dick but don't have any money"
"Do I get a deal because its my first time?"
"Do I get a deal because I am young?"
Just the ones I can remember from yesterday that deserved a "Block" response.
For me - I work out of my personal private home. I need quid pro quo. I give you my real address, you give me your real number.
I don't take deposits. I own my own business and use deposits all the time but always with a contract. No contract, no deposit. It is so that safety is ensured for both sides. I can't see that happening with deposits in this industry. I know many women use them and that is great for them, but for me, I just don't.
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No, there's nothing wrong with:
"hey, my name is John Smith and I'm 53 years old, I'm into video games and very social and outgoing, and I'm interested in seeing you on June 5th for a 90 minute session. Let me know about your screening requirements!"
There IS something wrong with:
"hey"
Any one of those are black block the number flags in my client opinion. Don't knock me for telling you how to run your business, but really?
Well, being called slut in the first communication kind of lets you know the type of person you would be seeing and that would be a red flag. I would block the number too. If we are nasty talking during the deed, that is one thing but off the hop, that is not right
The rest are trying for deals. Anyone try for deals is likely to try even more at the door and waste the provider times.
I think they are blocking offences.
These are blocking offences but not necessarily blacklist offences. They are two different things.
