I am tempted to book with a service provider that I know ‘in real life.’ It is probably a really bad idea for a number of reasons but the desire is strong. Please talk me out of it.
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Don’t do it. It would be a dick move if you do it.
Yes, I agree. Thanks for knocking sense into me. That tiny voice gets drowned out by desire and stupidity sometimes.
Circumstances dictate to do or not to do.
I had an instance of meeting an ex wife dabbling in SP-dom who was in my social circle quite a few years back when we were both married. We both kinda had a thing for each other back then. After that awkward first moment when we realized who was who, it was game on and it was hotter than fuck. One time only. Worked out for me. Might not for others. If this gal is a friend of yours and in your sphere of influence, as our esteemed fellow pooner noted, Don't be a Dick.
I had an instance of meeting an ex wife dabbling in SP-dom who was in my social circle quite a few years back when we were both married. We both kinda had a thing for each other back then. After that awkward first moment when we realized who was who, it was game on and it was hotter than fuck. One time only. Worked out for me. Might not for others. If this gal is a friend of yours and in your sphere of influence, as our esteemed fellow pooner noted, Don't be a Dick.
If she doesn’t know you know, don’t book her. There is a power differential in the fact that you know who she is (civ and swer) and she isn’t aware. She will likely be angry and feel violated (speaking not only from my own personal experience, but hearing others who this has happened to as well). It’s creepy. Just don’t. If she was aware that you knew and you discussed your desires with her, instead of surprising her, that would be a different story.
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With so much choice out there, I would avoid any such entanglements. Why make life more difficult than it already is? Better for both of you if you just don't. If 2020 taught me anything, it's that people are what is important in life. Empathy is a misused and misunderstood term these days. I'm really more inclined these days to wear another's shoes before making decisions that also effect them, which is most of the time lol. Anyway, sounds like you came to the same conclusion. Stay safe out there!!
Just like to comment on people that is important in life. Wow I havnt heard someone say that. People now a days all they care about is money and materialistic things. I feel like I was born in wrong Era. I guess I'm more old school, solid have your back. Now a days every is sensitive, jealous, back stabbing, all about drama. Hard to find true people now a days. Good to hear someone say people is what is important in life. Pass it on.
This is a conundrum I have dealt with recently. I’ve been watching a certain hot massage lady for some time now, from white rock. I was going to book her and while I was reviewing her pics I saw a very distinct tattoo that only one person could have. I thought about the last time I saw her in real life. I realize who she is but with a wig (and a few other tells), the wig and makeup make her almost not recognizeable. I also know her SO so I decided it would be all together too uncomfortable for everyone. Best to show respect. I’ll always wonder what she would be like but when I see her in person I still think of her pics and wonder.
Aren't you curious to see how that sweet pussy must taste and feel like? Don't forget to eat out her asshole too. ?
Spoken with tongue in cheek I presume..... Or is that something else in your cheek.... <GRIN>
That being said I am sure many of us have some lady friends in our acquaintance that might be a good candidate for escorting. ..... and would like to sample her wares. I know I have at least 2.
I'll have you know I've never been called delusional in my life.I won't answer the door. If you haven't seen me standing on the other side, it's not me, it never happened, and you are a delusional pervert
Honestly? If some hot girls I know in real life are in this business one day and we meet and recognize each other but are also both comfortable with having a session, that'd be awesome. I mean, if it's someone that was once in your life but have since left, and both of you don't have the same social circle/don't know about each other's lives and likely won't see each other during the day, what's the big deal? I keep my social circle small and closed, which means if a hot girl I knew in real life is now in the business, the chance of me exposing her profession to her social circle is very slim. I guess it really depends, if we both know and are comfortable with having a session, that's fantastic. I guess the right thing to do is to shoot your shot but be upfront about it like ah it's you!! How you doing?? I know we know each other but you know, I have always thought you were pretty! Are you comfortable with me booking a session with you? Then just be respectful, discreet, let her make the decision and move on if it's a no. I don't get how it can be complicated haha
Yes, I agree what it the big deal. Discuss it. If u won't say nothing to nobody then let's move on to the session. All depends who u are. I don't like drama so I won't say one thing to nobody. All about your personality. If u say something there problems will happen. Simple.
A woman I used to hook up with ,her and her hubby for playtime, is now a well reviewed SP. We still text here and there and she doesnt know I figured out who she is. She would probably be cool with it but still dont have any intentions on letting her know that Im aware
Every lady is going to feel differently about this, and only you know whether or not this type of meeting could complicate your own life.
Personally, I feel if you reach out to her via her preferred method and mention you May know her, she can decide for herself how comfortable she is.
You could also subtly mention (and you have to be very careful not to come across as threatening) that she reminds you of a sexy woman from xyz and you are secretly hoping that it is her.
Personally, I feel if you reach out to her via her preferred method and mention you May know her, she can decide for herself how comfortable she is.
You could also subtly mention (and you have to be very careful not to come across as threatening) that she reminds you of a sexy woman from xyz and you are secretly hoping that it is her.
this lady is providing a service, you want that service, I don't understand why its a problem.
The desires are strong because he lets them be. He knows and understand the consequences, and frankly coming here to talk about it won't help OP. Best to avoid her picture/contact, ads, etc.
It's like dangling unhealthy food in front of a dog and asking it not to eat it. That's ridiculous. You keep the dog from the food by hiding it, not by teaching the dog that it's bad for its health.
It's like dangling unhealthy food in front of a dog and asking it not to eat it. That's ridiculous. You keep the dog from the food by hiding it, not by teaching the dog that it's bad for its health.
