It is exactly what you say it is. Hit & miss. It takes alot of work and effort. There are some ladies that offer FS right off the bat and give you rates stating that. Some say absolutely non sexual and don't want to be touched anywhere underwear would cover. But they may open up on repeat visits. you basically have to put in the effort to find ladies that appeal to you, make contact and see what their comfort zone is and if it matches with what you are looking for. There are also a fair amount of professional escorts on there and you can find their ads on LL as well.