Reasons to repeat with a provider

[LC18]

• no need to do awkward icebreakers
• you know each other’s body better so you can have an amazing time
• you may have some inside jokes
• you already know what to expect
• you get to see a familiar face
• booking is usually easier
• you get priority on other clients
• you get to develop a connection

 

[VinVan]

Thanks LC.

I’ll go first. All of the above plus the basics of physical attraction.

And beyond that, a genuine human connection. If I look back at all the wonderful SPs with whom I’ve had 5 or more engagements, without exception they were just being themselves. I get that sometimes there’s a routine or a provider has do don some armour to get thru the day, but the foundation of any good relationship is a certain amount of honesty, which leads to (ideally for both parties) a voyage of discovery. And that, for me, is where the real pleasure can be found.

vv

 

[angry anderson]

 

[casey@bat]

I concurred with LC and @vanvin
I've been seeing my ASP for 15 years. On average per year, I visit her about 8 times except during COVID . This year I only saw her 4 times as I decided to give SL a try due to so many positive reviews. She's a mamasan over the last few years but will only see her regulars. I know her schedule so we try to make arrangements before her shops open.
She knows what I like and that's not being naked. She knows I like her to wear black so her go to outfit is either her fishnet body suit or teddy. Both times she wears black thigh high boots. Another nice thing she lets me do is take photos of her. Memories of her to remind me to go see her again. I asked her if I can post but she said no. So don't ask me for her photos.
Other fun stuff over the years, tied her up, handcuffed her, finger in her ass, dildo up my ass and greek.
Her English is good so that really helps in communicating and having that relationship.

 

[masterpoonhunter]

Well since we are talking relationships here ... yes ... if you are in a rotating schedule seeing the same woman it is a relationship ... let me, being the HA relationship guy ... throw my hat into this.

All of what has been posted and
Something worked when the two of you first did the wild thing. At least it sure did for the guy. Speaking from too many years behind me, it can be pretty undefinable. I guess ... chemistry? Your pheromones worked really well for both of you?
Maybe during the session, something happened that made it all memorable sexually. Too many things to give an example as per casybat posts.
Maybe something that made both of you burst out laughing, a shared moment of fun.
Maybe you both found something in whatever conversation you had that struck you both.

Or maybe the SP really knows what to do to make a guy feel great and THAT keeps you cuming back.

 

[Der oyson]

Connection & chemistry. I know pretty much right away if I’m going to see someone again, real spark is hard to fake.
I try to stack the deck in favour of this - meeting ladies who are close in age to me, write thoughtful ads & comms. I’ve personally never met a SP based on physical attributes alone. if there’s connection the physical side always works itself out.

Couldn’t agree more! Chemistry and connection over all else.

 

[angry anderson]

This pretty much sums it up. Slightly redacted in case there's a problem copying a review onto the general discussion. But you get the point......
Instructive reading.


It’s not the massage that keeps me coming back !she sucks a cock and licks an ass like no one else I’ve ever seen , when your ready just jet your ass up in the air on all fours , she will start tongue fucking your hole and sucking your cock in a reverse position. It’s delightful. Tell her everything you want dfk, dt, rim, 69 ,daty,dato, Greek . Just pay the lady full freight , don’t be a douche bag and take money away from her at the end . is a 63 year old (at least) lady with a 40 year old body who , will perform extreme sex acts for you . You pay for the service not for “pretty” or “young” . Just go over , tune out the chit chat as background noise and enjoy sex that most ladies will not provide . That’s just my 2 cents worth

 

[Pumped]

•
• you get to see a familiar face
•

My fave SP likes to 69 so its not a familiar face I get to see.

 

[Bobert1969]

My fave SP likes to 69 so its not a familiar face I get to see.

This man wins the internet for the day.

 

[Big_Guy_Rye]

For me, just being reliable. Knowing the provider 'is real', and don't have to waste time sifting through fakes and scams.

 

[strider65]

Good thread I've seen the same girl twice in 3 weeks adding the third time next week yes to connection and chemistry and a lovely combination of comfort and passion

 

[strider65]

•
• you get to develop a connection

I like that we can ask about each others kids. If she's had a hard day or a bad week she can be honest about it. It takes it from the realm of physical divorced from the real world into the realm of human interaction. It makes a difference for me I know and I can tell it does for her too.

 

[ShungiteSol]

You pretty much know from the first time you meet that there is a connection that is going to bring you back, and it gets more comfortable each time you meet. Been lucky enough to have a few of those at different times over the years.

 

[white Ninja]

One word , Chemistry !
It’s something that can’t be explained logically or faked .

 

[Pgup]

Just the comfortability and predictability.

 

[LC18]

• She might let you overstay

 

[ExpCharlee]

• She might let you overstay

Just a heads up every time I’ve ever let a client overstay (it’s been years) they’ve ended up trying to take advantage of me in some way. Give an inch they take a mile. Best to keep session durations professional. Not to yuck anybody’s yum! But also we don’t want anyone to expect this.

 

[wincity23]

Just a heads up every time I’ve ever let a client overstay (it’s been years) they’ve ended up trying to take advantage of me in some way. Give an inch they take a mile. Best to keep session durations professional. Not to yuck anybody’s yum! But also we don’t want anyone to expect this.

I've overstayed a few times. Not by design and i understand why you'd feel the way you do. It wasn't to "take advantage"-the activities were always done and we were chatting. I assumed the provider (actually know in 2 instances) was done for the day. It isn't anything i would ever expect but it can be a good experience, just sitting and having a pleasant convo.

 

[Nomen]

One word , Chemistry !
It’s something that can’t be explained logically or faked .

Do viagra count as chemistry?

 

[LC18]

Just a heads up every time I’ve ever let a client overstay (it’s been years) they’ve ended up trying to take advantage of me in some way. Give an inch they take a mile. Best to keep session durations professional. Not to yuck anybody’s yum! But also we don’t want anyone to expect this.

I let people overstay by 5 mins and they don’t know it because it’s usually just me stopping the timer when they’re in the shower. Only if I’m feeling generous and I really like them 😂