This guy reminds me of this guy who had a fetish for cars crushing boxes and camera's. (True story)
Can you imagine if THAT was what it took to get you off? Cars running over boxes and stuff? How difficult it would be to get sexually satisfied?
That's the way I feel about Lenny. A little sad actually. If he's being honest that a 15 minute BJ would be a waste of time that he needs a minimum 1 hour BJ or 2-3 hours of sex to be get off/be satisfied, then I feel bad for being mean to him. That has got to be an itch that's difficult to get scratched.
No need to feel sorry for me. I have a fabulous sex life & live for it.
I was also retired at 45 and have been having the time of my life in
the 5 years since then, living like a king, especially when in Bangkok
for the winter. Furthermore if i wanted to i could spend an average
of $$ a day on SPs for the rest of my life. And i probably will.
As to getting off, i am different from most men whose goal is to cum.
My goal is to extend the pleasure of sex as long as possible, because
cuming/finishing means the end of it, and consequently the end of
the pleasure. So i enjoy having long sex sessions day after day w/o
cumming for days or even weeks at a time. If i wanted to i could
cum in a short time, maybe 15 minutes, but there would be very
little enjoyment in that. OTOH, sex sessions that last for hours are
incredible. They may involve nothing but kissing & cuddling for hours,
and/or BJs, and/or BLS, and/or intercourse, and/or massage/HJ.
Especially nice are the long duration massages involving a simultaneous
touching of the prostrate, balls and anal areas, while i give myself
a HJ with some lube. Add kissing at the same time & it's even better.
Today i had a two hour session for $$$.5 with an Asian lady and we
spent most of the time just cuddling and kissing. In the last 20 minutes
she asked me what i wanted, if i wanted to have sex. I declined
because, even though i was aroused, there was not enough time to
get into it with any degree of enjoyment. It would have just been a
distraction from what i was already enjoying, namely smooching.