I had a case of insomnia last night, and was strolling through some posts, and I’d like to say that I’m astonished at how some people seem personally offended by providers increases in rates or their rates in general. Inflation is very real and all my last tour I had a discussion with a gent and they were surprised at how much overhead cost we have in terms of advertising. I don’t know if some people think that it’s free for us to advertise but it’s definitely not and on some platforms we are only allowed to pay in crypto or American dollars. If any of my other service providers, want to chime in here, feel free 😘
I know life is stressful and expensive for everyone but I’d really like to urge people to stop putting down providers or being rude to providers because they don’t agree with their rates. The increase in rude responses, and Vancouver blows my mind. I have noticed recently even touring girls leaving early and seeming I’m not happy with their experience here. If someone is out of your price range, you still have the ability to be polite about it. There are many factors that come in to play in sex. Advertising hotels, renting a space, products and necessities, lingerie and outfits. Im sure I could go on and on. This is just for us to work, not even our own personal life. Most sex workers are taking on the financial burden of two rents essentially and if they’re using hotels, it’s usually that much more expensive. Then you factor in all of the expenses that go into making us look and appear the way we do.(its not cheap)
I can only speak for myself when I say, I don’t do this type of work for designer bags or to live an elite life. I’m not knocking anybody who does, but there is a majority of us sex workers, who not only take care of ourselves but our families. We are providing for not just us, but for many. Some of us really love what we do, and we take pride in the experiences that we create, and I can say that it becomes increasingly hard to love that and do that with the increase in vulgarity of messages and experiences, I understand it comes with the territory but Id just like to mention some of these things and open up the ability for the discussion between sex workers and clients as I know some of us don’t know what it’s like to be in your shoes and some of you don’t know what it’s like to be in ours. Being decent in corresponding with your potential provider is not hard! Lets all do better people 💕🫶🏽
I know life is stressful and expensive for everyone but I’d really like to urge people to stop putting down providers or being rude to providers because they don’t agree with their rates. The increase in rude responses, and Vancouver blows my mind. I have noticed recently even touring girls leaving early and seeming I’m not happy with their experience here. If someone is out of your price range, you still have the ability to be polite about it. There are many factors that come in to play in sex. Advertising hotels, renting a space, products and necessities, lingerie and outfits. Im sure I could go on and on. This is just for us to work, not even our own personal life. Most sex workers are taking on the financial burden of two rents essentially and if they’re using hotels, it’s usually that much more expensive. Then you factor in all of the expenses that go into making us look and appear the way we do.(its not cheap)
I can only speak for myself when I say, I don’t do this type of work for designer bags or to live an elite life. I’m not knocking anybody who does, but there is a majority of us sex workers, who not only take care of ourselves but our families. We are providing for not just us, but for many. Some of us really love what we do, and we take pride in the experiences that we create, and I can say that it becomes increasingly hard to love that and do that with the increase in vulgarity of messages and experiences, I understand it comes with the territory but Id just like to mention some of these things and open up the ability for the discussion between sex workers and clients as I know some of us don’t know what it’s like to be in your shoes and some of you don’t know what it’s like to be in ours. Being decent in corresponding with your potential provider is not hard! Lets all do better people 💕🫶🏽
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