My point was that if you have a favorite provider, then pissing them off is likely to get that door shut on you. Of course you could go somewhere else, but not back there. That is why you should not be critical, unless you don't care about moving to someone else. If they think you might damage their business, chances are very good that they will refuse to see you, your having money won't matter.Holy crap, are you new to this hobby or have just been living under a rock........
Micro's pop up here faster than weeds. As long as I've got money, I have yet to see a Micro refuse my business. Besides, even if they do, there's probably one with spitting distance for me to stroll over to.
I don't want to sound callus or blunt and I don't speak for all men on here, but I pay SP's for their services and for the fact that there are no strings attached afterwards. Even though they record cell numbers, they should be professional and not contact us afterwards.
How would you like it if you were having lunch or dinner with friends or family and an SP comes up to you and ask when you are going to see her again.......
Or if you are at your work place teaching a class and mamasan calls you up and ask why you are giving her girls negative reviews........
Maybe it's time to start seeing more professional, local SP's.
Please don't look into the above comments too closely, they're just a hypothetical statements.
And I don't mean to be rude about Tug's staement about poisoning the well. I've been in this hobby long enough to know there's always someone out there willing to take your money.
Take care and play safe.
Continuing this thread will not resolve what has happened or change any of our outlooks to this issue. It only hurts Kelly's business and that is not what I am looking for.
She is a good and sincere person and wants to improve her business.
SPs are not professionals, there is no professional organization they have to belong to or professional qualification they have to obtain, there is no penalty for breaking the "rules". They might say they won't keep your info to make you happy, but they can do anything they like with it once they have that info, short of extortion (that would be illegal). Not like they are going to lose their licence to fuck or anything like that. The only reason they would get rid of your info is to protect themselves for legal or tax purposes. They might not want a paper trail showing their activities. It is not to protect you.




