Way way back when i was new to this, a little while after my divorce and i didnt know any better i used to see this lady at an AMP. Shes not asian tho, maybe native ig but i found it pretty interesting she worked there. Anyway shes super talkative and has some issues clearly but not the point that it was a cause of concern. This was around early 2023 and moved on, havent seen her since.
Its important to note that she knows my name and now my perb handle as well, i have no clue how though. its one of the biggest mysteries of my life. go figure.
Come March 2025, ive reached out to lady and she let me know that my name or number or both are blacklisted on some database as a no show or a time waster. anyways the lady gave me a chance (so kind of her) and we had a great time. she said she can remove me from the blacklist but ig she forgot or something. nbd.
Recently ive posted some reviews and in one of those threads i noted that i have some ATFs and i always exclusively see them (indys and agency). if you are reading this and curious feel free to checkout my recent reviews.
A month ago i start getting messages from a number i vaguely recalled and it was the lady ive seen in 2023, firstly asking how ive been, why i havent seen her ever since and then quickly devolved to being called an asshole for not seeing her anymore. I am quite horrible at such confrontations and honestly got a little freaked out as i guessed her issues have gotten worse based on the way she was texting. She even quoted a comment i made a month or so ago with a screenshot and accused me of being disloyal/opportunistic - it just didnt make sense. Finally it ended with her saying shes going to block me and report me - i am not even sure what does that even mean and report to who ? what ? no clue.
Ive since moved on and havent thought of it until today again. random thoughts lol.
I want to be clear, i have no conclusive evidence that it was indeed her, but i feel its kind of a jerk move to do that to me if shes actually done it, but yes i do highly suspect its her.
Anyways, im not too worried as the women i usually tend to see know me very well and so does the agency. But in case now or in future i do think ill click with someone and i reach out they may simply ignore me based on the blacklist which i think is a bit unfair.
I dont want to change my number either. Not worth the hassle.
So yeah just a rant ha ha. wondering if anyone went through an unfair blacklist lol or did i just get unlucky.
Peace \/
Its important to note that she knows my name and now my perb handle as well, i have no clue how though. its one of the biggest mysteries of my life. go figure.
Come March 2025, ive reached out to lady and she let me know that my name or number or both are blacklisted on some database as a no show or a time waster. anyways the lady gave me a chance (so kind of her) and we had a great time. she said she can remove me from the blacklist but ig she forgot or something. nbd.
Recently ive posted some reviews and in one of those threads i noted that i have some ATFs and i always exclusively see them (indys and agency). if you are reading this and curious feel free to checkout my recent reviews.
A month ago i start getting messages from a number i vaguely recalled and it was the lady ive seen in 2023, firstly asking how ive been, why i havent seen her ever since and then quickly devolved to being called an asshole for not seeing her anymore. I am quite horrible at such confrontations and honestly got a little freaked out as i guessed her issues have gotten worse based on the way she was texting. She even quoted a comment i made a month or so ago with a screenshot and accused me of being disloyal/opportunistic - it just didnt make sense. Finally it ended with her saying shes going to block me and report me - i am not even sure what does that even mean and report to who ? what ? no clue.
Ive since moved on and havent thought of it until today again. random thoughts lol.
I want to be clear, i have no conclusive evidence that it was indeed her, but i feel its kind of a jerk move to do that to me if shes actually done it, but yes i do highly suspect its her.
Anyways, im not too worried as the women i usually tend to see know me very well and so does the agency. But in case now or in future i do think ill click with someone and i reach out they may simply ignore me based on the blacklist which i think is a bit unfair.
I dont want to change my number either. Not worth the hassle.
So yeah just a rant ha ha. wondering if anyone went through an unfair blacklist lol or did i just get unlucky.
Peace \/
