Questions for agencies/Sp's or to everyone in general

[Daynasor]

Not into any acronyms like DFK, DATY. only into CBJ, talk and do the deed really. How do I bring it up to SP's/Agency specially if english isnt their first language. I've gone and used yumikolove, coco as well and sp's just assume you want BBJ all the time
Thanks!

 

[rinamood]

Easiest suggestions:

• Choose English-speaking SPs, ease into the session with a cute 5min of "what do you like chat", and be upfront that you want a covered BJ
• Ask for a condom and put it on yourself as soon as you get hard enough for it (hopefully this works regardless of language barrier)
• You can politely request from indies over text/email before booking, then remind them the near start of playtime

My clients are surprised when I ask right before I start on a blowjob, and I encourage safe-play requests to be made upfront 💌

I ask about kissing, and only then do I lean in very slowly for those first kisses if the client hadn't initiated them on me. We can't know what a client's fluid exchange boundaries may be without checking. Anyone can have a different level of safety in mind.

Client consent is important too! So we should normalize asking first 🌹

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[Daynasor]

Easiest suggestions:

• Choose English-speaking SPs, ease into the session with a cute 5min of "what do you like chat", and be upfront that you want a covered BJ
• Ask for a condom and put it on yourself as soon as you get hard enough for it (hopefully this works regardless of language barrier)
• You can politely request from indies over text/email before booking, then remind them the near start of playtime

My clients are surprised when I ask right before I start on a blowjob, and I encourage safe-play requests to be made upfront 💌

I ask about kissing, and lean in very slowly for those first kisses if the client hadn't initiated them on me.

Client consent is important too! So we should normalize asking first 🌹

Thanks for your explanation Rina! Reason I asked is I'm really into safeplay 😄

 

[rinamood]

Thanks for your explanation Rina! Reason I asked is I'm really into safeplay 😄

Your body, your choice 💪

Safeplay guys apologize to me sometimes when they verbalize that they'd like certain conditions for their comfort (ie. no kissing, no DATY, covered BJ or no BJ, no squirting of mine, bring their own sheets + pillow cases + towels, etc). It makes me wonder if people have been offended by such simple requests before. You guys simply want your personal boundaries respected!

Maybe other men here will have more suggestions, especially regarding situations involving language barriers. Good luck and have fun 🍀