Questions about submissive providers?

[gianni lotus]

I have never seen this area of PERB before. Seems more chill which is nice. I noticed there are questions here so here goes.

I have really been into oral kink like deep throat and facefucking lately. There are a bunch of threads in the Vancouver 411 but they repeat the same info. I am new to BDSM and now realize that this oral kink really requires a submissive provider no? I have encountered providers who say they will do this and when we try (always consent upfront) I find out they can't (My penis is 6.5 inches). Some of them give it a good try but you can tell that they really hate it and can't wait until it is over. This kills it for me.

Am I correct in searching for a submissive provider? Do they exist? I don't see many advertised. I know Miss Hunter does this. I am really in search of an Asian provider who may offer this specialty.

Thanks in advance and sorry if this post is not appropriate or in the wrong place.

 

[realnamehidden690]

If you have an unnatural bend in your cock, this might prevent a Provider from enjoying herself while giving this service. Men often assume a Provider should be able to take a cock whole if it's under a certain measurement, but they may want to ask themselves if the other features of their cock allow for it

 

[gianni lotus]

If you have an unnatural bend in your cock, this might prevent a Provider from enjoying herself while giving this service. Men often assume a Provider should be able to take a cock whole if it's under a certain measurement, but they never stop and ask themselves if the other features of their cock allow for it

Thanks for the reply.
Normal length, normal girth and straight. It is a normal dick and I keep it really clean

I have stopped to think about how difficult a service this is to provide. Seeing providers who really want to and try but still can't has taught me this. I agree it would be a very hard thing to do and require a lot of trust by the provider. It is hard to find so I am reaching out here.

 

[Vos_]

Thanks for the reply.
Normal length, normal girth and straight. It is a normal dick and I keep it really clean

I have stopped to think about how difficult a service this is to provide. Seeing providers who really want to and try but still can't has taught me this. I agree it would be a very hard thing to do and require a lot of trust by the provider. It is hard to find so I am reaching out here.

Same boat😂

 

[MikeyLikey99]

I don’t think finding a submissive provider will specifically help you here. You need to be very clear up front about what you are looking for when you contact whichever providers you find, and try to confirm through reviews that they have some happy customers for that service. Off the top of my head from personal exp, and/or based on seeing their names connected to this here, I’d suggest a few names to check out:

Miss hunter
Ashley Lawrence
Charlee Beckett

 

[Miss Hunter]

Often it’s girth, not length that presents a challenge with deepthroat & throat fucking

 

[ExpCharlee]

I don’t think finding a submissive provider will specifically help you here. You need to be very clear up front about what you are looking for when you contact whichever providers you find, and try to confirm through reviews that they have some happy customers for that service. Off the top of my head from personal exp, and/or based on seeing their names connected to this here, I’d suggest a few names to check out:

Miss hunter
Ashley Lawrence
Charlee Beckett

I don’t have a submissive bone in my body but thanks for the reco 😘

 

[MikeyLikey99]

I don’t have a submissive bone in my body but thanks for the reco 😘

Yes, and my point was he doesn’t need a submissive provider for what he is looking for 😁

 

[Nazmobert]

Would be interested in this as well. So far only Miss Hunter comes to mind.

 

[ExpCharlee]

Yes, and my point was he doesn’t need a submissive provider for what he is looking for 😁

IMHO facefucking is a pretty dominant act

 

[MikeyLikey99]

IMHO facefucking is a pretty dominant act

I’m not going to argue the point with you since it’s definitely not my field of expertise 😊
I thought you had put your hand up once or twice when people were asking about it. No offence intended

 

[ExpCharlee]

I’m not going to argue the point with you since it’s definitely not my field of expertise 😊
I thought you had put your hand up once or twice when people were asking about it. No offence intended

Not offended at all! I’m definitely able to deepthroat and I’ve been known to do facefucking but it’s extremely rare and takes a specific situation. I’d hate to disappoint someone who was expecting it.

 

[gianni lotus]

This is all helpful information. Thanks for taking the time to give such thoughtful comments.