Just a quick question being the new girl and all haha.... i get a lot of requests for bbbj... not something i would do sorry boys.. wondering if any girls actually do that or if guys are just hoping they'll get lucky?
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Jenna, many girls provide BBBJ. My own experience would estimate about 25%, a number which increases significantly with some girls when the customer becomes a regular. BBBJ is one of the services which puts the girl in the GFE category. I would say it is more common in larger centers such as Toronto or Montreal where the competition is more stiff. The subject of BBBJ usually brings about the whole debate on the safety issue. There is much advocacy for and against BBBJ available on adult and health sites on the Web.
If you do a search on this board you will find lots of threads devoted to this subject.
Generally, I think most of the girls in Winnipeg don't do it (certainly most of the top girls don't, and I don't think it hurts their business at all) ... and you'll also find that there are a significant number of clients who would prefer that sp's not do it.
Play safe and have fun!
Tom
Generally, I think most of the girls in Winnipeg don't do it (certainly most of the top girls don't, and I don't think it hurts their business at all) ... and you'll also find that there are a significant number of clients who would prefer that sp's not do it.
Play safe and have fun!
Tom
Good point Maraman!!! without the DATY Jena, it woun't be much for you. I'm a strong beleiver that everyone should enjoy what they do for a living. That and I have a small cock....I have to make up for this with my tongue. (I can lick the logo off a golf ball)
just my 2 centsHairball said:
It is one of the services that some sp's and clients BELIEVE will put them in the gfe category. Many true gfe experiences do not include a bbbj.
There are many more important and safe ways to be a gfe than to do ANYTHING bb.
Sydney
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Tell ya what.....lets help this girl out and put together a list of what makes us tick for GFE. I'll start....
LOOKS:
- you got what ya got baby. At least dress nice. Ask the guy if he has any requests for costumes. Some guys like things such as lingerie, school girl outfits, nurse's outfits, etc.. Be clean, clean, clean.....be as showery fresh as possible at all times when meeting someone.
ATTITUDE:
- for me, its all about being friendly, outgoing, a good conversationalist, happy, smile lots, make lots of eye contact, act like you really like the guy, take some interest in what they say, don't be greedy, show some trust, don't be rushed...be the guy's girlfriend for the session (tall order.....wow after writing this I'm realizing the top girls that do well, do this time in and time out, regardless of their mood / day / circumstances)
SERVICE:
- some form of kissing, massages are nice, digits, DATY, CBJ, FS with multiple positions and MSOG. And get into it and have an orgasm....or at least be one heck of a good actor. And then some nice cuddling after its all over
*muah*
These are things I like / look for / desire.
Now here's where YMMV comes into play. If the guys a jerk....well....you just don't see him. If he's got stinky breath, then kissing is out. If he's got scrubby hands and dirty nails, digits are out. If he's got B.O. gawd poor you ! I think you'll find most guys will want to be at the top of their game before meeting you. But you never know. And you always have to allow for that chemistry thing. Sometimes its just not there.
I dunno...what else guys....I never quite understood YMMV well either. For the most part, I've always had my list met.
LOOKS:
- you got what ya got baby. At least dress nice. Ask the guy if he has any requests for costumes. Some guys like things such as lingerie, school girl outfits, nurse's outfits, etc.. Be clean, clean, clean.....be as showery fresh as possible at all times when meeting someone.
ATTITUDE:
- for me, its all about being friendly, outgoing, a good conversationalist, happy, smile lots, make lots of eye contact, act like you really like the guy, take some interest in what they say, don't be greedy, show some trust, don't be rushed...be the guy's girlfriend for the session (tall order.....wow after writing this I'm realizing the top girls that do well, do this time in and time out, regardless of their mood / day / circumstances)
SERVICE:
- some form of kissing, massages are nice, digits, DATY, CBJ, FS with multiple positions and MSOG. And get into it and have an orgasm....or at least be one heck of a good actor. And then some nice cuddling after its all over
*muah*These are things I like / look for / desire.
Now here's where YMMV comes into play. If the guys a jerk....well....you just don't see him. If he's got stinky breath, then kissing is out. If he's got scrubby hands and dirty nails, digits are out. If he's got B.O. gawd poor you ! I think you'll find most guys will want to be at the top of their game before meeting you. But you never know. And you always have to allow for that chemistry thing. Sometimes its just not there.
I dunno...what else guys....I never quite understood YMMV well either. For the most part, I've always had my list met.
I agree,
I think GFE isn't so much about a specific menu of items anymore. BBBJ certainly isn't necessary for me ... I've had some pretty amazing CBJ's ... many of them far better than some BBBJ's I've had from girlfriends in the past.
Kissing is a must for me ... it doesn't necessarily have to be DFK, but some degree of intimacy is necessary for it to be a GFE. touching, carressing, kissing ... all of it raises what TJ calls the "heat factor".
Tom
I think GFE isn't so much about a specific menu of items anymore. BBBJ certainly isn't necessary for me ... I've had some pretty amazing CBJ's ... many of them far better than some BBBJ's I've had from girlfriends in the past.
Kissing is a must for me ... it doesn't necessarily have to be DFK, but some degree of intimacy is necessary for it to be a GFE. touching, carressing, kissing ... all of it raises what TJ calls the "heat factor".
Tom
Just my 2c worth. Attuide is EVERYTHING! Cleanliness is EVERYTHING.....girls a little hint.......always ALWAYS use a washclothe on your "private parts" b4 a session. THere is nothing more gross then goin for a little daty and finding some tiny bits of tissue paper stuck down there (hence the gal after goin to wasahroom just wiped with paper!) Have a clean apartment!!!!you may not live in the ritz , but at least have the place clean!! Show some interest in the person, be kind, considerate etc. One of the biggest ways to impress someone is to give them ample time and mosg (80% dont have msog anyhow!)Unless you have a appointment right away, that extra 15-20 mins chatting etc will get you as many brownie points as your performance in the bedroom.! When a guy pays for a hour, and chit chat for 10-15 mins to get aquainted, 15-20 mins doin the wild thing and hit the street after 40-50 mins will leave with a sour taste in anyones mouth , regardless of how hot you look , or how good of a lay you are. Some of my all time fav gals had all the nessasary qualites and did not watch the clock. A few awesome gals in the sack who had no time for anything else, are usually not repeat stuff.Nothing can replace excellent service and customer satisfaction!Repeat clientele is your bread and butter. A dozen guys who will see you on average 1x a month will pay your bills, with no hassel and risk.
And GUYS.....treat the women with the respect they deserve. Do everything in your power to make the session enjoyable for everyone. Cleanliness, polite , etc!
Play safe everyone!!! just MHO
And GUYS.....treat the women with the respect they deserve. Do everything in your power to make the session enjoyable for everyone. Cleanliness, polite , etc!
Play safe everyone!!! just MHO
Clean, Kissing, Looks, Attitude, Service. One is missing there will be no repeating. Musts for total GFE...
If you won't kiss on the mouth then there better be kissing everywhere else. It just shows you are into us..
DFK is probally the biggest turn on for me...
Girlfriends kiss unless they are about to dump you.
, without kissing it is not true GFE for me...
If you won't kiss on the mouth then there better be kissing everywhere else. It just shows you are into us..
DFK is probally the biggest turn on for me...
Girlfriends kiss unless they are about to dump you.
, without kissing it is not true GFE for me...
TERB Poll on BBBJ
Here are the results of a poll on TERB earlier this month that asked the question, "Are BBBJ's really necessary":
BBBJ is the whole point of session. 58 votes 21.48%
BBBJ indispensible part of foreplay. 103 votes 38.15%
BBBJ appreciated, but not necessary, CBJ is fine. 81 votes 30.00%
CBJ is preferable to BBBJ. 22 votes 8.15%
BJs of any kind are disliked. 6 votes 2.22%
Total 270 votes 100.0%
Here are the results of a poll on TERB earlier this month that asked the question, "Are BBBJ's really necessary":
BBBJ is the whole point of session. 58 votes 21.48%
BBBJ indispensible part of foreplay. 103 votes 38.15%
BBBJ appreciated, but not necessary, CBJ is fine. 81 votes 30.00%
CBJ is preferable to BBBJ. 22 votes 8.15%
BJs of any kind are disliked. 6 votes 2.22%
Total 270 votes 100.0%
My guess is that about 50% of Toronto SP's provide BBBJ to most, or at least many, clients, although less than half would admit it publicly.
There are some SP's who state that it's CBJ only on their web sites, but they usually provide BBBJ. They want to avoid arguments if they decide to only do CBJ for a new client, so they cover thenselves that way.
There are some SP's who state that it's CBJ only on their web sites, but they usually provide BBBJ. They want to avoid arguments if they decide to only do CBJ for a new client, so they cover thenselves that way.
Take a good look at it girls ... if it's freshly showered, no pimples or scabs, and looks happy ... go for it.
Most SP's only spend 5-10 minutes with that anyway.
Bottle of Listerine at the ready after a session - swish for 60 seconds, kills anything he may have left on the tongue and gums.
Most guys do that after DATY with you.
No worries!
Most SP's only spend 5-10 minutes with that anyway.
Bottle of Listerine at the ready after a session - swish for 60 seconds, kills anything he may have left on the tongue and gums.
Most guys do that after DATY with you.
No worries!
