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Question-Where and What are they...?

Where-What are the sweet spot(s)


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Dr_X_man

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The existence and function of the female sweet spot(s) have been the subject of debate for many years. Which area of her body should we manipulate?Where and what are they? How do they affect her orgasm?

While there are a number of ways to please a woman, a great lover knows the key to fulfilling her every desire starts before the act of sex. If you can find her "sweet-spots", then you'll be one step closer to giving her the big "O"!


The debate briefly:

Sigmund Freud suggested that there were two types of female orgasm. However, sex researcher Alfred Kinsey refuted the claim and his view was that there is only one type of female orgasm.
Others sexperts claim that women can have three types of orgasm: clitoral, vaginal and blended.


The sweet spot(s):

Foreplay Spot(s)

Her Neck-

Women's necks are probably the most sensitive area on her body. If you learn to properly kiss and caress this area, you'll probably drive her wild. When playing with her neck, you should try to gently run your fingers along it and kiss this area lightly. Another thing that works is to lightly nibble her neck.

Her Hands-

A woman's sense of touch is very important to her. That's why knowing how to caress and kiss her hands can build quickly build excitement.

Try playing with her fingers, running your hands along her palms and even giving her a hand massage. Focusing on her hands is a powerful technique because most guys never take the opportunity to concentrate on this area.

Her Ears-

A woman's ear is another really sensitive area. She'll probably go nuts if you nibble or lick her ears.

One word of caution though, sensitivity in a woman's ears often varies. Some love it, while others hate it. So be cautious, start slowly and test out her reactions.

Her Feet-

If you've ever seen the movie 'Pulp Fiction', then you know the power of a good foot massage. By learning to caress and touch a woman's feet without tickling her, she'll practically melt in your arms.

Her Inner Thighs-

This area on a woman is incredibly sensitive to touch. Since her inner thigh is an area which is close to the 'promised land', you have to earn her trust you before you start to caress this area.

Try stroking this area, perhaps even kiss it (if she allows you to). She'll love you for it!

Play Spot(s)

Clitoris

The clitoris' only function is to provide pleasure for women. Researchers have not been able to discover any other reason for its existence, which is fine by us. As well, keep in mind that, because the clitoris is much easier to find, female orgasm is usually achieved via clitoral stimulation.

Vagina

Inside the vagina, you can find the infamous G-spot, or the Grafenberg spot. The G-spot is located on the front wall (toward the navel) of the vagina, between the opening and the cervix. Theory dictates that the G-spot can be either a bundle of nerves coming from the clitoris or a gland (or series of glands) that produces lubrication.


Dr.X proposes a different theory and this poll will show it.

References:
http://EzineArticles.com/399303
http://www.ehow.com/how_4441146_female-spot.html#ixzz1KJJLk1XK
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/G-Spot
 

uncleg

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FunSugarDaddy

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Can't say for sure what works on all lady's but I do know that having magic fingers, and massaging the lovely lady's butt that see on a regular basis seems to work great for the both of us.

I was going to propose to that butt, but didn't know how well it would go over...cause man o' man do I love massaging her ass. lol
 

vancity_cowboy

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you forgot the breasts and nipples - i knew a lady that could achieve orgasm (on a good day) through nipple stimulation alone - although she usually combined it with my clitoris and g-spot stimulation
 

Dr_X_man

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Nipples, full body rub down, inside elbows, and behind knees.....all of the above mentioned lots of fore play brings it on good and strong:)

Yup...ok wish I was working today now I need a good fix thinking about it.
Can't say for sure what works on all lady's but I do know that having magic fingers, and massaging the lovely lady's butt that see on a regular basis seems to work great for the both of us.

I was going to propose to that butt, but didn't know how well it would go over...cause man o' man do I love massaging her ass. lol
you forgot the breasts and nipples - i knew a lady that could achieve orgasm (on a good day) through nipple stimulation alone - although she usually combined it with my clitoris and g-spot stimulation
Girls and guys feel free to add if I forgot anything...I will tell you some interesting things...
 

Lancaster

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As bad as it sound, I've more or less given up on trying to give the chick orgasms. No matter what I do, no matter how much I "study" (watching how-to's, reading up on it, receiving feedback, etc), I always just end up reaching the "close but no cigars" level. Flicking the clit with my tongue for like 15 mins, trying to rub the "g-spot", plus using my other hand to fondle her breasts all at the same time.... still nothing:(

Judging from my previous experience, just better to just let the women do whatever they do, and just sit back and assist if they need it. Either that or just buy one of those hitachi magic wand and let them do whatever:cool:
 

Dr_X_man

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As bad as it sound, I've more or less given up on trying to give the chick orgasms. No matter what I do, no matter how much I "study" (watching how-to's, reading up on it, receiving feedback, etc), I always just end up reaching the "close but no cigars" level. Flicking the clit with my tongue for like 15 mins, trying to rub the "g-spot", plus using my other hand to fondle her breasts all at the same time.... still nothing:(

Judging from my previous experience, just better to just let the women do whatever they do, and just sit back and assist if they need it. Either that or just buy one of those hitachi magic wand and let them do whatever:cool:
Only 15 min. :) I had girl(s) who never had an orgasm. Here is one girl story:
we spent few hours and she was almost there all the time. I did all that was listed on foreplay till she was literally begging for penetration.
Kissing, huging, blowing her ears, kissing her ears, kissing her neck, drawing maps with my tongue on her body, my hands were everywhere...teasing her and kissing around her sweet spot...she would think I'll daty but no wait...anticipation...I spent like 10min in teasing and foreplay...then daty, 69,....at least 15min...I have never had a girl that did not enjoy that...
Then for penetration...I started gentle...me on top..quiet some time >5 min...changed to few other positions all gentle...we spent maybe 40 min or more...of course my hands, tnogue, mouth were all over...then the moves were sped and the penetration went deeper...she started moaning...almost there...almost there...keep doing it do not stop do not stop...She says "I like your penis...perfect size...not too big and not too small"... I say "I know you have been working and looking for the perfect size...that's probably why you never had a big O" :)...
To make the story short. She came few times but she still thinks not the big O. Compared to other experiences I believe she is right.
All I am saying the poll and discussion will show very very interesting results.
You are probably just doing it wrong. Communicate with your SP we do enjoy orgasm along with you. If you communicate with her you will succed. It most womesn take about 20 minutes to reach climax. I will find a link and try to post iit here for you.
May be ...and please do cute:)
I am sure this poll and discussion will be very interesting
 

uncleg

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sevenofnine

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for every women i think its different they like certain things
just like with us guys, some women just the touch the feel all the sensations just make magic
other women its just so so.

one sp i met great lady she said don't even try to give her an orgasim,
she never comes with clients, just not going to happen,
its i guess like us guys we have a switch if it doesn't get thrown well then nothing is going to make it happen

i think that happens alot with sps they don't see it as sex just a job, there going through the motions. most times just fake it,
any ways her, for sure,
she also told me she had a boyfriend she couldn't resist he was bad for her,
but when he showed up at her door she could never turn him away she just loved to fuck him
she didn't know what it was but when he was inside her it was like no other feeling she had ever experianced it was just the best
he fucked her all night long she never got enough of him. but any one else especially clients forget it.

but what she did for me was amazing she knew her stuff.

and im just a stupid dumb fuck ok
but i have had a couple of sps in tears of joy.
i think its just the moment the tenderness,

sps have said they like me, and yeah i went yeah right, i don't really consider myself all that good.
but they told me i take so much enjoyment out of it, and put them on a pedistal and treat them with awe and respect, and tenderness

i dunno maybe im full of shit. but its the delivery more then anything the emotion created by the moment,
instead of just spreading her legs and spreading her open, its the seduction.
but well this hobby is not about the seduction is it.
 

Dr_X_man

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one sp i met great lady she said don't even try to give her an orgasim,
she never comes with clients, just not going to happen,
its i guess like us guys we have a switch if it doesn't get thrown well then nothing is going to make it happen
I am a man and I am not like that! evenif it is true for some. Is it that simple on women? Not only I believe that every women is different than the other but I believe the spots on the same woman changes ;)



she also told me she had a boyfriend she couldn't resist he was bad for her,
but when he showed up at her door she could never turn him away she just loved to fuck him
she didn't know what it was but when he was inside her it was like no other feeling she had ever experianced it was just the best
he fucked her all night long she never got enough of him. but any one else especially clients forget it.
That's psychological which goes in harmony with my theory.

i think that happens alot with sps they don't see it as sex just a job, there going through the motions. most times just fake it,
any ways her, for sure,

instead of just spreading her legs and spreading her open, its the seduction.
but well this hobby is not about the seduction is it.
Some women have to be stimulated not only physically... Anyway personally these are the kind of SP's that I do not wish to see.
 

Dr_X_man

Don Juan De X
Dec 2, 2010
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http://www.blameitonthevoices.com/2010/03/female-orgasm-facts.html

http://www.sogc.org/health/health-myths_e.asp

http://web4health.info/fa/answers/sex-male-help-female-orgasm.htm

Just some helpful information for you boys to better understand a woman and her body.

I feel the more you know how we work the better your sex life will be for you and your SO and/or SP

For myself a good rythm and constant stimulation along with the foreplay. You know what I mean sometimes men just want to get it on and achieve orgasm themselves that they try this and try that and forget about the needs of the partner. they are too focused on getting off themselves. Again communication isn't it much more pleasurable when both people get pleasure and satisfaction.

With that said yes we are as SP's here to provide you men, women, and couples a service we should be working on you and your needs. But most at least with me my clients the odd couples I see and the men want mutal satisfaction for all involved.

That is it for now...Happy Easter I have a house to clean and dinner to go to.....enjoy everyone.
Excellent thanks, cutie
For me, it's my clit.

I really just like it when I can ride a mans face :)
Thanks Alexis

Ladies please feel free to share. Not only I believe that every women is different than the other but I believe the spots on the same woman change ;) Let us make it based on individual knowledge ... so ladies and girls feel free to share if you know or id'ed the spot.
 

Lancaster

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You are probably just doing it wrong. Communicate with your SP we do enjoy orgasm along with you. If you communicate with her you will succed. It most womesn take about 20 minutes to reach climax. I will find a link and try to post iit here for you.
Maybe I am. She seems to really enjoy it... then suddenly she asks me to stop licking and start fucking, lol. I obviously enjoyed it, but I guess I want an "equal" relationship, eg. if I cum, she should get to cum as well.
She doesn't really give any hints or clues.... or at least none that's very different.....

Usually it makes me feel less confident for the next time. Kinda reminds of the line from the movie Deuce Bigalow...
Okay, gigolo. Do you even know when a woman is having an orgasm?
Sure I know. It's when she says:
"Please stop. It's okay. You tried.
Now, get off me. "


Only 15 min. :) I had girl(s) who never had an orgasm. Here is one girl story:
we spent few hours and she was almost there all the time. I did all that was listed on foreplay till she was literally begging for penetration.
Kissing, huging, blowing her ears, kissing her ears, kissing her neck, drawing maps with my tongue on her body, my hands were everywhere...teasing her and kissing around her sweet spot...she would think I'll daty but no wait...anticipation...I spent like 10min in teasing and foreplay...then daty, 69,....at least 15min...I have never had a girl that did not enjoy that...
Then for penetration...I started gentle...me on top..quiet some time >5 min...changed to few other positions all gentle...we spent maybe 40 min or more...of course my hands, tnogue, mouth were all over...then the moves were sped and the penetration went deeper...she started moaning...almost there...almost there...keep doing it do not stop do not stop...She says "I like your penis...perfect size...not too big and not too small"... I say "I know you have been working and looking for the perfect size...that's probably why you never had a big O" :)...
To make the story short. She came few times but she still thinks not the big O. Compared to other experiences I believe she is right.
All I am saying the poll and discussion will show very very interesting results.
I guess I need to go on longer, haha. I've done similar foreplay like the one you described, but all she said was, "It felt really really good.... as for cumming? I'm not sure....":confused:
 

Dr_X_man

Don Juan De X
Dec 2, 2010
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Maybe I am. She seems to really enjoy it... then suddenly she asks me to stop licking and start fucking, lol. I obviously enjoyed it, but I guess I want an "equal" relationship, eg. if I cum, she should get to cum as well.
She doesn't really give any hints or clues.... or at least none that's very different.....

Usually it makes me feel less confident for the next time. Kinda reminds of the line from the movie Deuce Bigalow...
Okay, gigolo. Do you even know when a woman is having an orgasm?
Sure I know. It's when she says:
"Please stop. It's okay. You tried.
Now, get off me. "




I guess I need to go on longer, haha. I've done similar foreplay like the one you described, but all she said was, "It felt really really good.... as for cumming? I'm not sure....":confused:
This is only for fun (this does not mean I agree or disagree with this video)
 

Dr_X_man

Don Juan De X
Dec 2, 2010
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Does this mean there are only two ladies that can id their spots :confused:? I know each girl is different and the same girl might be different :)
I'm sure a lot of perb guys have this

Meanwhile share with us if you have id'ed or found them.
 
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