Question on Mileage mostly looking for SPs response

[JohnDoeSmith]

As of today I have been with 4 ladies in the last 12 days and was wondering about that YMMV. I seemed to have been getting great mileage seems like each lady has gone a bit farther for me. I wanted to know for mileage which weighs more in the decision hotness or personality? My personal situation I think I have a great personality and easy to talk to. I open up to the girls and I am pretty honest because I do not really have a reason to lie or even try to impress the lady I am with. I do not claim I have lots of money I tell them straight up I have never had a job. I consider myself pretty average looking during sessions I am glad to return oral favor with DATY as best I can. Also does the fact I was a virgin recently play into an SPs decision to do a bit more for the newcomer? Anyways just wanted some input. If I didn't quickly find 2 ATFs I would like to test out my mileage on a SP who is consider uptight.

 

[newatit]

If you are that happy with what you are getting, stay with that. The mileage will often increase dramatically if the gal likes you as you will then be a happy experience for her too! Great when they look forward to your visits. Your recent virginity loss may also be a novelty to them, and they are taking advantage of giving you pleasures you have not yet experienced, so keep up the good work. Your inexperience is probably reminding them of their own once, and how they enjoyed learning new things.

sounds like you are in a winning situation.

 

[visiting]

but she's been visiting him, he's a great guy and that's why I was attracted to him......

If you're witty and funny I'll always be attracted.

hmmmmmm
is that some kind of new lingo.... "she's been visiting him".......

 

[sevenofnine]

it never really gets discussed,
but i think aggessive guys do well in this,
they push an sp to the limit
dont take no for an answer

the sp is under pressure, lets face it, this is her job,
who doesn't take a lot of bull shit at work,
plus she runs the risk of a shitty or bad review,
or loss of future income from this guy and perhaps others.

my sp told me not all that long ago, she had a few guys that would book the minimum amount of time
stay well past the due date. and were just rough with her, and repeatedly would not respect her limits or boundries.
they were regulars and she didn't like it but it was steady money.
she told me she just finally had enough and said not interested to them
refuses to see them.

but i guess she did for years.
i kind of think its common, a women's focus is money or safty and money,
she will put up with a lot for money as long as she thinks she is safe,

and well shit like i said who doesn't put up with some bull shit at work

i did when i was younger,
im just to old now.
i don't put up with any bull shit.

and i think sps are the same they get out they have had enough or,
they go from high volume to low volume weeding out all the clients they don't enjoy.

and i think a lot of women do enjoy this,
but not with every man they happen to meet along the way

 

[visiting]

I don't ask him what goes on between them...but she sought him out through facebook and has been hanging out with him (he lives in Seattle...) take from that what you wish!

Miss Melody..... I think you missed my humour..... re-read post #6 after you see my user name.... I highlighted the key word......

 

[JohnDoeSmith]

Still, the posts are very short for novices. May just you please lengthen them a little from next time?

I am not sure what you are saying here I am sorry

 

[JohnDoeSmith]

If you believe you are getting good mileage or extra service from a SP, particularly one that does not advertise that specific service, then she may appreciate it if you did not mention said extra service and go into graphic detail about it in a review so other potential clients do not go in expecting that service. I would also think that other SPs that may read that review may be more willing to give good mileage if they do not have to worry about you posting whatever extra service you had on the internet.

It has been discussed and totally fine.

 

[JohnDoeSmith]

it never really gets discussed,
but i think aggessive guys do well in this,
they push an sp to the limit
dont take no for an answer

I agree with Miss Melody's comment about this. I hate guys like this and strive to be the complete opposite. I try to start my sessions slow mostly for not wanting to be to pushy so its the SP usually initiating contact. For guys like this I hope what goes around comes back around rather soon.

 

[JohnDoeSmith]

Ya Vanesssa I was really myself with you no secret personality disguises. I have changed my personality in my personal life sometimes around attractive females by trying to act and talk a lot more mature than I really am. I am kind of a big kid at heart especially when I am around good friends. I am usually smiling most people think I am always happy but its my larger front teeth I have

 

[sevenofnine]

ok i will take the ladies at there word, im wrong.

im sorry if i offended anyone,
i had not intention of doing so,

and its not the way i behave,
but i say what i feel and occassionally i put my foot in my foot
again im sorry

 

[blazejowski]

This is as far as I got in this post before I became upset.

For the record boys, this is NOT how to get what you want!!!

That's 7 more sentences of a 7 of 9 post than I would ever read...

 

[sevenofnine]

I think you're awesome 7of9 and I'd love to meet you someday but ...

Wrong, wrong, wrong!!!!

thankyou for the vote of confidence,
and my two after being in this hobby for years and years.
whether your a male or a female in this,
survial sex is just that,
i need money so i will have sex with you,
or im so horny i will fuck anything

two people in this should be together because they want. whether you pay her or not.
and i have been there so horny
but the lady i see no way in hell does she have to see me,
i have had a long run i can stop any time and be happy, we
continue to see each other because we want
and it is nice for both of us.
that is the only way i would see another women in this,
we would have to find each other interesting enough that we would want to meet or enjoy each other enough that we would want to keep it going. money shouldn't really enter into it. or how horny i am shouldn't matter,
if your just at that level i need money so bad or i need to fuck so bad,
well i guess you get what you look for

 

[KewtKylie]

Sometimes the obvious is not that obvious... be nice to me and I will be nice to you.

It just makes common sense. Bring respect and happiness to an encounter; you will be rewarded. Don't respect boundaries, or make it all about you; an opportunity missed. A little bit of thought and chemistry goes such a long way.

 

[mimi]

@JohnDoeSmith

Wow! You've done 4 ladies in 12 days and you don't have a job? "I do not claim I have lots of money I tell them straight up I have never had a job."

Consider, for a moment, that you may have a career as a ladies companion. Hell, after reading your post I was ready to ask for your number, cause, you have the goods, my dear! If you can charm 4 stellar women who are in the biz, then, you are pretty exceptional.

Yeah, it isn't all looks, you have to be personable and attentive. You might wanna look up 'Canadian Knights', a website for men who are looking to date ladies for cash...they stress that great looks are less important than dressing and speaking well, and obviously your daty skills are above par...I'd lift my belly and let you nuzzle my humid honey pouch!

 

[JohnDoeSmith]

@JohnDoeSmith

Wow! You've done 4 ladies in 12 days and you don't have a job? "I do not claim I have lots of money I tell them straight up I have never had a job."

Consider, for a moment, that you may have a career as a ladies companion. Hell, after reading your post I was ready to ask for your number, cause, you have the goods, my dear! If you can charm 4 stellar women who are in the biz, then, you are pretty exceptional.

Yeah, it isn't all looks, you have to be personable and attentive. You might wanna look up 'Canadian Knights', a website for men who are looking to date ladies for cash...they stress that great looks are less important than dressing and speaking well, and obviously your daty skills are above par...I'd lift my belly and let you nuzzle my humid honey pouch!

I appreciate the compliments. I am an American Knight though . Doing this in Canada because its not legal where I am at and obeying the law has always been a big thing for me. I did not get any of the sessions for free. I felt that the 4 women I was with did enjoy my company. I preferred to talk with the ladies for a while to get both of us comfortable. This began with the first session I was pretty nervous as I was a virgin and I purposely delayed the action to get to know her better. I am pretty open with the ladies I have met I do not think there is anything I would not tell them about myself. I definitely got much better in bed in a short amount of time mostly kissing and DATY I was not much into the FS. I am really looking forward to my repeat with Josie. She was the first I was with and I would like to demonstrate what I've learned I was a terrible kisser our first meeting pretty much held my mouth slightly open and let her do it. But overall I am just a genuinely nice and respectful guy. I strive hard to be that guy because I am a pretty stocky, muscular guy and my friends try to push the badass gangster persona on me. But that is definitely not me I am loving pitbull sort of speak because that breed has a bad reputation. Anyways what brings you to this board Mimi are you a SP?

 

[PlayfulAlex]

Anyways what brings you to this board Mimi are you a SP?

Just so you're abreast of the rules, JDS, ladies in blue (non-advertisers) can't talk about being SPs...only ladies in red (perb paid advertisers)...

 

[mimi]

Nope...not anymore...retired: wounded in action. See my thread on "why do you come here" or some such thing.

Well, you should move to Canada and try it out for a while. Lots of guys from the US work up here. Your dedication to your art is truly inspiring. Why waste it? If you wanna see if you've got what it takes try it on paying women and see where it goes from there.