I read a post online about a mother who had a 13 year old son and a 16 year old daughter. The son found out some how that his mother was an escort. When he confronted her on it she said she wasnt and that she worked at a casino. One day he was nosey and found a vibrator and a 30 pack of condoms along with some lingere and many thongs. He logged on one day to the internet and meant to type something in, but some escort site popped up. He followed the links and found his mother. He confronted her again, and yet again she lied to him. He confronted her a third time when he called her listed number on the site and she answered, saying so and so here, which was her escort name, which im sure every guy on the planet knows escorts use, and they should. Theres enough creeps in the world I'd never give out my real name in that profession. Anyway, back to my story. He posted on a site somewhere I was reading, (Yahoo, found through google. Type 'I think my mums a escort', or ask i'll direct you to the article if you'd like to read it, although i've summed it up) and he basically is feeling suicidal that his mother wont tell him the truth. He doesnt understand why she cant just get a normal job and live in a smaller house. When he says I want you to quit, she says, "Oh and live on the streets?" It sounds to me that they are quite wealthy. The boy feels like killing him self quite often. I communicated through email to try and let him know that his mother does it for him to give him a good life and to give him luxerious in life. People were saying he should call child services and live with another family as its not right for an escort to have 2 kids sitting at home while shes out with her clients. This is what made me want to communicate with the boy. I tried to make him understand that its not his fault and in fact theres no fault in what she does. He has replied in an email to me asking me if I thought that his mother was having sex with all these men. Im not sure how to respond to this. The boy was saying in the same email his grades have gone up since i started talking to him and making sure he knows that she loves him and his sister first and far most. I feel I have made a positive impact on this boys life. I hadnt heard anything from him in 3 months so I assumed he had his closure and felt better. Then in an update email, he drops this bomb on me. He also said his sister often says 'Mom's an escort you know.' I have previously told him to ignore it but What can I say to this kid to make him feel like his mother is a good person. Im bothered by people from the outside that shun escorts. I have never had a bad experiance, and For the most part, the ones i've been to are great people to talk to. They make you feel good about your self and relax you. Every visit to an escort doesnt have to be sexual. Theres times for it, and theres times when I personally just need to relax. This kid is just 7 years younger then me, and I grew up suffering depression and suicide thoughts through my teen years. I would have loved for someone to come and tell me that everything is going to be alright. Thoughts?
Also, not my place to ask, but of the sp's on here, the ones that have kids, or if you had kids, would you lie to your child about being an sp? Even if he just needed closure to feel better about himself? This young man could have died from his own hands if I hadnt said anything or been taken away unjustly i might add, by child services.
What does everyone else think? What do I say to this young man? Hes 14 now.
Jack
Also, not my place to ask, but of the sp's on here, the ones that have kids, or if you had kids, would you lie to your child about being an sp? Even if he just needed closure to feel better about himself? This young man could have died from his own hands if I hadnt said anything or been taken away unjustly i might add, by child services.
What does everyone else think? What do I say to this young man? Hes 14 now.
Jack
