First post in 7 years, welcome aboard. I don't mind polite questions like this and it helps with some education for all. Posts are deleted for many reasons. Some include: the post is found to be false, or a shill. We can search IP addresses, and other means of finding out if the person posting the bad or good review is on the up and up. IP matches to the provider herself is a major red flag for example; The person asks to have the post deleted, or deletes it themselves, you can delete your own posts for a period of time after posting and then ask a mod to assist; the person has their entire account deleted, which can happen through the admin of the board only, in case of marital discord or other issue. Posts can be deleted because they revive a necropost from the archives, cause drama, insult others or otherwise contravene the board rules. (BBFS discussion has been coming up a lot lately, as well as accusations of drug use). We have had ex BFs and even other ladies with second or third handles posting bad reviews to damage a provider's reputation and business. In reverse, we have had well meaning fans of a lady post a review every day for a week, and at some point, that crosses a line into unpaid promotion.
Also, some posts get caught in the shuffle. If the opening post of a thread is deleted for the above reasons, the whole thread goes along with it, even the legitimate posts that follow. Same with necroposts, if someone revives a long dead thread, and others reply, every one of the new posts goes to return the thread to the archives.
PMs to mods asking about a disappeared post are welcome, reposting the same thing, or attacking the mods on the board about a missing post are a great way to get banned. We don't delete posts on a whim, there's always a reason. Honest, detailed reviews including rates and services will always be welcomed here positive or negative. Be polite, respectful and honest and your posts won't have a problem.