Question for the Ladies
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Yes...BC_Boy said:
One of my most favourite-est guys is just as you described ...
only, I wouldn't say he wasn't good at intercourse,
kinda hard to describe but let's just say,
I never missed it and it was never an issue
now...inquiring minds wanna know
"why are you asking? hmmm?"
I've given girls (SPs and non-sps) the best orgasms through oral and digits; but sometimes I have difficulty getting up.......and im only 26xoxo Amie said:Yes...
One of my most favourite-est guys is just as you described ...
only, I wouldn't say he wasn't good at intercourse,
kinda hard to describe but let's just say,
I never missed it and it was never an issue
now...inquiring minds wanna know
"why are you asking? hmmm?"
It's all in your head ... relax let the moment of the experience get your mojo going. Over thinking anything will make things not work, regardless of age or experience.BC_Boy said:
More often then not men who have had one bad experience with performace will automaticly over think " OMG please God, dont let this happen to me again " .... WELL guess what !! it does happen again and again then one day your man parts will complete stop working even for you (masterbation)
Instead, relax ~ be in the moment ~ enjoy the company you have and if she's a good lover who enjoys your company ( sp or non-sp ) she will know what to do to get your little man standing at full tilt.
Glad to see you're still around in your retirement. Best wishes for your schooling. I know you'll do well. Please don't disapear.Avarice said:Absolutely not.
A warm, pulsing, hard cock is a must have in any situation.
thanxs for the advice......its one of those things were sometimes I do not get up at all while sometimes I've been able to stay hard for as long as possible (she actually wore outAnnalise Lane said:
)I've heard that exercising, kegels, and less frequent masterbation can help
* i know for a fact that my problem isn't physical *
Ummmm
Okay.
Seriously. I had this boyfriend once. Crazy cool foreplay....knew how to kiss like a nobody's buisness BUT the damn guy only lasted like two seconds in my cute little cookie.
So here is the fix.
THE RABBIT.
You do all your foreplay stuff with her, you do whatever it takes to get you off too and then you introduce her to the RABBIT.
That bad boy has gotten me out of more "no orgasm" jams then I care to admit. No man can compete with the swirly beads, the really nigh level vibration and the mixture of the cock/clit stimulation.
It can be fun for both of you. You can play with it with her, she'll have crazy orgasms and all will be wel with the world.
Can I get an AMEN! from the ladies???? Toys rock. I have a toy box at home. I like to play. And if you have another playmate...EVEN BETTER!
So lick that cookie, kiss that girl, massage her feet or whatever, do her for 2 minutes or something and then BUST OUT THE RABBIT. She'll be one happy camper I tell you. HAVE FUN! Don't do anything I wouldn't do though (oh yeah......what IS that again???)
xox
TTF
Okay.
Seriously. I had this boyfriend once. Crazy cool foreplay....knew how to kiss like a nobody's buisness BUT the damn guy only lasted like two seconds in my cute little cookie.
So here is the fix.
THE RABBIT.
You do all your foreplay stuff with her, you do whatever it takes to get you off too and then you introduce her to the RABBIT.
That bad boy has gotten me out of more "no orgasm" jams then I care to admit. No man can compete with the swirly beads, the really nigh level vibration and the mixture of the cock/clit stimulation.
It can be fun for both of you. You can play with it with her, she'll have crazy orgasms and all will be wel with the world.
Can I get an AMEN! from the ladies???? Toys rock. I have a toy box at home. I like to play. And if you have another playmate...EVEN BETTER!
So lick that cookie, kiss that girl, massage her feet or whatever, do her for 2 minutes or something and then BUST OUT THE RABBIT. She'll be one happy camper I tell you. HAVE FUN! Don't do anything I wouldn't do though (oh yeah......what IS that again???)
xox
TTF
Pills can help, but it may be that your ED is not physically based as is prevalent in 50+ year olds. You are only 26.BC_Boy said:
Ask your MD to refer you to a psychologist specializing in ED. There's also counselling info on line at
http://rethink-counselling.com/cms/index and
http://www.counsellingbc.com/bc_counselling_directory/all_counsellors.html
Counselling may help clear a mental outlook dam that is hindering the blood flow. If so, you avoid an unnecessary drug dependence. If things do turn out to be physical, then go for the pills, and if they don't work the 'stick' will.
I'm not sure.......when I jerk off, I have no problem with my dick......and sometimes with a girl, I can get hard and stay hard for a hell of a long time, yet sometimes nothing happens........its kinda like the todd bertuzzi syndrome: "sometimes you are the most dominant player, sometimes you dont show up at all"tonguetied said:
Could be porn dick...maybe you've watched enough porn to the point that your wiener doesn't respond to the site, touch, and smell of the real thing anymore. Maybe conventional sex doesn't cut it anymore and you need a chick to take a dump on your chest to jump start the little feller. Maybe you should give trannies a whirl.
Have no idea but it's entirely possible. In my opinion, it's not too hard to believe that too much porn can completely change the way you look at and deal with intimacy and women in general, not to mention it could have you feeling that your equipment just ain't measuring up. Subconsciously you could be viewing SP's and porn chicks in the same manner and wondering whether your tool is on the lower end of the scale when you know they've taken in a couple of miles of cock in their time.
Go see your doctor and listen to what he says. I know guys in their late 30's that need ED meds to get to that happy place. Depends on the person. Get the check up, check into the counseling thing what have you got to lose?
