I didn't bother pointing out as you did about guys who like DATO (or girls who like DATO) because for that matter, those performing it on someone else are not being forced to do so (one would assume), so thus it is assumed they like it. However, we can't assume that those who perform it believe there is any fecal matter on the asshole - and if any assumption were to be made, it would probably be safer to assume they believed there was none. That being said, I would guess that those who like to perform DATO are doing it partly because they are not expecting to encounter shit.Hmm. That's an interesting way to put it. Of course that would also mean that a guy who likes to DATO doesn't mind ingesting a girl's fecal matter. Just saying! Whatever floats your boat, I guess.
I will be totally honest eventhough I probably shouldn't lol I am not a fan of DATO (on me - I have never and have no intention to perform it on someone ever). I enjoy various other forms of bum play when things progress in that direction and while I can occasionally be persuaded to receive DATO, that alone does not do much for me and yes, I'm then paranoid about where he's going to try to kiss next. Sorry if it's a bit crude but honestly, why in the world would I want to (essentially) kiss my own butt???? Um. Ya. No, thanks. Maybe if you gargle with bleach first. Lol I don't think fecal matter should get anywhere near anyone's mouth. But if you want it near your mouth, that's fine but please keep it away from either pairs of (my) lips, thank you! Ha!
Oh I'm so going to regret having written this post, aren't I?!....
As for your so-called "paranoia" about shit going near your mouth, I would not call it that. At worse it might be hypochondria. I think it is an instinctive human reaction to avoid shit. I would note that most animals don't have that - ie: cats - they lick their own buttholes, dogs - they lick their own and other buttholes and also carry shit in their mouths, etc.
I'm not crazy about shit but I think it's a fact of life, even outside of the bathroom. There's shit matter in the vegetables you pick from a garden or even the produce from the grocery store. Some people don't wash their hands after taking a dump and they fix food for you, or shake your hand. Anyone who engages in DATO is eating some shit, and passing it to their partner one way or another. Anyone engaging in anal sex is ALWAYS coming in contact with shit (and of course fecal bacteria) no matter how clean they think it is. Shit is a fact of life, it's obviously not going to kill anyone coming into contact with it - or even ingesting it, nor is it going to make you sick unless you have a depressed immune system.
I think bacteria are everywhere, and I believe it's better just to live instead of being stressed out about coming into contact with it.
