I have been a sugar girl before and am thinking about being one again just curious what men are looking for in this type of relationship...
any thoughts?
Thx!
any thoughts?
Thx!
Question for SugarDaddies
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I think this is an interesting option. I think for me finding one girl that I could see two or three times a month for a reasonable amount would be nice. Ideally it would be real GFE and no clock watching - someone you could really get to know over time!
I have seen some ads on craigslists but some of the financial expectations are crazy. I think if the girl is reasonable that it can work.
What is a reasonable amount considered to be? I never know how much guys think is to much...but I have financial needs as well right....so I just dont know where to meet in the middle.
what might be too much for one person might not be that much for someone else. i dont think there is a set amount, if someones willing to pay something and ur happy with it go for it. its not like we can assess market value of a female....LOL
Some of the girls on CL know what they want but can't fulfill the proper role of a sugar baby.
Ideally, a s.baby is one who is willing to go out for drinks or dinner every so often, be discreet, dress discreetly and is available for her s.daddy most of the time when he requests it. Like a part time gf. These situations will often be more personal. Each knowing the other's real name, what they do, etc. so as to create a sort of girlfriend experience. The s.daddy will either have an account set up for her, and take her on trips when the need arises or just give her cash every month.
I would think depending on the financial position and agreements between each other the price would vary. Usually ranging (for an ideal setup between both) $1000+ a month.
You can try finding one at a certain website.. google sugardaddie
Ideally, a s.baby is one who is willing to go out for drinks or dinner every so often, be discreet, dress discreetly and is available for her s.daddy most of the time when he requests it. Like a part time gf. These situations will often be more personal. Each knowing the other's real name, what they do, etc. so as to create a sort of girlfriend experience. The s.daddy will either have an account set up for her, and take her on trips when the need arises or just give her cash every month.
I would think depending on the financial position and agreements between each other the price would vary. Usually ranging (for an ideal setup between both) $1000+ a month.
You can try finding one at a certain website.. google sugardaddie
Who you are going to market to
This is not really any different than any other business transaction:
Identify who you are marketing to and what need you are satisfying, determine if you are capable of delivering it, then set the price. Setting the price is a tricky thing, but consider what you are bringing to the party that makes it worth while for someone to pay you that amount, rather than paying someone else. When you figure that out, then you will be very successful in the arrangement.
This is not really any different than any other business transaction:
Identify who you are marketing to and what need you are satisfying, determine if you are capable of delivering it, then set the price. Setting the price is a tricky thing, but consider what you are bringing to the party that makes it worth while for someone to pay you that amount, rather than paying someone else. When you figure that out, then you will be very successful in the arrangement.
CL wouldn't be the place to look than if you want to do it right. Find ur market that u would like and search the places they would be, like what I suggested earlier or other such sites like them. You have to pay but it should pay off later.
You'd be surprised. my friend had a SD and he had an account set up for her. also took her across the world.
I've obviously been in this type of relationship. Been seeing a woman for a little over 2 years. I go onto her facebook page, read about what's going on and we're in touch 5-6 times a week. It's sort of like a lover, older brother, friend all rolled into one type of arrangement.
I think why I personally like it is because you actually can allow yourself to care about this person, while at the same time respecting each others different lives. There'a also something special sexually about seeing the same woman on an ongoing basis as you get to know each others likes and dislikes. The other bonus is that no matter how much crap is going on in your lives, when you get together, it's just pure sex, without dealing with the fight the night before and all the crap that's in a normal relationship. Add all this up and I think it's quite a remarkable type of arrangement.
In terms of financial arrangements, $200-250 a visit seems about right. The woman I've been seeing we started off at $200 a visit. Then we needed a place to play and so I started renting condos. She offered to pay 1/2, and I declined her offer. Over time (ie 6 months or so) I enjoyed her company so much I started giving her another $50 a visit.
But the relationship has been tested time and time again. Most recently she's been diagnosed with cancer and so I've decided to help her out, without any expectations whatsoever. It wasn't an easy choice.
I think why I personally like it is because you actually can allow yourself to care about this person, while at the same time respecting each others different lives. There'a also something special sexually about seeing the same woman on an ongoing basis as you get to know each others likes and dislikes. The other bonus is that no matter how much crap is going on in your lives, when you get together, it's just pure sex, without dealing with the fight the night before and all the crap that's in a normal relationship. Add all this up and I think it's quite a remarkable type of arrangement.
In terms of financial arrangements, $200-250 a visit seems about right. The woman I've been seeing we started off at $200 a visit. Then we needed a place to play and so I started renting condos. She offered to pay 1/2, and I declined her offer. Over time (ie 6 months or so) I enjoyed her company so much I started giving her another $50 a visit.
But the relationship has been tested time and time again. Most recently she's been diagnosed with cancer and so I've decided to help her out, without any expectations whatsoever. It wasn't an easy choice.
Good post.
Basically I agree with everything you said.
If you're going into this relationship, for it to work you have to have boundaries and you have to respect the woman you're involved with, meaning you want someone trying to get ahead in their lives. It's also important, at least for me that we can make each other laugh..if I get bored at work, I'll purposely try and e-mail her something that's going to make her laugh her ass off..not really a necessary part of the relationship, but it's a nice bonus.
I really respect what you have said, befor becoming what i am it bothered me that married men would consider doin what they do but this business and what you just said has completely changes my opinion, it is sad how life sometimes takes us to places we couldnt have imagined being in but if we can find something that keeps us happy but at the same time taking care of our responsibilities is something to be respected and understood, so thank you for changing my view!!!
well said
Great perspective of your particular scenario. I was also in a very similar situation with my SB of 2 years. I work hard, play hard, am a great provider, but the everyday toils of a marriage are draining. I am the single last priority to my wife over the kids, laundry, keeping house, washing her hair etc.
I fly into town for the weekend my SB is 100% committed to pleasing me. Form porn star sex to massages, even just snuggling watching a movie, it was very relaxing while also rewarding. Similarly, I never paid a prescribed amount. I always would just slide her some money when she needed to make the occasional purchase beyond her everyday means, as well as buying her clothing, jewelry etc. It was also a great lifestyle augmentation for her being able to eat out at fancy restaurants, go to concerts, Canucks games etc.
Sadly, all good things must come to an end. Damn I miss her ! Would love to find another similar scenario, but everything else I’ve looked at, reeks of hand outs…..
CM,
Great perspective of your particular scenario. I was also in a very similar situation with my SB of 2 years. I work hard, play hard, am a great provider, but the everyday toils of a marriage are draining. I am the single last priority to my wife over the kids, laundry, keeping house, washing her hair etc.
I fly into town for the weekend my SB is 100% committed to pleasing me. Form porn star sex to massages, even just snuggling watching a movie, it was very relaxing while also rewarding. Similarly, I never paid a prescribed amount. I always would just slide her some money when she needed to make the occasional purchase beyond her everyday means, as well as buying her clothing, jewelry etc. It was also a great lifestyle augmentation for her being able to eat out at fancy restaurants, go to concerts, Canucks games etc.
Sadly, all good things must come to an end. Damn I miss her ! Would love to find another similar scenario, but everything else I’ve looked at, reeks of hand outs…..
Have any of you married men fallen in love with another woman and she loves you but you have kids to look after? Would you ever consider leaving your wife who doesn't love you and you sleep in separate bedrooms for this woman you've now found love with?
