I'm curious how this looks from your end. I'm a romantic and looking for more than merely a sexual experience. I like repeat visits because it humanizes both of us but also allows a personal connection. Does that complicate the exchange or enrich it for you? Is this a dividing line between those who offer GFE and those who do not? Please hold your opinion if not a SP thanks.
question for SPs : romance, affection
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My tagline is “fall in love in 60 minutes” soooOOOooooOooOooo
You wouldn’t be human (and yes some are you are not ) if you didn’t feel that way when you connect with someone really well & it keeps going , it can be a heartbreaking hobby for some sensitive ones for sure .
You just have to always remember if money is being exchanged it’s a client /provider relationship and both must respect each others privacy .
Sadly many men try to get “too friendly “ too fast and it can be a very big red flag & then you won’t get to see her at all . Many escorts will make you feel like you’re our personal lover , adore you , make you feel like no one else , that’s because that’s our job , we want you coming back 😘be careful
They won't tell you the truth because they want to make money and being honest could hurt their business.
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Truth can be a moving target but most of us know when the connection is real
Yes, but the connection is not real or genuine if you have to pay for it.
Unless the provider genuinely likes you and wants to spend time with you and have sex with you for free (which does happen sometimes for some guys), the connection is not real. And even if that does happen, I would advise being careful, as there may be hidden reasons or ulterior motives behind it.
It's a good idea to save your emotions and romantic feelings for women who truly care about you and want to be with you without payment. If you can't find that, it might be a sign that you need to work on yourself. You may not be as kind and great as you want others to believe, if you cant find that.
You seem to have missed that I don't want your opinion. I'm askjng the girls.
So not true , I have clients I’ve had for years I truly deeply care for .they enjoy knowing they contribute to my care , my dogs care , happiness . Men with your opinion are very jaded & not too emotionally intelligent. Everyone gets different experiences from this world.
I believe you and I get it. It's a human vocation even with the complications of payment. Fuck I worked as a family therapist for years. Paid for compassion. Yah.. life is complicated!
Ok I hear you, the day you feel connected, declare that you are broke and respond back how it goes afterward.
Start your own forum if you don't want everyone's opinion 😂🤣
Just a piece of advice, bad things happen to members who try and control what gets posted on PERB.
Of course you can have a connection with your SP, just know there are risks to that and more likely than not one or both of you will get hurt in the end. Good luck OP!
This post and thread is really sad. The person who wrote it seems very lonely and clearly doesn't have many real-life friends, connections, or any romantic relationship prospects. Instead of dealing with this, they are only turning to paid "relationships" to make themselves feel better. At the same time, he is rejecting advice from other men, refusing to take any accountability for why he is in this situation. and living in a delusional situation.
On the other hand, there are a group of service providers who are exploiting his loneliness in a pathetic attempt to boost their own business. They are convincing him that it's okay to consider paid relationships as valuable as genuine non-paid relationships. I can't help but believe that these providers are misguided and so accustomed to their own one-sided, para-social relationships, that they don't realize how sad, bitter, and jaded they sound, and don't care because they are desperate for new clients. They also seem to be lacking genuine connections in their own lives. It seems like they want OP to be just like them.
On the other hand, there are a group of service providers who are exploiting his loneliness in a pathetic attempt to boost their own business. They are convincing him that it's okay to consider paid relationships as valuable as genuine non-paid relationships. I can't help but believe that these providers are misguided and so accustomed to their own one-sided, para-social relationships, that they don't realize how sad, bitter, and jaded they sound, and don't care because they are desperate for new clients. They also seem to be lacking genuine connections in their own lives. It seems like they want OP to be just like them.
Agree.
You can definitely have a connection and enjoy time off the clock IF you respect their boundaries. Just because they are an escort doesn’t mean they are available.
There will be certain boundaries to a provider-client connection that might not be there in a personal relationship, but if someone is kind and respectful and I can laugh and feel at ease around them, of course I will genuinely care for their well-being and a connection will develop. The important thing is to not get too invested in what that means, unless it's very clear that both parties want to develop a deeper relationship.
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