QUESTION FOR NON SMOKING SP's and YMMV

[tdhmale]

This is something I wanted to ask the non smoking SP's in relevance to YMMV in services offered. I seen an ad tonight stating an SP's "dislikes" indicating she was allergic to it.
I can respect that no problem. I am a smoker, but over the years, and have always respected the non-smoker and their space/enviroment. If I'm visiting a non-smoking dwelling
for a great length of hours (like a day with the family), I will step outside and have a smoke break.
My question, (hopefully some SP's here will give some input), even though a respectful smoker would not smoke around the SP, someone like me would obviously smell like smoke.
I am a clean person and never go out my door without having a shower and getting cleaned up, but if I am on my way to go see an SP, one of the last things I do before I arrive at
the door is have that last cigarette, so aside for the lack of interest in mouth kissing an SP might have with a smoker, do they limit other things under that infamous YMMV ?
So far, in all the years I have been smoking, I have never run into anybody that had a problem with it, other than respecting their home, etc. But I have never had an SP say
anything or have any limits on what she offered, because I may have showed up smelling like a smoker, but I wouldn't rule it out that they may exist.

 

[westwoody]

If she really is allergic to it that is quite different to mere dislike.

It is possible that she could react to something you would not notice.

I had a reaction to something a few weeks ago that my friend did not realise would harm me. Unintended but serious. Err on the side of caution.

 

[tdhmale]

Yes, I know. I am referring to SP's limiting YMMV, simply because they smell like smoke. I've encountered females in the "vanilla" dating world that won't allow DATY from the mouth of a smoker, haha

 

[Kamloopsbc]

I have a very sensitive nose.
The mere smell of cigarette smoke and it's hard to not actually throw up it makes me so nauseous.
What smokers don't realize is when they go outside and smoke, they still stink for hours and hours after.
A shower and fresh clean clothes, and gargling with scope or listening should help you out.
Yes I know that you asked for the opinion of the SP....but telling you my thoughts.

 

[tdhmale]

What smokers don't realize is when they go outside and smoke, they still stink for hours and hours after.

Actually some us do realize that and are well aware of it. Thats what I was implying in the post. In my personal life, it's one of the main reasons most of my friends are smokers.
I am generally not in the habit of constantly socializing with non-smokers. (compatibility thing)

 

[Lady Companion]

If she has an actual allergy to tobacco, then I imagine she wouldn't want your hands or tongue anywhere near her epithelial tissue. If it is the smoke she is allergic to, from an inhalation standpoint, then I don't think it would cause her problems.

If it is just her way of saying that smoke bothers her, then you could have varying scenarios. Likely kissing would be out of the question. Daty may or may not be. And using your hands may also be off limits. Nobody wants nicotine, whether from tongue or hands anywhere near their sexy parts.

I think overall, it will depend on the lady. I have some friends who I know are smokers, but I can never smell or taste it on them, even if they have smoked recently. Brush your teeth, scrape your tongue, eat some parsley and drink some water. If I can smell the smoke in your mouth while we are talking, then I'm not going to want your lips or tongue on any part of body.

 

[golferjohn]

clearly you're going the extra mile to make certain you don't offend, perhaps take that one/last step and quit...I stopped smoking 20 years ago and it was one of the best decisions I've ever made.

 

[Pretty_Priya]

I had a customer tell me that DATY is more pleasurable for the woman right after he's had a smoke because the nicotine is "stimulating."

No. It is not. It's gross.

If you're a smoker, please be a dear and brush your teeth before you engage in DFK or DATY with a woman. It is so very appreciated, and you'll definitely get more action.