Question about my age & shape when seeing an SP
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I’ll chime in with my thoughts before this thread gets locked, haha.
As others have conveyed it’s all about the bucks. And whether you’re a stud or just old and out to pasture, these ladies (the good ones who are smart) are there to create the illusion that you are desirable, when in fact in a civilian setting they think us assholes or wouldn’t give us a second look. Precious few of we pooners are in any way attractive to an SP. so from that perspective, we are all equal.
That being said, we’re all human and we’re attracted to what we’re attracted to. So if you’re a conventionally-attractive male (and not an asshole) it’s likely the SP will enjoy the session more than if not. I have been told this by numerous SPs in moments of candor. But that doesn’t mean there are not SPs who have a wider spectrum of what they find attractive physically; I’ve had conversations with those SPs as well.
My advice to the OP would be to be honest and up front in your introductory text or email, as I think we all appreciate transparency. So something like:
Hi,
My name is Blah-blah and I’m a 58-year-old divorced dad. With a dad bod. In fact, I’m probably a few pounds more than I need to be but I’m working on it 😀. I’m interested in such and such a service and wondering if you cater to gentlemen like myself. I would completely understand if not; I haven’t done this before so I’m just looking for an experience where I’ll be accepted for who I am.
Best of luck with your journey. Let us know how it goes.
As others have conveyed it’s all about the bucks. And whether you’re a stud or just old and out to pasture, these ladies (the good ones who are smart) are there to create the illusion that you are desirable, when in fact in a civilian setting they think us assholes or wouldn’t give us a second look. Precious few of we pooners are in any way attractive to an SP. so from that perspective, we are all equal.
That being said, we’re all human and we’re attracted to what we’re attracted to. So if you’re a conventionally-attractive male (and not an asshole) it’s likely the SP will enjoy the session more than if not. I have been told this by numerous SPs in moments of candor. But that doesn’t mean there are not SPs who have a wider spectrum of what they find attractive physically; I’ve had conversations with those SPs as well.
My advice to the OP would be to be honest and up front in your introductory text or email, as I think we all appreciate transparency. So something like:
Hi,
My name is Blah-blah and I’m a 58-year-old divorced dad. With a dad bod. In fact, I’m probably a few pounds more than I need to be but I’m working on it 😀. I’m interested in such and such a service and wondering if you cater to gentlemen like myself. I would completely understand if not; I haven’t done this before so I’m just looking for an experience where I’ll be accepted for who I am.
Best of luck with your journey. Let us know how it goes.
I was seeing the ladies when I was around 260 lbs and heard nary a peep of complaint or criticism. The 2 times I mentioned my size before a session, they both commented that they thought I’d be bigger and that I shouldn’t worry. I’m around your weight now, and slowly dropping down, and still have never experienced any negativity about weight.
This is all you need to do for a good session: pick someone with good reviews, be polite and clear about the date/time, length of session, and any other details they request, don’t do a tonne of back and forth in the communication stage, be on time, pay the rate without quibbling, be clean (seriously - wash very thoroughly in the shower), and be respectful. If you do all that, I can almost guarantee you’ll have a great time.
*sigh*
Again. Comprehension.
I didn't say you were being negative. I was pointing out that he wasn't concerned about his waistline he was concerned about being rejected. And then pointing out that your post had virtually nothing to do with the topic. As is you usual posting "style".
Well it’s 7:30 am and I’m seeing a hottie this evening. If I start an exercise routine and watch my diet all day that should make me an Adonis by then. Totally valid advice.
Maybe this thread could be combined with the Has an SP ever insulted you before?.
Hey, let's stop dumping on the guy offering diet and exercise advice. He's just trying, in his own way, to be helpful.
However, to the OP, I'll just reiterate what others have been saying. You're dealing with professionals here. Just be upfront and follow the two golden rules: be clean and don't be a jerk.
However, to the OP, I'll just reiterate what others have been saying. You're dealing with professionals here. Just be upfront and follow the two golden rules: be clean and don't be a jerk.
