Question about being a regular.

[geek]

What is the etiquette for being a regular? Do you ask the sp if you can be a regular or do just make regular appointments? And how many sessions does it take before you are considered a regular?

And is it better to be a regular or is it better to see a different sp every time?

The reason I'm asking is after what I call the fiasco of 2008 I am a bit gunshy about being a regular.

So what are people's opinions?

 

[melissa.in.abby]

The reason I'm asking is after what I call the fiasco of 2008 I am a bit gunshy about being a regular.

huh? I am always the one who misses the action, lol, what was the fiasco?

 

[geek]

huh? I am always the one who misses the action, lol, what was the fiasco?

Sorry meilissa but the details are between me and the escorts involved and I am really tired of drama and missed appointments.

 

[wpgguy]

I don't think anyone can tell you if it's better to be a regular or not, it all depends on you and the SP. That also depends on what you define as "regular". Is it once a month, twice a month, one a week or more?

I have always preferred to see a variety of different ladies unless I find one that I really connect with. I think the biggest advantage of seeing a regular is that after a few visits you should both know exactly which buttons to push, but you lose the anticipation and rush of seeing someone new.

I would think the biggest draw back would be someone getting to attached to a SP, that scenario seems to pop up here every so often and it always takes a toll on someone, usually the pooner.

No problem being a regular if you always remember that there is probably a 99.99% chance of you being nothing more than a client no matter how you feel.

 

[namssa]

huh? I am always the one who misses the action, lol, what was the fiasco?

My guess is that 2008 was not the greatest pooning year for the poster. Fiasco seems to be of a personal nature that he does not wish to share.

 

[wess]

I don't think anyone can tell you if it's better to be a regular or not, it all depends on you and the SP. That also depends on what you define as "regular". Is it once a month, twice a month, one a week or more?

I have always preferred to see a variety of different ladies unless I find one that I really connect with. I think the biggest advantage of seeing a regular is that after a few visits you should both know exactly which buttons to push, but you lose the anticipation and rush of seeing someone new.

I would think the biggest draw back would be someone getting to attached to a SP, that scenario seems to pop up here every so often and it always takes a toll on someone, usually the pooner.

No problem being a regular if you always remember that there is probably a 99.99% chance of you being nothing more than a client no matter how you feel.

Doesnt your income determine how often you go see an sp? Or i guess how much you allow yourself to go pooning.

I found this chick that im going to make a regular out of, i was thinking once a month.

 

[Krustee]

Sorry meilissa but the details are between me and the escorts involved and I am really tired of drama and missed appointments.

My guess is that 2008 was not the greatest pooning year for the poster. Fiasco seems to be of a personal nature that he does not wish to share.

I'll second that!

It seems I wasn't the only one who had (a) disastrous trainwreck session(s) in 2008.

As I used to tell my good friend Forrest, "Shit happens".
He repeated that term occasionally & it became somewhat of a catch phrase back in the day.

So you has some less than stellar experiences? - shit happens.

You get bucked off -
get back on.

Doesnt your income determine how often you go see an sp? Or i guess how much you allow yourself to go pooning.

I found this chick that im going to make a regular out of, i was thinking once a month.

Income certainly affects your frequency & for some who they see.

If a gal really turns your crank I'm sure you will find the means to increase the number of encounters per month.

Personally, I think you should keep a "regular" & explore with others as your finances will allow.

My days of blowing 2-3 G a month on this hobby are over.
When this happens you tend migrate to whoever provides the most "bang for the buck" to steal a phrase from those smarmy fireworks salesmen.

I can only imagine I'm not alone in this scenario.

 

[wess]

As I used to tell my good friend Forrest, "Shit happens".
He repeated that term occasionally & it became somewhat of a catch phrase back in the day.

So you has some less than stellar experiences? - shit happens.

You get bucked off -
get back on.




Income certainly affects your frequency & for some who they see.

If a gal really turns your crank I'm sure you will find the means to increase the number of encounters per month.

Personally, I think you should keep a "regular" & explore with others as your finances will allow.

My days of blowing 2-3 G a month on this hobby are over.
When this happens you tend migrate to whoever provides the most "bang for the buck" to steal a phrase from those smarmy fireworks salesmen.

I can only imagine I'm not alone in this scenario.

If you want value then fly to Thailand a couple times a year.

 

[Krustee]

- Personal preferences are known on both sides more and more as you get to know each other. The quality of sex and it's satisfaction should improve.
- With the right attitude, delving into new territory can be even more satisfying with someone you are well acquainted with, rather than an almost stranger.
- Knowing someone better means you can care about them more.. this can create a much more intimate and intense experience.

Good points Nina, the more time you spend with her/him the more comfortable & relaxed you become which 9 times out of 10 = better encounters.

For both the providee & provider the likes & dislikes become known & things just flow...
such as the juicy stuff.

Cons:

- Keeping emotions in check.-- This is the biggest issue I would think. It's not easy to keep your heart and head in the right places when the connection is awesome. We've all read those sad tales of clients falling for their providers. (and there are ones going the other way too, don't kid yourself)

xoxo
Nina

Yeah that, I've felt strongly about a couple & on the other side, back when I was worth about 3 time more than I am now, I had a couple SP's offer to work out a "live-in" arrangement.
No doubt caused by the gold tinted glasses they were wearing.
(hence my signature below)

 

[blazejowski]

I've only been with one SP more than once, only because she worked for cheap (for me) and I have to say the sex got more and more amazing as we got to know each other a lot better.

However, on the flipside of that coin, I like some variety in my life, and I have seen many SPs only once...

So to answer your question, I have no freaking idea...

 

[wpgguy]

Doesnt your income determine how often you go see an sp? Or i guess how much you allow yourself to go pooning.

I found this chick that im going to make a regular out of, i was thinking once a month.

That's exactly my point, "regular" can mean different things to different people. You say once a month, which is about my definition of regular as well but I bet there are others here who would disagree.

Budget probably has more to do with it than any other factor. How many pooners have the disposable income to see a SP three, four or five times a week for an extended time frame. I'm sure a few but I'm willing to bet the bulk of the guys here see a girl every two weeks or less.

 

[blazejowski]

I'm sure a few but I'm willing to bet the bulk of the guys here see a girl every two weeks or less.

God, I WISH I was so lucky....

 

[wpgguy]

God, I WISH I was so lucky....

You and me both buddy, I'm in the every three to six weeks area right now and that's pretty often for me, I went six months last summer between SP's.

 

[blazejowski]

You and me both buddy, I'm in the every three to six weeks area right now and that's pretty often for me, I went six months last summer between SP's.

STILL better than me.... LOL
Bastards!!!

 

[Thatotherguy]

You and me both buddy, I'm in the every three to six weeks area right now and that's pretty often for me, I went six months last summer between SP's.

Heh, I'm pretty erratic in my pooning habits. I'll go for a couple of months without seeing anyone, and then go 4 or 5 times in a 2 week period.

 

[blazejowski]

Heh, I'm pretty erratic in my pooning habits. I'll go for a couple of months without seeing anyone, and then go 4 or 5 times in a 2 week period.

Trust me, if I had more cash, pooning would definitely be my #1 vice....

(not that it isn't already... )

 

[overdone]

Sorry meilissa but the details are between me and the escorts involved and I am really tired of drama and missed appointments.

Then why did you mention it? You could have asked the question with out adding that comment.

 

[FortunateOne]

to see a SP three, four or five times a week for an extended time frame. I'm sure a few but I'm willing to bet the bulk of the guys here see a girl every two weeks or less.

I don't think there is any sp out there who would expect this from anyone they would call "regular" lol. I doubt if there is more than one guy out there who could even claim to do this either. And if he did, he should seriously consider moving in with her.

Anyone who visits more than twice could be called regular, and that might be over a 6-7 month period. By the 4th visit, I think both parties know it will either carry on or fizzle out.

 

[wpgguy]

LOL, I meant that more as seeing 3 to 5 Sp's a week, not just the same one. Trawler is probably the only pooner that's seen the same girl 5 times in a week.

 

[djwjustaguy]

I think I am a regular in that I have seen the same girl more than twice over a three year period. I seldom see anyone: on average 3-4 times a year but usually different girls and always well reviewed.