Queries re multiple hours sessions

[lenny]

I'm just wondering how common it is in, say for example, a three
hour session, when it is the first time you are seeing her, that the
lady talks for the first hour? Is this assumed to be part of a GFE?

And what should the client do if he feels on the one hand that he
did not expect to be paying for chat, but on the other hand does
not wish to hurt her feelings by saying that?

If one hour dates tend to get right into the physical intimacy as
distinct from multi hour sessions, even if the latter are discounted,
the former would still be the better deal re my personal needs.

 

[sevenofnine]

from personal experiance every lady is different and handles or views her time as different.

some ladies don't have a problem at all with getting down to business, as soon as the door is closed, on first date or not.
whether you book one hour or three it doesn't make a bit of difference to them,


others are more comfortable with some chit chat. or insist on chit chat, no matter how many times you have seen them before.

some ladies, pretty much try to divide half and half
half chit chat half fun.
so yes some ladies prefer to talk as long as they can,

i don't mind talking, but i don't need to spend six seven hundred dollars plus to talk to a lady, thats not what im paying seven or so hundred dollars for.


my personal view, is after three years in this hobby,
if im a regular with a lady, not a first or second date, where comfortable and know each other,
as soon as the door is closed, we can rip each others clothes off and go for it, whether its one hour or four,
i should be able to if thats what i want.
i won't see a lady if i can't.

im in my mid fifties, so there is little chance of me going non stop for hours.
but there is a chance of me getting a second or if im luckey a third shot on goal.
and when i pay for three or four hours, that is basicly what im paying for, a second or third shot on goal,
not to have chit chat, i can stay home and do that or find a bar, its alot cheaper.

 

[sevenofnine]

Wouldn't you need at least 3 hours just to bust a nut? I could have swore I saw you yacking about this in another thread Why not just be up front with the girl and tell her yor exectations? Pretty simple stuff stallion

for a guy that hates being down and negative
you can't seem to wait to get on some ones case,

maybe you should take some of your own advice,
and stop being so negative

 

[trackstar]

for a guy that hates being down and negative
you can't seem to wait to get on some ones case,

maybe you should take some of your own advice,
and stop being so negative

Hubba negative? You're kidding right? Or are you really that sensitive?

 

[lenny]

Wouldn't you need at least 3 hours just to bust a nut? I could have swore I saw you yacking about this in another thread

Perhaps you misunderstood something.

Do you have a quote with link & post number?

And what's the point of your winkie icon?

Thanks.

 

[HeMadeMeDoIt]

The only person I pay $$$/hr to talk is my fucking lawyer! She's just running the clock and you need to be a little more assertive and take control of the session. Politely ask/tell that you're not really here to talk and get on with it. If you need to talk do it between nuts!

SEVEN Hubba will come across as negative to you because he doesnt go and fall in love with the SPs he sees and comes back on here to whine about it Pfffft!

 

[Harmony-bc]

Most of the men that book me for multiple hours, it is because they want it to feel more like a real date. They bring a bottle of wine, spend some time conversing, cuddling, slow dancing, etc. I rarely (like never) get guys that want hard core non-stop sex. Msog are fine. If I had a three hr date, I would naturally think that the first part would be spent, sharing a few drinks, flirting, building the anticipation, feeding the fire, etc. If that isn't how he would want the date to go, I would be ok with deviating from the norm, but I would expect him to be vocal about what his needs are and what he expects.

 

[Jessikaxxx]

gfe

"...lady talks for the first hour? Is this assumed to be part of a GFE? "

LMAO.

can she demand your credit card and bitch at you to take out the trash? Is that assumed to be part of a girlfriend experience?

-hilarious!

thanx for the laugh.

xoxox,
jxxx
604-961-6260

 

[FortunateOne]

First, it is best to know the lady well before getting into a contract for multiple hours. You should have had a few dates with her which will tell you wether she works for the contracted time or prefers to get you out the door asap or get you off then relax on your time. You will also have established a relationship of knowledge and trust, and that generally leads to a much more successful longer time experience. It is really risky and likely unnerving for both of you to just jump into a multi hour deal. If I had never seen a lady before and was discussing a longer time experience, maybe a coffee outside her office like at a coffee shop would be in order for both of you to explore the issue. If you are only talking about two or three hours, she probably wouldn't feel such is warranted, in other words, pay your money and take your chances. Why bother with 3 hours, it is nothing, do an overnight, much more relaxing for everyone. And on that note I would definitely not recommend an overnight unless you have a good knowledge of the lady and her skill set and how it relates to your particular needs and expectations. You can be disappointed and upset if your homework isn't done right.

I agree that shorter appts are better first. Obviously you want to know if this is even someone you want to spend longer times with. But I disagree that you would meet someone for "coffee" outside of her incall to discuss an even longer session like an overnighter when you haven't even committed to a short appt. (especially when you are asking her to put herself into a delicate position of discussing rates & services in a public place)

If you don't spend the short time how is hanging out for a cup of joe going to tell you anything about an overnighter? Plus, I would hope that she is savvy enough to see thru this meet-&-greet ploy, and charge a companionship fee for taking her away from legitimate appts.

If the sp has a lot of great reviews for shorter appts, then book one and see how you get along. If you check out if she is available to extend the time, plus what the rate for that would be, you can always stay longer.

 

[lenny]

Well??? Did I misunderstand?

https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=104737

I`m still waiting for a quote, thread and post number.

One out of three is a start, though ;

 

[hang5507]

I don't mean to come across as rude or crass, but are you not the paying customer. Are your needs not first?? Or am I missing something here..

Regards

H

 

[FortunateOne]

I don't mean to come across as rude or crass, but are you not the paying customer. Are your needs not first?? Or am I missing something here..

Regards

H

Longer sessions are just like any short one: you both need to be on the same page before it starts, so both of you know what is or isn't going to happen. If you want msog the only way to make that happen in an hour appt is to get at it immediately. Not everyone can do it, and some don't even bother to try, so for them a slower paced beginning is what maximizes their experience.

Some longer session rates are based on "dates", so the rate is lower (1hr fs + 2x companion rate maybe half or less of the hour rate) to reflect just conversation, dinner, whatever. If you want an extended all action appt, then you could expect to pay 2-3 x her hourly fs rates. There might be a small discount on the 3rd hour if you book that long a time, but even an hour appt has some "down" time after all. And overnighters usually include a min # of hours of sleep time or similar, and no one should expect to be waking the sp up at 4am or whenever for more action. Most sps who do longer sessions have these parameters already set up; extending the play beyond her stated ones is ymmv & not to be expected.

 

[trackstar]

I guess if you can't open the link and read, you're on your own Stallion

Did you just finish watching a Rocky marathon or what?

 

[tugger]

Msog?!?

Most of the men that book me for multiple hours, it is because they want it to feel more like a real date. They bring a bottle of wine, spend some time conversing, cuddling, slow dancing, etc. I rarely (like never) get guys that want hard core non-stop sex. Msog are fine. If I had a three hr date, I would naturally think that the first part would be spent, sharing a few drinks, flirting, building the anticipation, feeding the fire, etc. If that isn't how he would want the date to go, I would be ok with deviating from the norm, but I would expect him to be vocal about what his needs are and what he expects.

I wish I were offered MSOG! Some how it flet like the time we spent together went by too quickly.

 

[Harmony-bc]

I wish I were offered MSOG! Some how it flet like the time we spent together went by too quickly.

Massage is different, because I actually give a proper all over body massage, I only offer one release. Next time, I will spend a longer time teasing you. If you would like 2 releases instead, I could give you one right away and the other at the end. Be vocal about your needs, I will always try to accommodate them, as long as they are not disrespectful or harmful.

Love Harmony xoxox

 

[sevenofnine]

i thought i was done whinning, how come noone noticed

you always run the risk in any session, when you click its great, if you don't it feels like a waste of time, at best,no matter if you have seen the lady or not

i think i would book sight unseen mulit hours, with a lady i could research well and had legit pictures and she had a good rep and i emailed a couple times.

how hard is it for two people to be civil to one another for a few hours.
i can hold my end, and if the lady has a good rep, im sure she can hold her end up as well, were not talking marriage here,