Qestion and Advice on Ballbusting

[terrafirma]

Hi All:

My name is terrafirma and I live in Seattle but I visit Vancouver from time to time so awhile back I joined your great board. I was wondering if I could get the advice of some of you who partake in Vancouver's vibrant BDSM scene? I will be visiting Vancouver next month and I was hoping to book a session with one of your wonderful Dominatrixes. I started doing my research and immediately ran into a problem, too many wonderful choices; hence the need for the advice.

What I am interested in is Ballbusting (yes with all that kicking, punching, slapping, squeezing, etc.) but done with a lot of sensuality . Now I know those of you who do not partake in this activity may think combining the words sensuality and ballbusting in the same sentence is a total non-sequitur but in the hands, and feet, of the right Dom it's certainly possible. So I am looking for someone who loves kicking someone in the balls but does it with a spirit of fun and with a lot of eroticism not with degradation or humiliation; in a phrase, someone who's attitude is "wickedly playful".

After doing some research, and assuming I am fortunate enough that any of them would book a session with me, it seems Mistresses: T, Courtney Dicknail, Bijou Steal, Jasmine, Veronica Harley of Tyra Stern would all be compatible with my interests. Presently I am leaning towards Mistress T or Mistress Courtney, however Mistress Jasmine's video clip "Balls of Steel" is pretty compelling and Bijou Steal is oh so beautiful and oh so devilish.

Anyway any wisdom you BDSM participants, ballbustees, or for that matter Ballbusters want to impart would be greatly appreciated. Quid pro quo, if you are interested in Seattle's Mistresses I will be happy to pass along what I know (I have seen a few who range from very sensual to very edgy).

Thanks,
terrafirma

 

[Small pleasures]

Those are all good choices.

To help others help you narrow it down maybe clarify if you only want ballkicking or something else in the session? Some of your choices offer FS, some allow oral worship/hand release, some don't.

Isn't it wonderful that several of your choices have vids so you can better window shop?
Www.clips4sale.com/studio/23869

I have been looking for a good film slave who can take real ball kicking. If you are willing to be filmed, masked or not, I will give you the filmed session for free (offer only available to extreme slaves). Then maybe you could sample more than one Domme during your visit?

You're also invited to my party on June 26 if you'll be in town.

 

[submissive_one]

Hi terrafirma,

i have been ballbusted by most of the best in vancouver. But i think for what you are looking for specifically i would recommend Yuliya Kate . i think that would be your best bet. For more extreme play i would highly recommend Jasmine.

regards,
submissive_one

PS: hmmm, just noticed your further post. Not sure if i can help you out there at all. Can't say whether the two i recommended can help you out. You would need an SP/dom for that. Good luck.

 

[terrafirma]

Thanks for the reply Mistress T

Mistress T:

First, I am thrilled you made a reply to my query. I have read a number of your threads and I have found your perspectives and advice to be spot on.

Second, I surmised from my research that within my presumptive choices of Mistresses there was a variation in the "options" that each Mistress would be willing to entertain in a session. I chose not to go into too much detail about my specific desires in my first post because I didn't want to limit the opinions that you all might make by assuming I had certain things that would be required to be "on-the-table". I have experienced marvelous ballbusting sessions that included mutual oral play/hand release but I have also had sessions where the Mistress was always clothed and the release was self given that were more erotic than some nude hand released sessions. For me it really is about the style and attitude of the Mistress that makes a session sensual. That being said, and taking your advice on clarification, I guess I would lean towards a session that included oral worship/hand release; but it is not a deal breaker. Oral worship just helps kick up my pain threshold so I get those really swollen balls and that nice 2 to 3 day ball ache, ah yes ballbusting the gift that keeps on giving.

I have noticed that you have always been generous with your advice and any further perspectives would be much appreciated and taken to heart (if you wish Post me or PM me, whatever you prefer, but please don't feel obligated I appreciate all the advice you have already offered).

Third, I will PM you about filming and the party. Thanks so much for the invite, what an honor!!!

Thanks,
terrafirma

 

[Small pleasures]

Mistress T:

I have noticed that you have always been generous with your advice and any further perspectives would be much appreciated and taken to heart
Thanks,
terrafirma

Alrighty then, more advice it is.

I am not 100% sure who allows oral worship and provides hand release and I don't want to get myself into hot water by giving incorrect info. Some Dommes make this decision in the moment depending on the client too...I know that Bijou Steal will not budge on this, no oral worship or HJ.

I do and I'm pretty sure that Courtney advertises she allows oral worship and HJ.

You'll have to inquire individually to each anyway regarding availability as soon as you know what dates you'll be in Van, ask at that time.

Physically, what are you usually attracted to? Does that impact your decision? We all look pretty different. I always warn clients that I am VERY tiny as sometimes they get the impression from pics/vids that I'm tall. Some guys prefer a taller Domme, especially in a physical session like ballbusting. If you're tall I might need you to get on your knees!

Anyway, I'm sorry no one else has responded to your post. To be honest, I don't think there are a lot of ballbusting fetishists in Vancouver who could give a personal opinion and there are only a couple hundred people who even read the BDSM section of Perb (and most are lurkers or 'tourists', as in they're not even into BDSM, they just want to see what the 'freaks' are up to.)

The good news is that all of the ladies on your shortlist have good reputations for being safe, sane, reliable and experienced. You can't really make a bad choice. Happy window shopping and whom ever you choose, I hope you post a review.

 

[terrafirma]

Hi Submissive_one:

Thanks for the advice. I really appreciate your experience and your "local knowledge".

I don't necessarily mind the sadistic side as long as there is a sensual side to it. I have had ballbusting situations that ranged from medium to pretty extreme (a bowling ball hanging from my balls, TENS unit, stun gun, bruised balls, balls swollen to 3 times there size, etc.) it just depends on the situation, the Mistress, and the inspiration on how much I can take and how much I enjoy it.

I thought about Yuliya, she fits the mold for me in so many ways, but I will probably be coming to Vancouver on my boat this time and Burnaby could be a little out of the way. You've got me thinking though.

Thanks,
terrafirma

 

[submissive_one]

You're welcome terrafirma.

Yes, Burnaby would require a cab ride. But i do think it would be worth the trip. If you wish to stay d/t, there are plenty of options, including Jasmine, so She is still an option for you. Good luck to you and wish you well. Let us know how it goes. There are also all the options for filming with the many, many dominas that have websites to keep in mind too.

Regards,

submissive_one

 

[MissJasmine]

I have had ballbusting situations that ranged from medium to pretty extreme (a bowling ball hanging from my balls, TENS unit, stun gun, bruised balls, balls swollen to 3 times there size, etc.)

Thanks for the lovely visuals. I love it when I meet a man who can really take it and maintain a dripping erection. The most extreme ballbusting scenes I've tried included injecting zylocaine in the cock and balls, covering them with needles and trampling/kicking him.

In the past couple of years I haven't met very many ballbusting fetishists, but most of the gents I've seen locally have returned to increase their pain threshold, and I'm always impressed with how much more a guy can take on subsequent visits). Terrafirma your balls sound like they are quite "seasoned" and would be well taken care of by any of the ladies on your list.

p.s. For your entertainment I have about 15 Ballbusting video samples here. Just search for "Ballbusting" under category and enjoy

 

[terrafirma]

Hi Mistress Jasmine:

Thanks for the comments and the link. Your clips are very impressive and I love that evil laugh of yours. You are quite scary and skilled; my balls started hurting just looking at the sample clips.

It is true that ones balls to get seasoned over time and also stretched out.

 

[terrafirma]

I don't know what came over me, but I just absolutely LOVED doing something I had always been so careful to avoid. The idea that hurting those sweet gemstones would bring so much pleasure was totally addictive!

Nice comments Nina.

My favorite Mistress in Seattle doesn't have many ballbusting clients so she loves it when she gets to pound away on me. Correlating with your comment she loves it because, as she says, it is such a Taboo.

And she can get giddy also. I remember one session as she was kicking away she just shouted "I love my life".

terrafirma