I've seen quite a few postings by 'perbs' who have talked about having a connection with some of the SP's (intellecutally and romantically as well as sexually) and was wondering if any SP's have ever become romantically involved with a client, or even become fast friends for that matter? Or do you keep the two worlds completely seperate?
Q for the Ladies - Romantic involvement
- Thread starter odin
- Start date
Fast friends.
I'm single, but still there is a line of discretion and aspect of business that needs to remain in consideration.
I'm not opposed to the possibility, but I'm also not open nor seeking a relationship from suitors. I'm paid for NSA. bottom line.
That said...I love my boys! If we don't connect on all levels mentioned, (intellectually, romantically, and sexually), then I would be concerned that possibly we are not a good match, or perhaps there is an extenuating circumstance.
Edit: OR perhaps that is not the connection sought for, in that particular session.
I'm single, but still there is a line of discretion and aspect of business that needs to remain in consideration.
I'm not opposed to the possibility, but I'm also not open nor seeking a relationship from suitors. I'm paid for NSA. bottom line.
That said...I love my boys! If we don't connect on all levels mentioned, (intellectually, romantically, and sexually), then I would be concerned that possibly we are not a good match, or perhaps there is an extenuating circumstance.
Edit: OR perhaps that is not the connection sought for, in that particular session.
If that connection isn't there then do you bring it up? Do you ask them to leave or refuse further meetings? I'm honestly interested in the dynamics.I'm single, but still there is a line of discretion and aspect of business that needs to remain in consideration.
I'm not opposed to the possibility, but I'm also not open nor seeking a relationship from suitors. I'm paid for NSA. bottom line.
That said...I love my boys! If we don't connect on all levels mentioned, (intellectually, romantically, and sexually), then I would be concerned that possibly we are not a good match, or perhaps there is an extenuating circumstance.
Edit: OR perhaps that is not the connection sought for, in that particular session.
Pre-session communication.
I usually know exactly what someone desires out of the session, before they walk in the door.
That allows me to deduce exactly what they seek...in terms of play, and also in terms of connection.
Some people don't want much...but that's rare. Why would anyone want to be in the same room, let alone sexual, with someone that they can't stand to hear talk, or allow to create a scene.
I can only report on my own experiences.
I suppose you ask me if the connection is there...which follows with...WHY?
NSA is a beautiful thing. We can be anything to each other, for a temporary amount of time. But you just don't have to deal with PMS, pregnancy, paying bills, etc that you would with a normal girlfriend.
And I...can have a wonderful time, for that short period, and go back to my life and independence at the end.
Hence, why not make the most out of your own time and money, and find someone that offers services according to your fantasies. Communicate your desires, before, during and after.
This allows for a connection. Not just humping some limp blow-up doll.
I usually know exactly what someone desires out of the session, before they walk in the door.
That allows me to deduce exactly what they seek...in terms of play, and also in terms of connection.
Some people don't want much...but that's rare. Why would anyone want to be in the same room, let alone sexual, with someone that they can't stand to hear talk, or allow to create a scene.
I can only report on my own experiences.
I suppose you ask me if the connection is there...which follows with...WHY?
NSA is a beautiful thing. We can be anything to each other, for a temporary amount of time. But you just don't have to deal with PMS, pregnancy, paying bills, etc that you would with a normal girlfriend.
And I...can have a wonderful time, for that short period, and go back to my life and independence at the end.
Hence, why not make the most out of your own time and money, and find someone that offers services according to your fantasies. Communicate your desires, before, during and after.
This allows for a connection. Not just humping some limp blow-up doll.
Hey now! Let's not be dis'sin' Blow Up Dolls.I usually know exactly what someone desires out of the session, before they walk in the door.
That allows me to deduce exactly what they seek...
...Hence, why not make the most out of your own time and money, and find someone that offers services according to your fantasies. Communicate your desires, before, during and after.
This allows for a connection. Not just humping some limp blow-up doll.
Some among the Blow-up Doll Community are among the sexiest on the planet!
And you KNOW it!
I'm soooooo disappointed in you!
Next you'll be attacking inflatible sheep, no doubt?
That would be BAAAAd.
I usually base my decision on services offered and the physical beauty of the woman. I think her ability to recognize exactly what is wanted and to make a believable job of fulfilling those fantasies is very important. That's why I always think of SP's as actors more than anything. To be beleivable, without going overboard, is a skill that not everyone has. Of course having an honest to goodness connection is always preferred but not always possible - in both directions.Hence, why not make the most out of your own time and money, and find someone that offers services according to your fantasies. Communicate your desires, before, during and after.
I am a whore. I love everyone....some because they are bald, some because they are eclectic, some because they are shy, some because they are goofy....there are so many things to love in so many men!
Yes
Yes to everything you have asked.
The answers will be different for every woman, as every woman is different.
Some are very skilled in keeping the two worlds apart, others are not.
This topic has been asked a thousand and more times and the replies will be a varied as the women who post.
Always a good read.
xoxooxo
gg
I've seen quite a few postings by 'perbs' who have talked about having a connection with some of the SP's (intellectually and romantically as well as sexually) and was wondering if any SP's have ever become romantically involved with a client, or even become fast friends for that matter? Or do you keep the two worlds completely seperate?
Yes to everything you have asked.
The answers will be different for every woman, as every woman is different.
Some are very skilled in keeping the two worlds apart, others are not.
This topic has been asked a thousand and more times and the replies will be a varied as the women who post.
Always a good read.
xoxooxo
gg
