This has been an excellent thread - thanks to all for participating. Educational and entertaining.
Throwing in here ... I (ahem) have some experience in giving massage, not for a living just something I've picked up in 40+ years of loving women. If a provider allows it, it is my absolute pleasure to provide her a massage and for me, nothing is hotter than at the point where I am giving attention to the perineum with slips of fingers across anus, vulva and touches to clit when my gal lifts her hips up and gets up on all fours to enjoy what I am doing. It's all chemistry and I guess trust which makes the whole thing work well. Then the flip over and with consent of course, time for me to dine.
For the experts here, Dr. Beckett, Miss Hunter and everyone, a technique I've used is the alphabet process, tongue following A, B, C, etc, minimal but strategic fingers added in, not yet inserted, then as the swelling starts, one, then two fingers and a push on the mythical G spot. Maybe my signature move? Maybe not, but as I start to sense she is close to cumming, that trailing pinky finds the anus and caresses, then inserts, maybe half an inch. So far I have had a couple of objections to that but for the most part it seems to enhance things, and I really dig having the contractions on my inserted fingers, the little pinky and frankly damn near having my ears pulled off ....
On the finding the G spot aspect, do the women here find that come hither push OK or uncomfortable?
On the trailing pinky, and again I am talking staying pretty much to the anus and no more than 1/2 an inch in, is that something you gals like? dislike?
In the moment, I tend to forget to ask.
Cheers all
Throwing in here ... I (ahem) have some experience in giving massage, not for a living just something I've picked up in 40+ years of loving women. If a provider allows it, it is my absolute pleasure to provide her a massage and for me, nothing is hotter than at the point where I am giving attention to the perineum with slips of fingers across anus, vulva and touches to clit when my gal lifts her hips up and gets up on all fours to enjoy what I am doing. It's all chemistry and I guess trust which makes the whole thing work well. Then the flip over and with consent of course, time for me to dine.
For the experts here, Dr. Beckett, Miss Hunter and everyone, a technique I've used is the alphabet process, tongue following A, B, C, etc, minimal but strategic fingers added in, not yet inserted, then as the swelling starts, one, then two fingers and a push on the mythical G spot. Maybe my signature move? Maybe not, but as I start to sense she is close to cumming, that trailing pinky finds the anus and caresses, then inserts, maybe half an inch. So far I have had a couple of objections to that but for the most part it seems to enhance things, and I really dig having the contractions on my inserted fingers, the little pinky and frankly damn near having my ears pulled off ....
On the finding the G spot aspect, do the women here find that come hither push OK or uncomfortable?
On the trailing pinky, and again I am talking staying pretty much to the anus and no more than 1/2 an inch in, is that something you gals like? dislike?
In the moment, I tend to forget to ask.
Cheers all