PSE and Extras

[DiggyCrisis]

Still new to the game. I’m hesitant to describe a recent experience since I do feel bad for the SP as she seemed really not into what she was doing anymore…like existential crisis level, lol

However when I booked at an agency, I paid for a vip/pse experience and picked extras from a menu (bbbj and cim). MSOG was available as well. I thought that this would have been communicated but in the 1.5 hours I booked but instead I got a gfe experienced from the SP.

I wasn’t sure if it was anything I did wrong. She went on a few breaks here and there and mostly drove conversation through the last 45 minutes. I’m trying to be cognizant of boundaries so I didn’t push for what I felt was something I pair for. In the end the moment the shower time came up I was rushed to the shower and dressed.

I asked if I did anything wrong and was told no everything was fine. I didn’t feel like I was insisting throughout the session but I got that “they just didn’t want to be there vibe” Fair.

Is there a point we have to be cautious about paying for extras as they’re not guaranteed? Was there something I did wrong that I’m likely not going to want to hear if I asked in person? Everything up to the appointment was great, the booking, the venue, but I just feel I didn’t get what I had paid for.

Would love to hear from both sides of the coin.

 

[lislelisle]

Sorry to hear your experience but you definitely did everything right in the situation. Unfortunately it happens and of course always have to respect what the girl is willing to do in the moment. The risk here lies any time youre not actually communicating with the girl herself, like booking through agencies, handlers, spas, etc. There's always the possibility that your interests and requests arent conveyed to the sp or they say she'll offer something when she actually won't. Would definitely recommend confirming with the sp herself what she offers whenever possible, and in person for the absolute removal of doubt. Obviously may not always be feasible but just gotta keep that in mind when requesting extras through agencies. The good news is you shouldnt expect this to happen often however.

 

[DiggyCrisis]

Sorry to hear your experience but you definitely did everything right in the situation. Unfortunately it happens and of course always have to respect what the girl is willing to do in the moment. The risk here lies any time youre not actually communicating with the girl herself, like booking through agencies, handlers, spas, etc. There's always the possibility that your interests and requests arent conveyed to the sp or they say she'll offer something when she actually won't. Would definitely recommend confirming with the sp herself what she offers whenever possible, and in person for the absolute removal of doubt. Obviously may not always be feasible but just gotta keep that in mind when requesting extras through agencies. The good news is you shouldnt expect this to happen often however.

Thanks I appreciate the insight. I’ll have to factor in the possibility of a ymmv and book at 1 hour next time before jumping in with a longer time booking. I asked for guidelines from the agency and didn’t receive any information so personally that makes me more cautious rather than assuming everything is fine. Lots of lessons here and makes me appreciate and respect SPs who find the motivation to serve clients.

 

[calgarylurker69]

personally when booking with agencies i just tell them the time i want (date and duration) as for extras i always ask the provider herself upfront what she offers because that way there can be no miscommunication with what donations are for

 

[DiggyCrisis]

personally when booking with agencies i just tell them the time i want (date and duration) as for extras i always ask the provider herself upfront what she offers because that way there can be no miscommunication with what donations are for

Thanks. I did find it odd there wasn’t a conversation about what I was looking for at the beginning. I paid for the lessons and the red flags. It’s interesting how it really is like any service oriented profession and there is a noticeable difference from someone who takes it seriously with enthusiasm vs someone who carries a dragged attitude.

 

[kirbzzz]

Yes miscommunication is common especially with non-independent SPs, best approach is to confirm in person.
You did nothing wrong believe me, I’ve went in for PSE’s and gotten basic massages and maybe a BJ as finisher.

 

[YYC]

everything is always YMMV so that may have played a role.

In my experience, agency bookers often don't communicate accurately with the woman. It's a reason I haven't booked an agency girl in a long time.

I also find that I've always had the best mileage and best experience with independent ladies. And Calgary has some great ladies who will offer you exactly what you looked for from this agency

 

[DiggyCrisis]

everything is always YMMV so that may have played a role.

In my experience, agency bookers often don't communicate accurately with the woman. It's a reason I haven't booked an agency girl in a long time.

I also find that I've always had the best mileage and best experience with independent ladies. And Calgary has some great ladies who will offer you exactly what you looked for from this agency

Thanks it makes sense to expect ymmv even if it isn’t provided as a warning, I did find it a better experience with communicating with an independent , there just hasn’t been many reputable options although I am just limited to looking on Tryst. It makes the experience way better knowing the person a little bit before the appointment.

 

[YYC]

Thanks it makes sense to expect ymmv even if it isn’t provided as a warning, I did find it a better experience with communicating with an independent , there just hasn’t been many reputable options although I am just limited to looking on Tryst. It makes the experience way better knowing the person a little bit before the appointment.

there are a ton of independents in calgary who offer PSE.

 

[DiggyCrisis]

there are a ton of independents in calgary who offer PSE.

Any recommendations on site on how to find their ads aside from the site I mentioned? I had negative experiences with Leolist.