This board has been really helpful over the past couple of years, so I wanted to share some of my experiences that will hopefully be helpful to other women like me (I know you’re out there!).
I’m in my late forties, and until two years ago, my only sexual experience was with my husband. We’d been monogamous for 20+ years, but had often fantasized about group sex and talked about making it a reality at some point.
When we decided to move ahead, we wanted to take it slow, giving ourselves time to savour new experiences, talk things over, and work through our feelings. Seeing professionals was a good way to have a lot of choice and control over our encounters, ease our way into the “firsts,” and keep things just about sex and not romance.
Jumping into a threesome felt too overwhelming when I had never even kissed another person! So we began by each going out for solo sensual massage. After a few months, we felt ready for our first couples’ massage. We continued to see massage providers on our own, and about six months later we had our first couples’ session with a full-service provider.
Out of all the people I’ve seen, here are my recommendations. I’m not going to go into detail about rates, services, and locations, but I’ve linked to their info.
Massage providers
Aurora (2862) made me feel comfortable from the moment we met. She was kind and friendly to a first-timer, and we had easy, natural conversations. Her massage skills are top notch, and the sessions were meditative and erotic. I saw her multiple times on my own and also had a lovely couples’ session with all the focus on me. I feel really lucky to count her as my initiation.
Aurora Roberts (6917) is such a unique provider. I’ve seen her for Level 1 and Level 2 sex and intimacy coaching, and she brings such an authentic and intuitive spirit to the experience. She takes a structured but improvisational approach, asks wonderful questions, and really held space for my explorations. If you love therapy, you’ll love sessions with Aurora Roberts - the dialogue is just as good as the physical experience (which is to say, very good!)
FS providers
Charlee!!! Charlee Beckett was fantastic, amazing fun. We had a couples’ session with her initially, and she picked up on exactly what we wanted and led the way with a very interactive and delightful threesome. I also saw her on my own for a quieter, more intimate experience. She made me feel seen and special, and I really cherish the connection.
Silvia at Asian Fever. Wowee. Our threesome with Silvia was something else. Deliciously enthusiastic and intense. Definitely one to work up to! But it felt really good to have developed the confidence to match her energy.
To any women reading this, feel free to DM me if you have more questions and I’m happy to share behind the scenes.
No DMs from men, please. I’m not looking.
I’m in my late forties, and until two years ago, my only sexual experience was with my husband. We’d been monogamous for 20+ years, but had often fantasized about group sex and talked about making it a reality at some point.
When we decided to move ahead, we wanted to take it slow, giving ourselves time to savour new experiences, talk things over, and work through our feelings. Seeing professionals was a good way to have a lot of choice and control over our encounters, ease our way into the “firsts,” and keep things just about sex and not romance.
Jumping into a threesome felt too overwhelming when I had never even kissed another person! So we began by each going out for solo sensual massage. After a few months, we felt ready for our first couples’ massage. We continued to see massage providers on our own, and about six months later we had our first couples’ session with a full-service provider.
Out of all the people I’ve seen, here are my recommendations. I’m not going to go into detail about rates, services, and locations, but I’ve linked to their info.
Massage providers
Aurora (2862) made me feel comfortable from the moment we met. She was kind and friendly to a first-timer, and we had easy, natural conversations. Her massage skills are top notch, and the sessions were meditative and erotic. I saw her multiple times on my own and also had a lovely couples’ session with all the focus on me. I feel really lucky to count her as my initiation.
Aurora Roberts (6917) is such a unique provider. I’ve seen her for Level 1 and Level 2 sex and intimacy coaching, and she brings such an authentic and intuitive spirit to the experience. She takes a structured but improvisational approach, asks wonderful questions, and really held space for my explorations. If you love therapy, you’ll love sessions with Aurora Roberts - the dialogue is just as good as the physical experience (which is to say, very good!)
FS providers
Charlee!!! Charlee Beckett was fantastic, amazing fun. We had a couples’ session with her initially, and she picked up on exactly what we wanted and led the way with a very interactive and delightful threesome. I also saw her on my own for a quieter, more intimate experience. She made me feel seen and special, and I really cherish the connection.
Silvia at Asian Fever. Wowee. Our threesome with Silvia was something else. Deliciously enthusiastic and intense. Definitely one to work up to! But it felt really good to have developed the confidence to match her energy.
To any women reading this, feel free to DM me if you have more questions and I’m happy to share behind the scenes.
No DMs from men, please. I’m not looking.
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