Some men can easily come to an orgasm when receiving a prostate massage and others cannot. Some find it uncomfortable, especially for the first time. The ones that I find to enjoy it most are the ones that are more seasoned. They have eagerly fantasized about it and have had it done properly more than once or have done this by themselves in their own privacy and are ready to take it to the next step by having it done by someone new. They are open to it because it isn't uncomfortable or unknown to them, so they are able to relax and dive into the sensations without any inhibition.
Some gentlemen are curious about what it feels like and like whynot2b8 there are those that don't get anything out of the experience at all and in fact, I have had clients that have said the same thing - that they really didn't get anything out of the experience. Just because I know how to do it, doesn't mean that I can give this miraculous experience to all that come to me. I am guessing that it is dependent on where the gentlemen are in their minds when they are having it done.
My advice for those of you that are curious about prostate massage is to have some private time to yourself and give yourself some time to go 'up there' and find out what makes it feel good for you in the same way that we all naturally masturbate. We know what feels good for us. When you find that spot and you're comfortable to be in that mindset, then you're ready to be with a provider or a significant other to allow her to do it for you. It's better when you can connect and trust her for this experience. Don't be afraid to tell her what feels good for you.
When I masturbate I can release myself within a minute if I'm aroused enough and when I need to orgasm quickly. With past partners, sometimes I can orgasm just as fast if I'm turned on enough and other times I cannot orgasm at all. Other times I allow myself restrain which makes my orgasm extremely heightened. We should know our bodies. When receiving a prostate massage it isn't something you want to do quickly. It's a slow process. It's very much in the mind and who you are with. Your comfort level with that person makes a huge difference. If you're aroused about it, just let it flow and trust your partner at the time. In my opinion this goes for anything erotic.
Let yourself go into the moment. I like to experiment with people and I enjoy slipping on my thin latex/non latex glove to allow you to feel the moment. If you like it, perfect! If not, that's okay too because regardless, there will always be my very favourite ~ happy ending
With love,
Katerina xo