Proper ettiquette on walking out on a escort
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It's your time...your money..
If the SP is not portraying her true self with her advertisement...be polite and leave.
Her loss.
That's when your little head lets your big head take over.
If the SP is not portraying her true self with her advertisement...be polite and leave.
Her loss.
That's when your little head lets your big head take over.
Yea I agree that you should at least say something to the girl rather than just bolting, but someone who advertises that she is "beautiful young and sexy" should not look like a hundred year old three headed troll either. Some girls just lay down so much bullshit in their ads that it shocks you when you get to the door. Do we have an obligation to be polite to someone who has obviously misrepresented herself to this degree??? Good question.
The sooner you leave the better for both parties. Don't waste her time by dithering, if you leave do it within a minute of meeting her.
Fake pics and gross misrepresentation in ads are epidemic in Winnipeg...including some women who are on here. If you stay and pay these fakers you are encouraging them to continue their bad faith practices.
They only do this crap because stupid/spineless guys keep giving them money instead of walking out when warranted.
Fake pics and gross misrepresentation in ads are epidemic in Winnipeg...including some women who are on here. If you stay and pay these fakers you are encouraging them to continue their bad faith practices.
They only do this crap because stupid/spineless guys keep giving them money instead of walking out when warranted.
......So I guess I was justified when the girl I went to see hiked up her skirt to show me her "Perfect" ass.........and I could see she had a prosthetic leg?
She advertised she had a "Barbie Doll" body....I never imagined that one leg would be made of actual plastic.
I had a moment of guilt, and nobody is perfect, but come on !.......Like I'm not going to notice?
I did apologize to her for walking, and she started to negotiate with me....I left like my tail was on fire.
She advertised she had a "Barbie Doll" body....I never imagined that one leg would be made of actual plastic.
I had a moment of guilt, and nobody is perfect, but come on !.......Like I'm not going to notice?
I did apologize to her for walking, and she started to negotiate with me....I left like my tail was on fire.
imo, never hurts to side with politeness no matter the situation
it doesn't take much to say – "I'm sorry, but I thought I was getting the girl in the ad".
show her on your smart phone, then smile, turn around and walk away.
if enough pooners do this it will make them think twice about shady advertising
and maybe post real pics.
besides, these ladies have feelings too.
DDcanz.....Now that was funny.
First of all, that DID happen..You can't make that shit up.
It was years ago in Kamloops, and Irene wasn't Asian....I still to this day, shake my head when I think about that.
I will admit she was pretty cool about it, as I'm sure thats happened before to her, and I was polite and compassionate.
First of all, that DID happen..You can't make that shit up.
It was years ago in Kamloops, and Irene wasn't Asian....I still to this day, shake my head when I think about that.
I will admit she was pretty cool about it, as I'm sure thats happened before to her, and I was polite and compassionate.
This is a really great and thought provoking topic to discuss both for SP's and for clientele.
One of the best methods of problem solving is prevention. If clients were to make proposals offering SPs a cancelation compensation if they were like the photos but not exactly what expected, I bet the honest ones would come forward with confidence.It might be a bit awkward and off putting for some but not for considerate or cooperative people.
Making an agreement to a cancelation policy around $50 can ease a bit of tension when it comes to photo specifics; for example, if the SP looks the same or very similar to the images, but the client imagined a slightly different persona and does not want to see the SP because of it, then that would be a fair reason for a cancelation compensation; but if the girl looks nothing as described, then the client should leave or tell her to leave asap.
There are many fake photos out there used as bait, and on the contrary, many who do use real photos either don't look the same, or they don't show their faces leaving room for misconceptions. " I like what I see and since your photos only reveal so much, how about if we plan for you to come over for the hourZ? If you are not the girl in the photos, you will be asked to leave without compensation, and if I have a problem with what the photos don't reveal, then I will give you a $50 cancelation fee for your time?" Does that sound reasonable?
The SP could also offer a 15 min session. I do, and many actually will read my fabulous reviews,
chose to see me for the 15, but are usually sure to extend (if I can) and come back at a different date. I look different in my photos than I do in person and many people do. I try to show as much as possible in photos so that I am not turned down.
From my experience, there can be much dishonesty with third parties; so it is wise to select independents over agencies that are not well known.
There are agencies (or small organizations to watch out for) who hire girls and don't portray their real photos in advertisements; they post a look a like, the client calls a line, speaks to a booking girl who pretends to be the girl (in one of the 10 girls who are being advertised listed in a row as independent) who is going to see the guy. The Sp is sent out, meets the guy and he is upset, the SP is stressed out about the unhappy client, she takes the blame, collects the money, and the agency just benefits off misfortune. That has to be one of the most stressful things about this industry I faced as a beginning SP. It did not take me long after to become independent. I just question how many organizations are up and currently running that way, and if not why would any honest, independent worker want to lead themselves into misfortune by portraying an identity with fake photos? I am pretty sure the majority of Sp's don't want to cheat or to portray themselves as rip off's. I think the majority of SP's want to look good in their photos but realistic, and then there is less room for disappointments when there are first time meetings. Many SP's show very sexy and accurate body shots, not including the face, so the photos are real, but because they dont show or reveal everything, that could leave room for misconception and be a good enough reason to set a cancelation policy or offer a compensation just to take the edge off of disappointment, embarrassment and time invested. A type of agreement before hand or offering a cancelation allotment is a good question to pose as a test to detect real VS fakes, it is a fair "ahead of time" agreement that both client and SP can make as a type of insurance, and it's a fair agreement to make so time and money are not wasted.
One of the best methods of problem solving is prevention. If clients were to make proposals offering SPs a cancelation compensation if they were like the photos but not exactly what expected, I bet the honest ones would come forward with confidence.It might be a bit awkward and off putting for some but not for considerate or cooperative people.
Making an agreement to a cancelation policy around $50 can ease a bit of tension when it comes to photo specifics; for example, if the SP looks the same or very similar to the images, but the client imagined a slightly different persona and does not want to see the SP because of it, then that would be a fair reason for a cancelation compensation; but if the girl looks nothing as described, then the client should leave or tell her to leave asap.
There are many fake photos out there used as bait, and on the contrary, many who do use real photos either don't look the same, or they don't show their faces leaving room for misconceptions. " I like what I see and since your photos only reveal so much, how about if we plan for you to come over for the hourZ? If you are not the girl in the photos, you will be asked to leave without compensation, and if I have a problem with what the photos don't reveal, then I will give you a $50 cancelation fee for your time?" Does that sound reasonable?
The SP could also offer a 15 min session. I do, and many actually will read my fabulous reviews,
chose to see me for the 15, but are usually sure to extend (if I can) and come back at a different date. I look different in my photos than I do in person and many people do. I try to show as much as possible in photos so that I am not turned down. From my experience, there can be much dishonesty with third parties; so it is wise to select independents over agencies that are not well known.
There are agencies (or small organizations to watch out for) who hire girls and don't portray their real photos in advertisements; they post a look a like, the client calls a line, speaks to a booking girl who pretends to be the girl (in one of the 10 girls who are being advertised listed in a row as independent) who is going to see the guy. The Sp is sent out, meets the guy and he is upset, the SP is stressed out about the unhappy client, she takes the blame, collects the money, and the agency just benefits off misfortune. That has to be one of the most stressful things about this industry I faced as a beginning SP. It did not take me long after to become independent. I just question how many organizations are up and currently running that way, and if not why would any honest, independent worker want to lead themselves into misfortune by portraying an identity with fake photos? I am pretty sure the majority of Sp's don't want to cheat or to portray themselves as rip off's. I think the majority of SP's want to look good in their photos but realistic, and then there is less room for disappointments when there are first time meetings. Many SP's show very sexy and accurate body shots, not including the face, so the photos are real, but because they dont show or reveal everything, that could leave room for misconception and be a good enough reason to set a cancelation policy or offer a compensation just to take the edge off of disappointment, embarrassment and time invested. A type of agreement before hand or offering a cancelation allotment is a good question to pose as a test to detect real VS fakes, it is a fair "ahead of time" agreement that both client and SP can make as a type of insurance, and it's a fair agreement to make so time and money are not wasted.
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First: never have anyone you don't know come to your home. It has wreaked havoc for me and many others. No no no.
No compensation if not the same person is good, especially if you can print off the galleries she stole her pics from.
$50 is okay if it's a minor discrepancy. I've seen $400/hr self proclaimed "elite" touring ladies answer the door hungover, high, no makeup, dirty sweats instead of agreed-upon lingerie...they should get nothing.
That is what the Asian agencies do in Winnipeg: they post pics of lookalikes. Sometimes they post the actual girl.
Sigh...ladies got lookie-loos and we got scammers.
Well customer's are always right is a well known and mostly adhered to principle.... So polite is nice but I would not see it as a requirement. Just good manners.....
Why not just say: "I am sorry, there seems to be a mistake. I was expecting someone else."
When they try and switch you, up sell, argue, etc. just politely repeat it, act confused and leave.
They will get it but you might have neutralized their anger or manipulation.
In terms of their lost time or perceived lost time, remember the incovinience of your travel time, paid parking, etc. etc.
Why not just say: "I am sorry, there seems to be a mistake. I was expecting someone else."
When they try and switch you, up sell, argue, etc. just politely repeat it, act confused and leave.
They will get it but you might have neutralized their anger or manipulation.
In terms of their lost time or perceived lost time, remember the incovinience of your travel time, paid parking, etc. etc.
One time I received a call asking if I was interested in doing food play... As I never had entered that realm of the fetish world I replied yes I am! About a half hour later a tiny little older asian gentleman arrived. When I say tiny I mean he was like under 5 feet tall. I had over a half a foot on him! I could just tell it was kind of going to be an odd session right away and I felt the same tenseness within. Within a minute he started getting uncomfortable and looked at his phone and said "oh no my car! I have to go Nadia! Here keep the groceries," he left me the fruit and vegetables and other various food items he was going to use on me. ound:
I feel like even if the pictures are right but if one is simply not attracted to the face or it is a reminderof a friend or family OR WHATEVER THE REASON, one should hardly have to explain. "Something's just not right. Sorry. Better luck next time." Perhaps wish them better luck on a date in the evening!
ound:I feel like even if the pictures are right but if one is simply not attracted to the face or it is a reminderof a friend or family OR WHATEVER THE REASON, one should hardly have to explain. "Something's just not right. Sorry. Better luck next time." Perhaps wish them better luck on a date in the evening!
I wasn't sure if I should share that story, because she was disabled, and that was no fault of her own. I did very deep down ,feel shallow..I mean I have some pretty huge scars myself that I never asked to receive...So I did feel empathy for her in that situation.
Like I said earlier, she was very cool about it when she realized it was not going to happen ,even after she lowered her price.
I also understand that she probably would never get a call if her add stated "Blonde hair,True Barbie doll body, because I really have a plastic leg"...Come to think of it ,I may have left an expensive bottle of wine for her time....Having said that, her add was very misleading for the average consumer. The way she reacted to my surprise, it was obvious that it had happened before.
I suppose there would be some that would overlook her situation ,and not walk out on her, and there would be others who would be rude about it.
Like I said earlier, she was very cool about it when she realized it was not going to happen ,even after she lowered her price.
I also understand that she probably would never get a call if her add stated "Blonde hair,True Barbie doll body, because I really have a plastic leg"...Come to think of it ,I may have left an expensive bottle of wine for her time....Having said that, her add was very misleading for the average consumer. The way she reacted to my surprise, it was obvious that it had happened before.
I suppose there would be some that would overlook her situation ,and not walk out on her, and there would be others who would be rude about it.
No need to 'fear' getting flack for leaving....hell man, think of it this way. You just spent a lot of time looking up who you wanna see, getting ready, finding the time in your day to go, driving, texting doing the dance...hell, the time it takes to earn the cash for an hour or less of fun (hopefully)...check perb for reviews...then you show up and whether it's she doesn't look like her pics but is still attractive to the other end of the scale where she's not even the same species as the girl in the pics...misrepresented bullshit. Just walk away, be polite don't be a dick. Just say no thank you...and walk.
As for a cancellation fee...fuck that. YOU lied and lured someone to come over when you've totally and knowningly lied about what you look like, what you are offering....etc. Then you want us to give you $50 cancellation fee??? Are you kidding me? For what? Your time? Riiiiight. Good luck with that.
Would you go to a shop that's advertising a certain service or item, find out that when you arrive that there is no such item, sale, or anything resembling what you just drove across town for and the sales person then asks for a few canoes for nothing, but you did show up so how about a fifty as well as wasting your time, gas, etc...? I really doubt it. Just be polite and leave. If they get sketchy....so what? They text you mean things....so what? Don't reward idiots and scammers.
Paying anyone who has got you in there under false pretences is just wrong. Just leave without causing a scene.
Fake pics are the biggest bone of contention to make someone want to walk and I don't think any payment is required. I don't even buy into saying "sorry" because they are the ones who should be sorry for their attempted deception and wasting your time.
I've walked exactly twice.
I looked and saw someone who may have looked hot in her pics 20 years ago and 40 lbs lighter back then but definitely a poor case of trying to extort $ with fake pics. I did the 360 spin and was back out the door in 5 secs. Plenty of threats came later that never materialized.
Other time was when I was more into quantity over quality. I saw a hot Asian SP on CL and it was too good to be true. It may have been her masculine looking grandma but definitely wasn't the hottie in the pics. Mammasan was quite belligerent as I was leaving which really made me decide to seek pleasure with SP's that were highly reviewed and to stay away from AMPs.
My lesson learned was to do more research, check for fake/stolen pics and keep my spydie senses on full alert with CL, BP and LL.
Fake pics are the biggest bone of contention to make someone want to walk and I don't think any payment is required. I don't even buy into saying "sorry" because they are the ones who should be sorry for their attempted deception and wasting your time.
I've walked exactly twice.
I looked and saw someone who may have looked hot in her pics 20 years ago and 40 lbs lighter back then but definitely a poor case of trying to extort $ with fake pics. I did the 360 spin and was back out the door in 5 secs. Plenty of threats came later that never materialized.
Other time was when I was more into quantity over quality. I saw a hot Asian SP on CL and it was too good to be true. It may have been her masculine looking grandma but definitely wasn't the hottie in the pics. Mammasan was quite belligerent as I was leaving which really made me decide to seek pleasure with SP's that were highly reviewed and to stay away from AMPs.
My lesson learned was to do more research, check for fake/stolen pics and keep my spydie senses on full alert with CL, BP and LL.
I have said so many times I sound like a stuck record......if we stay when the ad is blatant b.s. we ENABLE THE BS!!
for me, the key word is "blatant".look, I know the pic in the ad has approx. 10% chance of being genuine, as in
a)the lady in question
b)pic being up-to-date
I try to keep an open mind and when the door opens I want to see if the lady is "close" to the lady in the ad,and,very nb, if she is welcoming and I feel
a vibe,or connection, or whatever an attraction might be called.
having said that,when the 21 yr old in the ad has morphed into her 40's, and the D cup hus shrunk to an A,etc.I'm out of there.
not being rude,just say to the sp that it was the girl in the ad I wanted to see.
a few yrs ago,I took an ad with me&showed the girls(3-4 of them)in the micro the pic,which I was 99% sure was bogus.they were genuinely puzzled
asking each other in Cantonese "who is this?"
many times,the ladies don't even see the ads mamasan posts.
walk away gents, don't let the little head say "wtf,I'm here,I'll do the auntie."it only prolongs the problem.
re sybian's sp with the prosthetic leg,....had to be an awkward moment to put it mildly.
I'm wondering if a sp in a position like that might be better to just offer r&t? if I'm lying back just wanting a toss I don't think I'd care
about any "shortcomings" if that is an appropriate word?
just a thought.
for me, the key word is "blatant".look, I know the pic in the ad has approx. 10% chance of being genuine, as in
a)the lady in question
b)pic being up-to-date
I try to keep an open mind and when the door opens I want to see if the lady is "close" to the lady in the ad,and,very nb, if she is welcoming and I feel
a vibe,or connection, or whatever an attraction might be called.
having said that,when the 21 yr old in the ad has morphed into her 40's, and the D cup hus shrunk to an A,etc.I'm out of there.
not being rude,just say to the sp that it was the girl in the ad I wanted to see.
a few yrs ago,I took an ad with me&showed the girls(3-4 of them)in the micro the pic,which I was 99% sure was bogus.they were genuinely puzzled
asking each other in Cantonese "who is this?"
many times,the ladies don't even see the ads mamasan posts.
walk away gents, don't let the little head say "wtf,I'm here,I'll do the auntie."it only prolongs the problem.
re sybian's sp with the prosthetic leg,....had to be an awkward moment to put it mildly.
I'm wondering if a sp in a position like that might be better to just offer r&t? if I'm lying back just wanting a toss I don't think I'd care
about any "shortcomings" if that is an appropriate word?
just a thought.
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For some reason , young ladies tend to have their clothing fall off when I'm around....It remains a mystery to me.
So gentlemen...The next time you see a set of black stockings and a garter belt strapped around her thigh....You may want to give her legs a tap with your knuckle beforehand....Your more than welcome to blame it on a Cowboy friend of yours...Hell, I get blamed for a lot of things anyhow.
So gentlemen...The next time you see a set of black stockings and a garter belt strapped around her thigh....You may want to give her legs a tap with your knuckle beforehand....Your more than welcome to blame it on a Cowboy friend of yours...Hell, I get blamed for a lot of things anyhow.
One time, I tried to leave politely after a blatant bait and switch. The SP insisted that she was the person in the photo. So I pulled up the ad and told her that there's no way in hell she is the person in the photo. The ad also said the SP weighted 120 lbs. There was a scale in the washroom. I told her if she weighted within 30lbs of 120 (she was a borderline BBW), I'll gladly pay her a $25 cancellation fee. She finally caved and let me walk.
