I was just talking to a friend about Power of Attorney and a Living Will. They were saying that in order to do up a Power of Attorney, both you and the person you name to carry out your wishes, must be present in front of a lawyer to sign all of the necessary paperwork. In addition, they were telling me about what happens if you don't have a living will or Power of Attorney and you become incapacitated: (e.g., the banks don't listen to your relatives; hospitals do as they wish with you, etc.)
Can somebody confirm...firstly, do both people have to be present in front of the lawyer to do up both documents? Reason is...a relative told me that they had named me as a Power of Attorney for them, but I never went to a lawyer to sign anything, etc.
Second, is it as bad as my friend was saying....if you don't have these documents, your family basically has no recourse for your needs should something happen to you.
Would anyone be willing to share their experiences from both sides of the fence regarding this situation.
thanks.
Can somebody confirm...firstly, do both people have to be present in front of the lawyer to do up both documents? Reason is...a relative told me that they had named me as a Power of Attorney for them, but I never went to a lawyer to sign anything, etc.
Second, is it as bad as my friend was saying....if you don't have these documents, your family basically has no recourse for your needs should something happen to you.
Would anyone be willing to share their experiences from both sides of the fence regarding this situation.
thanks.






