Possible midlife crisis? What do ido?

[87112]

I'm in one, I spend hours on the weekend chatting high performance bicycles online. At least its a healthy hobby, not like doing drugs.

 

[manni]

I wonder if Team110 finally bought the red Porsche?

 

[Squishy]

I recently started for similar reasons and don't regret it. Wished I had done so years ago.

 

[BS Detector]

1. You need PROfessional counselling not PERBfessional counselling.
2. You already answered your own self when you refer to your dad.
3. If you have such a great relationship, why would you even go to a meet & greet (or wherever you met these ladies) and why would you even be on an escort review board ????????????
4. If you want to feel better about yourself, get a degree or diploma, or at least learn the difference between WHETHER & WEATHER. That will make you feel better about yourself, seriously, than extra curricular fucking.

Good luck. For your sake, and your family's, I hope you get straightened out.
Note to self...Stop reading these threads ! So frustrating.

 

[badbadboy]

1. You need PROfessional counselling not PERBfessional counselling.
2. You already answered your own self when you refer to your dad.
3. If you have such a great relationship, why would you even go to a meet & greet (or wherever you met these ladies) and why would you even be on an escort review board ????????????
4. If you want to feel better about yourself, get a degree or diploma, or at least learn the difference between WHETHER & WEATHER. That will make you feel better about yourself, seriously, than extra curricular fucking.

Good luck. For your sake, and your family's, I hope you get straightened out.
Note to self...Stop reading these threads ! So frustrating.

Awesome post!

I really wonder about people who seek such serious advise on a public forum with 99.99% of the people who really have no experience worthy of listening to in the first place. Seek out a professional. Do the right thing and not the thing some anonymous person on the internet told them to do online.

 

[Couldntthinkofaname]

Smoke a little bit of weed youll be good as new

 

[CJ Tylers]

Unless you are willing to lose literally *everything*, then I would advise counselling or buying a sweet ride. Do not step into this hobby unless you are a) willing to to it safely to protect your wife and child at all times, and b) be willing to accept the fallout and loss associated with having your hobby discovered by your wife.

 

[kennny]

Quote Originally Posted by newatit View Post
"This guy wrote back to saying he had met a woman (SP?) She convinced him not to do this but instead he felt sorry for her being a single mother so gave money and is taking her shopping. This gal saw a vulnerable guy and is capitalizing on it. Some body wake him up"

"What can ya do. Some people just have to learn the hard way. Maybe he took her to Dollarama"

I dont know, I think the SP did her best to save the man's marriage. She handled it professionally and deserves to be rewarded... in my humble opinion,,

 

[alsmooth]

This is the first couple months I'm single and I'm taking full advantage. Mid crisis or depression maybe... I have never enjoyed myself and let myself explore my options. I'm like a big kid in a candy store. Just one day at a time. A lot of decent caring people all around us.

 

[1nitestan]

Great wife and a kid who's the center of your world - regardless of all the reasons, temptations and tactics involved in this "game" there are only two reasons not to even entertain the thought.

Motorcycle - $20k
Sports Car - $50-100k
Escorts/Affairs - your soul, your partner, your kid(s), and half of everything you've built in your life.

 

[Elm]

Read through the thread, this guys in for a bad time.